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By *ophieh80 OP Couple
30 weeks ago

St Neots

Hi all,

Hoping to use some of your experiences here to ease our minds.

Obviously we are a married couple. We both really want to try a BMFC club night - most likely Dunstable. However, we have never been to any kind of swingers club before - and we are worried/nervous about a few things.

We are not a cuck couple. Hubby loves to watch me with other guys but also loves to join in.

How is the atmosphere at a BMFC event - what we mean is obviously we want to go to involve a few guys with us (hubby is straight), but don’t want to exclude hubby from any action, there is no way he would sit there for hours without being involved! How does that go down at a club event?

Thanks xxx

By *uci ClareWoman
30 weeks ago

Burntwood

"Hi all,

Hoping to use some of your experiences here to ease our minds.

We are not a cuck couple. Hubby loves to watch me with other guys but also loves to join in.

Thanks xxx"

Hey guys I can only speak from a BMFC Xtasia point of view. Absolutely your partner can be involved. I always say want to play with me then acknowledge my partner. In our dynamic my partner just likes watching.

As with everything set your clear boundaries and expectations when your chatting at the beginning of the evening when most people are socialising.

I see many couples having fun with their partners involved. I don’t see you having a problem and as I would say if you don’t feel comfortable and people can’t follow by your dynamic then it is their loss.

Never been to Dunstable but I’m sure the dynamics will be the same here and most guys follow and respect your rules for sure.

Hope this helps

Luci x

By *uci ClareWoman
30 weeks ago

Burntwood

Might also be worth messaging bmfc parties or checkout their website. There’s plenty of information on there

By *lue NotebooksCouple
30 weeks ago

Wirral

I honestly don't know what this stands for, what is it?

By *oreThanCurvyWoman
30 weeks ago

Bucks

The atmoshere in Penthouse Playrooms is very pleasant. You don't have to worry about anything, especially that you are with your husband. And everything can be discussed and agreed. If at any point you won't like anything, you can always say no. This club is very friendly.