FabSwingers.com forum: Silverleigh

By *ady Curvaceous OP Woman
37 weeks ago

Kent

Who knew a little spa could be so popular. You have 174 posts remaining. It was pretty busy there yesterday, new faces, happy vibe

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By *aughtybutverynice23Woman
37 weeks ago

Maidstone

Are many attending the party Friday evening ?

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By *ostringsfun84Man
37 weeks ago

Surbiton

Looking forward to visiting for the first time in a few weeks….usually it’s BGHS or studland for me.

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By *ed and WolfieCouple
37 weeks ago

Gravesend

We've been during the day a few times, but not for a while tbh.

What are the evening events like?

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

I went a few years ago it was a little run down when I went but i enjoyed the visit, I’d be interested to go along to another weekday daytime in a week or 2

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By *C79Man
37 weeks ago

Caterham

I went there yesterday for the first time. Honestly, I don't think I'll go back. Everything seemed very tired & a bit of a clique for regulars. I did chat to 3 or 4 gents who were all nice blokes and the staff are all friendly. It just felt grubby

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By *ove a bjMan
37 weeks ago

Liverpool

Unfortunately my work trip has been postponed. I'll be there on the 13th. Hope it's sunny

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By *orisjackMan
37 weeks ago

caterham

Any one going on Thursday afternoon

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By *aughtybutverynice23Woman
37 weeks ago

Maidstone

Not many going Friday then ? lol

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By *ady Curvaceous OP Woman
37 weeks ago

Kent

I'm going on Monday, it's supposed to be sunny and I want to oil up and toast my buns.

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By *untyfontaineMan
37 weeks ago

Bexley

So I went, was on the whole nice; owner was super friendly, the staff too (although I did hear gossip about one, I didn't meet him). Easy to get to, I think it'll be easy to get to without a car which is my normal state. Liked the facilities.

Down points:

1. Some dude in the steam room tugging his flaccid dork with melancholy... even if I was into unsolicited masturbating (which I'm not) this was just a sad and depressing sight. Have more self esteem fella, or maybe stop playing with yourself in front of people.

2. Unfuckable old guys being gross about a couple (I've seen their fab profile from this the previous chat thread) who are strangers to them, and then banging on about it with a frankly disgusting air of self entitlement. Super gross. The wanking guy in the steam room was just sad but this was super gross.

3. Politics... I work in politics, I get paid not very much and have to spend 40+ hours a week enduring it. Trying to relax in a hot tub while people start outlining their particular issues with migrant refugees is a total mood killer. I go to places like this to escape those political viewpoints.

Beyond this... I go again. In likelihood after work. I enjoyed it on the whole. I acknowledge that I'm not that different from the unfuckable old guys. But at least I have the self awareness to try to avoid making people feel uncomfortable.

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By *untyfontaineMan
37 weeks ago

Bexley

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By *untyfontaineMan
37 weeks ago

Bexley

I should qualify "in appearance". I am not that different from the unfuckable old guys in appearance. I think there's a vast fucking chasm of difference between our qualities of character.

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By *ady Curvaceous OP Woman
37 weeks ago

Kent

"I should qualify "in appearance". I am not that different from the unfuckable old guys in appearance. I think there's a vast fucking chasm of difference between our qualities of character."

You're not old.

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By *untyfontaineMan
37 weeks ago

Bexley

"You're not old. "

visibly sucks in gut

thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

I might go this Saturday now I feel a lil bit better

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By *aughtybutverynice23Woman
37 weeks ago

Maidstone

"I'm going on Monday, it's supposed to be sunny and I want to oil up and toast my buns."

lol who doesn’t like toasted buns right !!

