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"I should qualify "in appearance". I am not that different from the unfuckable old guys in appearance. I think there's a vast fucking chasm of difference between our qualities of character." You're not old. | |||
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"You're not old. " visibly sucks in gut  thanks | |||
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"I'm going on Monday, it's supposed to be sunny and I want to oil up and toast my buns." lol who doesn’t like toasted buns right !! | |||
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"You're not old. visibly sucks in gut thanks"We all have a gut to suck in or other hang ups that bother us, but nobody else. That's the nice thing about this place, it's chilled out and friendly even if the decor is dated. I was nervous when I first went, being an older woman with wobbly and saggy bits I was very self conscious, but now I know how relaxed it is, I'm quite happy wandering around utterly naked and don't feel out of place or judged just because I'm not perfect. | |||
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I know. I just frustrate myself with poor discipline when it comes to food and routine, I know it doesn't matter in the broader sense. | |||
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"Went with my female friend on Wednesday. We had a great time. We massaged each other and had all sorts of fun. One thing I would say is that the prices have increased significantly. We were paying £38 per session per couple, on Wednesday it cost £45 Think it’s £29 for a single bloke. It’s a bit steep for us, so from now on we’ll only go on Mondays and Thursdays when women are free. Shame as we used to enjoy a Sunday there, but we’ve just been priced out. They are slowly but surely doing work and improving the place , but it’s hardly exotic! Fully understand that costs rise, but for the facilities they offer, it’s very expensive." We agree, as a couple its very expencive to visit Silverleighs by the time we have a snack & drink its over £55 | |||
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"Went with my female friend on Wednesday. We had a great time. We massaged each other and had all sorts of fun. One thing I would say is that the prices have increased significantly. We were paying £38 per session per couple, on Wednesday it cost £45 Think it’s £29 for a single bloke. It’s a bit steep for us, so from now on we’ll only go on Mondays and Thursdays when women are free. Shame as we used to enjoy a Sunday there, but we’ve just been priced out. They are slowly but surely doing work and improving the place , but it’s hardly exotic! Fully understand that costs rise, but for the facilities they offer, it’s very expensive. We agree, as a couple its very expencive to visit Silverleighs by the time we have a snack & drink its over £55 "Food has gone up steeply also. | |||
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"Oopps I ment Monday getting my days mixed up " Going to be a long week if yesterday was Thursday!! | |||
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some (not all) of the single guys think as women are free on those days they can act how ever they wish. Although its much more expencive we visit on days when the women are not free so you avoid the singles who dont know how to behave in a nudist enviroment  | |||
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"Oopps I ment Monday getting my days mixed up Going to be a long week if yesterday was Thursday!!" Yep tell me about it lol | |||
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"We dont go on Mondays or Thursdays anymore due to the large number of single guys some (not all) of the single guys think as women are free on those days they can act how ever they wish. Although its much more expencive we visit on days when the women are not free so you avoid the singles who dont know how to behave in a nudist enviroment "Yep staring to wonder if that’s my best option too actually | |||
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"Silverleighs reminds me of a 70s style holiday camp, especially the swimming pool area but it's part of the charm I think. I've only been a few times, once with my husband on a Wednesday and wasn't very busy and the others on a Monday with some girlfriends, had a lovely time each time. " lol yes I always say it’s like a 70’s holiday camp like yourself I love the Charm of the place . Maybe see you there sometime x | |||
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"Anyone going tomorrow? I've never been before and not sure what to expect X " Expect fog until about lunchtime. The place is up in the clouds this morning! | |||
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"Hi all I've never been but always wanted to.. where are the events information? Thanks " There are rarely events. Women go free Monday and Thursday. Sometimes there's a party on a Monday. | |||
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"We may go today hopefully meet a couple " Why not go to Eureka as it looks like being a nice day. Problem with Silverleigh on a Thursday is it will be full of single blokes chasing after the few single girls getting in free. | |||