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By *ady Curvaceous OP Woman
37 weeks ago

Kent

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By *ady Curvaceous OP Woman
37 weeks ago

Kent

"You're not old.

visibly sucks in gut

thanks"

We all have a gut to suck in or other hang ups that bother us, but nobody else. That's the nice thing about this place, it's chilled out and friendly even if the decor is dated. I was nervous when I first went, being an older woman with wobbly and saggy bits I was very self conscious, but now I know how relaxed it is, I'm quite happy wandering around utterly naked and don't feel out of place or judged just because I'm not perfect.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

No sucking in or holding up needed . Such a relaxed environment to be yourself.. naked and free

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By *untyfontaineMan
37 weeks ago

Bexley

Thanks both.

I know. I just frustrate myself with poor discipline when it comes to food and routine, I know it doesn't matter in the broader sense.

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By *eachlifeMan
37 weeks ago

Kent

Went with my female friend on Wednesday. We had a great time.

We massaged each other and had all sorts of fun.

One thing I would say is that the prices have increased significantly.

We were paying £38 per session per couple, on Wednesday it cost £45

Think it’s £29 for a single bloke.

It’s a bit steep for us, so from now on we’ll only go on Mondays and Thursdays when women are free.

Shame as we used to enjoy a Sunday there, but we’ve just been priced out.

They are slowly but surely doing work and improving the place , but it’s hardly exotic!

Fully understand that costs rise, but for the facilities they offer, it’s very expensive.

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By *ssexcouple99Couple
37 weeks ago

brentwood

"Went with my female friend on Wednesday. We had a great time.

We massaged each other and had all sorts of fun.

One thing I would say is that the prices have increased significantly.

We were paying £38 per session per couple, on Wednesday it cost £45

Think it’s £29 for a single bloke.

It’s a bit steep for us, so from now on we’ll only go on Mondays and Thursdays when women are free.

Shame as we used to enjoy a Sunday there, but we’ve just been priced out.

They are slowly but surely doing work and improving the place , but it’s hardly exotic!

Fully understand that costs rise, but for the facilities they offer, it’s very expensive."

We agree, as a couple its very expencive to visit Silverleighs by the time we have a snack & drink its over £55

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By *ady Curvaceous OP Woman
37 weeks ago

Kent

"Went with my female friend on Wednesday. We had a great time.

We massaged each other and had all sorts of fun.

One thing I would say is that the prices have increased significantly.

We were paying £38 per session per couple, on Wednesday it cost £45

Think it’s £29 for a single bloke.

It’s a bit steep for us, so from now on we’ll only go on Mondays and Thursdays when women are free.

Shame as we used to enjoy a Sunday there, but we’ve just been priced out.

They are slowly but surely doing work and improving the place , but it’s hardly exotic!

Fully understand that costs rise, but for the facilities they offer, it’s very expensive.

We agree, as a couple its very expencive to visit Silverleighs by the time we have a snack & drink its over £55

Food has gone up steeply also.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Last time we went we stayed over we went out for food .. there’s a nice cafe just to left and a bit further down there’s a lovely pub

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By *unandgames247Man
37 weeks ago

Chelmsford

I'm aiming to be down there during the day on Friday 7th so hope to see some of you there!

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By (user no longer on site)
36 weeks ago

I am free this Friday well “working from home” I could venture out to silverleigh is anybody else going.

I’d quite like to have a chat with someone with the view to get meet verified

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By *ostringsfun84Man
36 weeks ago

Surbiton

How was the turnout yesterday, weather was a bit disappointing. Cool on Thursday but hoping to get down, anyone planning a visit?

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By *adam07Man
36 weeks ago

london

You never know when its a good day.

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By *arleysarCouple
36 weeks ago

Redhill/Reigate

We are thinking about going Friday evening for a bit of fun

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By *aughtybutverynice23Woman
36 weeks ago

Maidstone

Yesterday ( Thursday) was quite busy really very few ladies around .

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By *aughtybutverynice23Woman
36 weeks ago

Maidstone

Oopps I ment Monday getting my days mixed up

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By *ostringsfun84Man
36 weeks ago

Surbiton

"Oopps I ment Monday getting my days mixed up "

Going to be a long week if yesterday was Thursday!!

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By *ssexcouple99Couple
36 weeks ago

brentwood

We dont go on Mondays or Thursdays anymore due to the large number of single guys

some (not all) of the single guys think as women are free on those days they can act how ever they wish. Although its much more expencive we visit on days when the women are not free so you avoid the singles who dont know how to behave in a nudist enviroment

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By *aughtybutverynice23Woman
36 weeks ago

Maidstone

"Oopps I ment Monday getting my days mixed up

Going to be a long week if yesterday was Thursday!!"

Yep tell me about it lol

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By *aughtybutverynice23Woman
36 weeks ago

Maidstone

"We dont go on Mondays or Thursdays anymore due to the large number of single guys

Yep staring to wonder if that’s my best option too actually

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By *rentwood38Man
36 weeks ago

Brentwood

Anyone going tomorrow?

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By *objob1973Man
36 weeks ago

braintree

I am hoping to go . 1st time keep chickening out

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By *uttercup and BeauCouple
36 weeks ago

kent

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By *uttercup and BeauCouple
36 weeks ago

kent

We went on Monday afternoon, first time for months. We chatted to some great people in the steam room. However we left after only a couple of hours as the awful music was far too loud, not very relaxing at all!!

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By *orisjackMan
36 weeks ago

caterham

Any one going Thursday afternoon

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By *sagentMan
36 weeks ago

In the ether

Coming to Erith next week, is this a place worth the visit. Lots of conflicting posts, never exprmect fun at any club but do enjoy being in and around fun

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By *ssexcouple99Couple
36 weeks ago

brentwood

Had a lovely afternoon at Sliverleighs today, Mandy was the only woman but we still had fun. We ended up spending over £50 although it was nice it was a very expencive couple of hours. We think the cost is whats putting other couples off visiting

we wont be back for a while

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By *aughtybutverynice23Woman
36 weeks ago

Maidstone

If anyone knows similar venues locally please do let me know of them .

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
36 weeks ago

somewhere

Silverleighs reminds me of a 70s style holiday camp, especially the swimming pool area but it's part of the charm I think.

I've only been a few times, once with my husband on a Wednesday and wasn't very busy and the others on a Monday with some girlfriends, had a lovely time each time.

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By *aughtybutverynice23Woman
36 weeks ago

Maidstone

"Silverleighs reminds me of a 70s style holiday camp, especially the swimming pool area but it's part of the charm I think.

I've only been a few times, once with my husband on a Wednesday and wasn't very busy and the others on a Monday with some girlfriends, had a lovely time each time. "

lol yes I always say it’s like a 70’s holiday camp like yourself I love the Charm of the place . Maybe see you there sometime x

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By *ood Time RMan
36 weeks ago

London / Hertfordshire

Thinking to head up there today. Anyone else going

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By *ice_fun_guyMan
36 weeks ago

Cranleigh

Think I need to try out Silverleigh. Usually go to BGHS but fancy a change.

Are they strict rules like no amorous behaviour outside of the play areas?

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By *imber373Man
36 weeks ago

Milton Keynes

Planning a visit Monday 17th, could be a bit of a sausage fest as women are free and single guys usually swarm the place

Haven’t been for a while, want to see if it’s still any good

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By *ove a bjMan
35 weeks ago

Liverpool

Any ladies or couples going this Thursday? I have a work trip so I will be visiting Thursday evening. Message me if you're going.

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By *ustforus71Couple
35 weeks ago

Tunbridge Wells

Yep we will hopefully be there Thursday too

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By *ou4funCouple
35 weeks ago

farnborough

We are think of a visit soon what do we need to know about the place ? Only done kestrels before this

Any helpful hints would be amazing ? X

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By *oungGentlemen7Man
35 weeks ago

Thinking of visiting this place one day over the next couple of weeks. Never been before so slightly nervous.. any advice for a single guy visiting?

Any feed back would be much appreciated.