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"Is this place clothing optional? Would I be the odd one out in a bikini thong? Xx" Hi Louisa, I'll admit I've only been a couple of times but it's pretty relaxed and I can't imagine anyone would comment if you wore a thong x | |||
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"Is this place clothing optional? Would I be the odd one out in a bikini thong? Xx Hi Louisa, I'll admit I've only been a couple of times but it's pretty relaxed and I can't imagine anyone would comment if you wore a thong x" It clearly says all over Silverleigh that any clothing is not allowed. I once witness the staff insisting a woman removed her bottoms. | |||
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"Is this place clothing optional? Would I be the odd one out in a bikini thong? Xx" I think you would (and you might be asked to remove it). Quite a few women cover up with towels, if that helps xx | |||
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"Is this place clothing optional? Would I be the odd one out in a bikini thong? Xx Hi Louisa, I'll admit I've only been a couple of times but it's pretty relaxed and I can't imagine anyone would comment if you wore a thong x It clearly says all over Silverleigh that any clothing is not allowed. I once witness the staff insisting a woman removed her bottoms. " I stand corrected | |||
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"I don't understand the anger that's my point. I'm not saying people should be wearing clothes at a nudist spa but why the hostility like someone committed the worse crime" No one here is angry or hostile, why are you projecting your strong emotions onto peaceful naturists? We are the friendliest and most chilled people one can meet 😁 | |||
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"I don't understand the anger that's my point. I'm not saying people should be wearing clothes at a nudist spa but why the hostility like someone committed the worse crime No one here is angry or hostile, why are you projecting your strong emotions onto peaceful naturists? We are the friendliest and most chilled people one can meet 😁" No im not but when someone mentions they're wearing a bikini for example someone here is ready to attack them for it. Now if that person was fully clothed like they going to a club then yes I would question why they there but if someone is wearing a bikini quite frankly nobody should care less about it | |||
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"I don't understand the anger that's my point. I'm not saying people should be wearing clothes at a nudist spa but why the hostility like someone committed the worse crime No one here is angry or hostile, why are you projecting your strong emotions onto peaceful naturists? We are the friendliest and most chilled people one can meet 😁 No im not but when someone mentions they're wearing a bikini for example someone here is ready to attack them for it. Now if that person was fully clothed like they going to a club then yes I would question why they there but if someone is wearing a bikini quite frankly nobody should care less about it" No one is attacking anyone. Just stating the fact that a naturist Spa is no clothing. Simple. You are just creating an argument for absolutely no purpose. | |||
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"I don't understand the anger that's my point. I'm not saying people should be wearing clothes at a nudist spa but why the hostility like someone committed the worse crime No one here is angry or hostile, why are you projecting your strong emotions onto peaceful naturists? We are the friendliest and most chilled people one can meet 😁 No im not but when someone mentions they're wearing a bikini for example someone here is ready to attack them for it. Now if that person was fully clothed like they going to a club then yes I would question why they there but if someone is wearing a bikini quite frankly nobody should care less about it No one is attacking anyone. Just stating the fact that a naturist Spa is no clothing. Simple. You are just creating an argument for absolutely no purpose." Im not actually | |||
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"It is a ridiculous argument, it’s a naturist spa and has been for 30+ years "Kool lets move on | |||
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"It is a ridiculous argument, it’s a naturist spa and has been for 30+ years Kool lets move on"Talking of moving on, a naturist spa is clearly not for you. | |||
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"It is a ridiculous argument, it’s a naturist spa and has been for 30+ years Kool lets move on
Talking of moving on, a naturist spa is clearly not for you. "It is as I've been | |||
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"It is a ridiculous argument, it’s a naturist spa and has been for 30+ years Kool lets move on
Talking of moving on, a naturist spa is clearly not for you. It is as I've been "Did you get and stay naked? | |||
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"It is a ridiculous argument, it’s a naturist spa and has been for 30+ years