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By *tephenGLMan
35 weeks ago

croydon

Just go with the flow and enjoy the place. It's what I'd call old school. The people there are friendly and easy to talk with. Don't go with expectations to play. Pick a sunny day and enjoy the garden

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

The next time I will try and go next month to.meet someone there

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By *taylorMan
35 weeks ago

SE LDN

Anyone planning to be there today?

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By *orisjackMan
35 weeks ago

caterham

Any one going today

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By *ohnroyalMan
29 weeks ago

swanley

Anyone going tonight or know if it's any good on a Wednesday night?

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

Looks like a nice weekend, so I’ll be there relaxing in the sun. I suspect it will be quite busy

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By *ood Time RMan
29 weeks ago

London / Hertfordshire

Looking to head there today. Anyone else going there today?

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By *BChunter4uCouple
29 weeks ago

Exeter

We'll be there gorgeous xx

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By *eviant TogMan
28 weeks ago

Lanarkshire

Anyone heading there soon?

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By *adam07Man
28 weeks ago

london

Anyone going Silverleigh today?

I plan to go this afternoon. Hope it's a good one

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By *ohnroyalMan
28 weeks ago

swanley

I'll be going this evening I think.

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By *k62023Man
28 weeks ago

Enfield

Anyone going tomorrow? I've never been before and not sure what to expect X

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By *ornucopiaMan
28 weeks ago

Bexley

"Anyone going tomorrow? I've never been before and not sure what to expect X "

Expect fog until about lunchtime. The place is up in the clouds this morning!

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By *ave52Man
28 weeks ago

Great Dunmow

Very droll!

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By *akedsunloversCouple
27 weeks ago

midlands

thinking of going monday 5th & staying over,anyone else going ??

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By *ommygee88Man
27 weeks ago

feltham

Hi all I've never been but always wanted to.. where are the events information? Thanks

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By *ady Curvaceous OP Woman
27 weeks ago

Kent

"Hi all I've never been but always wanted to.. where are the events information? Thanks "

There are rarely events. Women go free Monday and Thursday. Sometimes there's a party on a Monday.

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By *arleysarCouple
27 weeks ago

Redhill/Reigate

We may go today hopefully meet a couple

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By *ornucopiaMan
27 weeks ago

Bexley

"We may go today hopefully meet a couple "

Why not go to Eureka as it looks like being a nice day.

Problem with Silverleigh on a Thursday is it will be full of single blokes chasing after the few single girls getting in free.

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By *arleysarCouple
27 weeks ago

Redhill/Reigate

Pool far.too cold unlike the old days

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

Might be looking to go SilverLeigh on Saturday

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By *tudlandlouisaxWoman
26 weeks ago

lincoln

Is this place clothing optional? Would I be the odd one out in a bikini thong? Xx

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By *urenutsMan
26 weeks ago

waltham cross/Harrow HA1

Anyone heading there on Friday

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By *unandgames247Man
26 weeks ago

Chelmsford

"Is this place clothing optional? Would I be the odd one out in a bikini thong? Xx"

Hi Louisa, I'll admit I've only been a couple of times but it's pretty relaxed and I can't imagine anyone would comment if you wore a thong x

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By *eachlifeMan
26 weeks ago

Kent

"Is this place clothing optional? Would I be the odd one out in a bikini thong? Xx

Hi Louisa, I'll admit I've only been a couple of times but it's pretty relaxed and I can't imagine anyone would comment if you wore a thong x"

It clearly says all over Silverleigh that any clothing is not allowed.

I once witness the staff insisting a woman removed her bottoms.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

"Is this place clothing optional? Would I be the odd one out in a bikini thong? Xx"

I think you would (and you might be asked to remove it). Quite a few women cover up with towels, if that helps xx

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By *unandgames247Man
26 weeks ago

Chelmsford

"Is this place clothing optional? Would I be the odd one out in a bikini thong? Xx

Hi Louisa, I'll admit I've only been a couple of times but it's pretty relaxed and I can't imagine anyone would comment if you wore a thong x

It clearly says all over Silverleigh that any clothing is not allowed.