Kool lets move on
Talking of moving on, a naturist spa is clearly not for you. "Clearly this is a problem created by a venue having an identity crisis. Is it a naturist venue only or somewhwere to have sexual encounters? Swingers are often naturists but not necessarily. Silverleigh can maintain its naturist identity only by insisting on nudity in the spa area. If they relax that rule, they should not be taken seriously as anything but a sex venue masquerading as a naturist one. It doesn't mean that naturists are asexual. Horny naturists are catered for at Silverleigh. Is the place really for people with no intention or desire to be naked there? Over to the owners on this topic, perhaps. | |||
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"O crikey, I just have a nasty scar, so prefer to cover up on my bottoms. Wasn’t looking to change the rules there lol. Just wondered if I would be the only one that’s all. Anyway thanks everyone doesn’t sound like the place for me. " Hi _tudlandlouisax It's a shame not one person actually answered your important question correctly! Unfortunately asking on a forum opens it up ridiculous passive aggressive comments (many on here with an axe to grind), hearsay, antidotal evidence, nonsensical analogies etc etc. (there is a reason why some are single, just saying). Anyway we were there Saturday (day and evening) and everyone was naked though quite a few guys wore towels and we often wore our sarongs when sitting in the lounge and eating. In the evening the smoking group were outside wearing robes or wrapped in towels but still in essence naked. As regards others comments, it is most definitely a naturist club and I don't think there is any identity crisis, yes they have private 'rest' rooms and yes they sell condoms but even at a naturist club what you do behind closed doors is none of anyone else's business. It's just rather an adult naturist club not a family one. Yes some guys go there to try pick up but we chatted to several with no hint of them 'pouncing' lol! Some even said they much prefer it to Rios as it's way more relaxed and people are more chilled and friendly. Oh and the correct answer to the question about bikini bottoms: ask the owners/staff direct. Same if you ever have a problem at a club, speak to the staff first! And yes we did ask, and had a most definite answer - you have to be completely naked (no bikini bottoms) in all areas except your room and lounge but a sarong or towel are perfectly acceptable. There are even signs in the pool area saying no bikinis! I would suggest if you want to go to a proper naturist club, contact the Naturist Foundation (family club) on their policy There is the VA's Lux lounge open only on certain sunny days (you have to check on the day). They have an lovely outside area (inside is closed) with a bar and hot-tub and allow anything clothing wise and you can be naughty if you like. There is DV-8 though that only has a small grassy area and the bar for drinks (no inside facilities except loos). Not sure sure what else there is, though it would be great for others to give some constructive suggestions rather than mock and argue please! | |||
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"Visiting this week and staying over. Any decent pubs or restaurants within walking distance of the place? Fully aware they have their own in-house cafe but would like some options. " There is a very good Indian within walking distance. May not look much from the outside but the food is excellent. There is a pub as well, but not eaten there so cannot comment. Finally there is the hotel at brands hatch, should the lure of a club sandwich strike. | |||
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"O crikey, I just have a nasty scar, so prefer to cover up on my bottoms. Wasn’t looking to change the rules there lol. Just wondered if I would be the only one that’s all. Anyway thanks everyone doesn’t sound like the place for me. Hi _tudlandlouisax It's a shame not one person actually answered your important question correctly! Unfortunately asking on a forum opens it up ridiculous passive aggressive comments (many on here with an axe to grind), hearsay, antidotal evidence, nonsensical analogies etc etc. (there is a reason why some are single, just saying). Anyway we were there Saturday (day and evening) and everyone was naked though quite a few guys wore towels and we often wore our sarongs when sitting in the lounge and eating. In the evening the smoking group were outside wearing robes or wrapped in towels but still in essence naked. As regards others comments, it is most definitely a naturist club and I don't think there is any identity crisis, yes they have private 'rest' rooms and yes they sell condoms but even at a naturist club what you do behind closed doors is none of anyone else's business. It's just rather an adult naturist club not a family one. Yes some guys go there to try pick up but we chatted to several with no hint of them 'pouncing' lol! Some even said they much prefer it to Rios as it's way more relaxed and people are more chilled and friendly. Oh and the correct answer to the question about bikini bottoms: ask the owners/staff direct. Same if you ever have a