I once witness the staff insisting a woman removed her bottoms. "

I stand corrected

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

Not sure why people get angry if someone where's a piece of clothing at the venue. It's their business leave them be

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By *imber373Man
26 weeks ago

Milton Keynes

No need to wear any clothing at a naturist spa, applicable to all attendees.

If you want to keep your swimwear on, go visit a normal spa, club whatever you fancy. Just leave the few naturist places to people who enjoy being with other naturists

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

Well it’s a naturist spa , you don’t go to a golf course and take a cricket bat and expect to be just left alone because you prefer it, it says what it is on the tin 🤷‍♂️😊

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

I don't understand the anger that's my point. I'm not saying people should be wearing clothes at a nudist spa but why the hostility like someone committed the worse crime

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

I don’t care either way tbh, but take rios for example, if one does everyone does , and then you’ve not got a naturist spa , it’s exactly the same in spas abroad who are far more strict and the silverleigh is far more like a German naturist spa environment

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

You could make the same argument about why some blokes need cock rings and sit twirling them while people are eating there lunch lol I’d take swim suits all day long

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By *imber373Man
26 weeks ago

Milton Keynes

"I don't understand the anger that's my point. I'm not saying people should be wearing clothes at a nudist spa but why the hostility like someone committed the worse crime"

No one here is angry or hostile, why are you projecting your strong emotions onto peaceful naturists? We are the friendliest and most chilled people one can meet 😁

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

Quite right too lol 👌😊

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

"I don't understand the anger that's my point. I'm not saying people should be wearing clothes at a nudist spa but why the hostility like someone committed the worse crime

No one here is angry or hostile, why are you projecting your strong emotions onto peaceful naturists? We are the friendliest and most chilled people one can meet 😁"
No im not but when someone mentions they're wearing a bikini for example someone here is ready to attack them for it. Now if that person was fully clothed like they going to a club then yes I would question why they there but if someone is wearing a bikini quite frankly nobody should care less about it

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

If you people are friendly then you love thy neighbour 🙂

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By *ed and WolfieCouple
26 weeks ago

Gravesend

"I don't understand the anger that's my point. I'm not saying people should be wearing clothes at a nudist spa but why the hostility like someone committed the worse crime

No one here is angry or hostile, why are you projecting your strong emotions onto peaceful naturists? We are the friendliest and most chilled people one can meet 😁 No im not but when someone mentions they're wearing a bikini for example someone here is ready to attack them for it. Now if that person was fully clothed like they going to a club then yes I would question why they there but if someone is wearing a bikini quite frankly nobody should care less about it"

No one is attacking anyone. Just stating the fact that a naturist Spa is no clothing. Simple. You are just creating an argument for absolutely no purpose.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

It is a ridiculous argument, it’s a naturist spa and has been for 30+ years

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By *imber373Man
26 weeks ago

Milton Keynes

Amen to that 🙏🏻😂

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

"I don't understand the anger that's my point. I'm not saying people should be wearing clothes at a nudist spa but why the hostility like someone committed the worse crime

No one is attacking anyone. Just stating the fact that a naturist Spa is no clothing. Simple. You are just creating an argument for absolutely no purpose."
Im not actually

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

"It is a ridiculous argument, it’s a naturist spa and has been for 30+ years

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Kool lets move on

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By *unguy0069Man
26 weeks ago

Reigate

"It is a ridiculous argument, it’s a naturist spa and has been for 30+ years

Kool lets move on"

Talking of moving on, a naturist spa is clearly not for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

"It is a ridiculous argument, it’s a naturist spa and has been for 30+ years

Kool lets move on

Talking of moving on, a naturist spa is clearly not for you. "
It is as I've been

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By *unguy0069Man
26 weeks ago

Reigate

"It is a ridiculous argument, it’s a naturist spa and has been for 30+ years

Kool lets move on

Talking of moving on, a naturist spa is clearly not for you. It is as I've been "

Did you get and stay naked?