problem at a club, speak to the staff first! And yes we did ask, and had a most definite answer - you have to be completely naked (no bikini bottoms) in all areas except your room and lounge but a sarong or towel are perfectly acceptable. There are even signs in the pool area saying no bikinis! I would suggest if you want to go to a proper naturist club, contact the Naturist Foundation (family club) on their policy There is the VA's Lux lounge open only on certain sunny days (you have to check on the day). They have an lovely outside area (inside is closed) with a bar and hot-tub and allow anything clothing wise and you can be naughty if you like. There is DV-8 though that only has a small grassy area and the bar for drinks (no inside facilities except loos). Not sure sure what else there is, though it would be great for others to give some constructive suggestions rather than mock and argue please! " would suggest if you want to go to a proper naturist club, contact the Naturist Foundation (family club) on their policy The policy there is to dress or undress to your comfort level. No one really cares, it's a nice safe space. I would say silverleigh and Eureka are swingers clubs shrouded with a Naturist license. | |||
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"My partner prefers to keep her lower half covered when walking about. No one is going to police her on it." Yes they are. It’s a naturist spa and everybody is completely naked. There are signs saying no clothes at all. | |||
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"My partner prefers to keep her lower half covered when walking about. No one is going to police her on it. Yes they are. It’s a naturist spa and everybody is completely naked. There are signs saying no clothes at all. " What about evenings, are there any closing optional parties? | |||
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"My partner prefers to keep her lower half covered when walking about. No one is going to police her on it. Yes they are. It’s a naturist spa and everybody is completely naked. There are signs saying no clothes at all. What about evenings, are there any closing optional parties? " . No. Everybody out unless you're staying there and if you are staying, you are not allowed guests. | |||
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"Is Friday still couples only? " No | |||
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"I used to be a regular with my ex partner. Never been on my own but building up the courage to. It gets mixed reviews but I always say try things for yourself "Hello just putting it out there im looking for a lady who wants to join me or me join them and go to a club or even bit daunting as a single male attending on my own feel free to pop a pm if not good luck im sure you'll he fine 🙂 | |||
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"Hi all im lookning to go tomorrow daytime i just wanna steam and unwind can you tell me what i should bring with me i.e. slides soaps towel etc? any help with be amazing T.I.A "They provide towels, unlimited dry ones, during your visit. | |||
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"Who knew a little spa could be so popular. You have 174 posts remaining. It was pretty busy there yesterday, new faces, happy vibe " Just had a look at their website, looks decent enough. Some bad reviews though. I might go this week, never been before. | |||
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"Haven't been since before covid has it changed much since then Do the still have the tv room with porn on. " No porn anymore sadly. You’ll have to make do with Homes Under The Hammer to get your juices flowing | |||
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"Friday night is still couples night, single guys have to leave at 7pm I believe " I’ve just checked their website, singles can now attend the Friday evening party nights | |||
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"Friday night is still couples night, single guys have to leave at 7pm I believe I’ve just checked their website, singles can now attend the Friday evening party nights" Oh really? That must have changed fairly recently then | |||
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"I refuse to go to Silverleigh again so it would be best if someone else started a new thread about the place." Wow. Got to wonder what happened to turn a previously loyal customer against this club? | |||
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"I refuse to go to Silverleigh again so it would be best if someone else started a new thread about the place." Where else offers the same thing localy? We have looks at the one in Brighton but its quite a long drive also going to try Rio's x | |||
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"There is no harm to try rios but i ve been there once and never again. You can try heathrow abfab maybe. " We have been to abfabs & really enjoyed it BUT our membership has expired & for us to visit for a couple of hours will cost £100 (membership plus entry) its just to much money. Its strange with Abfabs they make it so expencive for couples | |||
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