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By *ed and WolfieCouple
26 weeks ago

Gravesend

A lovely day there today. And not a bikini in sight lol.

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By *g1979Man
26 weeks ago

bexley

I hear Fridays is no longer couples only. That's a shame.

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By *tudlandlouisaxWoman
26 weeks ago

lincoln

O crikey,

I just have a nasty scar, so prefer to cover up on my bottoms.

Wasn’t looking to change the rules there lol. Just wondered if I would be the only one that’s all.

Anyway thanks everyone doesn’t sound like the place for me.

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By *ornucopiaMan
26 weeks ago

Bexley

"It is a ridiculous argument, it’s a naturist spa and has been for 30+ years

Kool lets move on

Talking of moving on, a naturist spa is clearly not for you. "

Clearly this is a problem created by a venue having an identity crisis.

Is it a naturist venue only or somewhwere to have sexual encounters? Swingers are often naturists but not necessarily.

Silverleigh can maintain its naturist identity only by insisting on nudity in the spa area. If they relax that rule, they should not be taken seriously as anything but a sex venue masquerading as a naturist one.

It doesn't mean that naturists are asexual.

Horny naturists are catered for at Silverleigh.

Is the place really for people with no intention or desire to be naked there?

Over to the owners on this topic, perhaps.

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By *g1979Man
26 weeks ago

bexley

My partner prefers to keep her lower half covered when walking about. No one is going to police her on it.

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By *andfCouple
25 weeks ago

Bexley

Visiting this week and staying over. Any decent pubs or restaurants within walking distance of the place? Fully aware they have their own in-house cafe but would like some options.

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By *enfold1982Man
25 weeks ago

dover

I'm going on Friday to see what the new style evening entertainment is like.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

Had a relaxing time at SilverLeigh earlier although I didn't stay too long

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By *ensual but naughtyCouple
25 weeks ago

somewhere

"O crikey,

I just have a nasty scar, so prefer to cover up on my bottoms.

Wasn’t looking to change the rules there lol. Just wondered if I would be the only one that’s all.

Anyway thanks everyone doesn’t sound like the place for me. "

Hi _tudlandlouisax

It's a shame not one person actually answered your important question correctly!

Unfortunately asking on a forum opens it up ridiculous passive aggressive comments (many on here with an axe to grind), hearsay, antidotal evidence, nonsensical analogies etc etc. (there is a reason why some are single, just saying).

Anyway we were there Saturday (day and evening) and everyone was naked though quite a few guys wore towels and we often wore our sarongs when sitting in the lounge and eating. In the evening the smoking group were outside wearing robes or wrapped in towels but still in essence naked.

As regards others comments, it is most definitely a naturist club and I don't think there is any identity crisis, yes they have private 'rest' rooms and yes they sell condoms but even at a naturist club what you do behind closed doors is none of anyone else's business. It's just rather an adult naturist club not a family one. Yes some guys go there to try pick up but we chatted to several with no hint of them 'pouncing' lol! Some even said they much prefer it to Rios as it's way more relaxed and people are more chilled and friendly.

Oh and the correct answer to the question about bikini bottoms: ask the owners/staff direct. Same if you ever have a problem at a club, speak to the staff first!

And yes we did ask, and had a most definite answer - you have to be completely naked (no bikini bottoms) in all areas except your room and lounge but a sarong or towel are perfectly acceptable. There are even signs in the pool area saying no bikinis!

I would suggest if you want to go to a proper naturist club, contact the Naturist Foundation (family club) on their policy

There is the VA's Lux lounge open only on certain sunny days (you have to check on the day). They have an lovely outside area (inside is closed) with a bar and hot-tub and allow anything clothing wise and you can be naughty if you like.

There is DV-8 though that only has a small grassy area and the bar for drinks (no inside facilities except loos).

Not sure sure what else there is, though it would be great for others to give some constructive suggestions rather than mock and argue please!

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By *rivatepitMan
25 weeks ago

Battle

"Visiting this week and staying over. Any decent pubs or restaurants within walking distance of the place? Fully aware they have their own in-house cafe but would like some options. "

There is a very good Indian within walking distance. May not look much from the outside but the food is excellent. There is a pub as well, but not eaten there so cannot comment. Finally there is the hotel at brands hatch, should the lure of a club sandwich strike.

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By *iamond cockneyWoman
24 weeks ago

kent

Just spent Saturday day & night at Silverleigh although it wasn’t busy ( the Friday night was packed) it made for a very relaxed and chilled time… always my favourite place x

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By *aked CoupleCouple
24 weeks ago

East Anglia.

Do many couples stay over on either Friday or Saturday nights?

We are thinking of doing so but don't want to be rattling around on our own. Thanks

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By *ankz1088Man
24 weeks ago

london

Anyone going today?

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

"O crikey,

I just have a nasty scar, so prefer to cover up on my bottoms.

Wasn’t looking to change the rules there lol. Just wondered if I would be the only one that’s all.

Anyway thanks everyone doesn’t sound like the place for me.

Hi _tudlandlouisax

It's a shame not one person actually answered your important question correctly!

Oh and the correct answer to the question about bikini bottoms: ask the owners/staff direct. Same if you ever have a problem at a club, speak to the staff first!

I would suggest if you want to go to a proper naturist club, contact the Naturist Foundation (family club) on their policy

There is DV-8 though that only has a small grassy area and the bar for drinks (no inside facilities except loos).

Not sure sure what else there is, though it would be great for others to give some constructive suggestions rather than mock and argue please!

would suggest if you want to go to a proper naturist club, contact the Naturist Foundation (family club) on their policy

The policy there is to dress or undress to your comfort level. No one really cares, it's a nice safe space.

I would say silverleigh and Eureka are swingers clubs shrouded with a Naturist license.

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By *andfCouple
24 weeks ago

Bexley

Do many couples stay over on either Friday or Saturday nights?

We are thinking of doing so but don't want to be rattling around on our own. Thanks

We stayed over on Saturday and it was just us. Literally had the whole place to ourselves. Would have been nice to have a couple or two for company. Hubby was pretty disappointed. Won't be going back.

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By *aked CoupleCouple
24 weeks ago

East Anglia.

That's a shame. We have stayed before on a Friday night when they had the couples nights (now defunct). It was ok as there were a few of us. Maybe the way forward is to try and get a few couples to agree to stay over at the same time.

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By *eachlifeMan
24 weeks ago

Kent

"My partner prefers to keep her lower half covered when walking about. No one is going to police her on it."

Yes they are. It’s a naturist spa and everybody is completely naked.

There are signs saying no clothes at all.

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By *ravel CompanionsCouple
24 weeks ago

London

"My partner prefers to keep her lower half covered when walking about. No one is going to police her on it.

Yes they are. It’s a naturist spa and everybody is completely naked.

There are signs saying no clothes at all. "

What about evenings, are there any closing optional parties?

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By *ady Curvaceous OP Woman
24 weeks ago

Kent

"My partner prefers to keep her lower half covered when walking about. No one is going to police her on it.

Yes they are. It’s a naturist spa and everybody is completely naked.

There are signs saying no clothes at all.

What about evenings, are there any closing optional parties? "
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No. Everybody out unless you're staying there and if you are staying, you are not allowed guests.

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By *andfCouple
24 weeks ago

Bexley

Any similar spa establishments within close proximity? Been to Eureka, not for us.

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By *ady Curvaceous OP Woman
24 weeks ago

Kent

Closest would be bghs in Brighton. Woeful lack of any establishments in Kent.

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By *ankz1088Man
24 weeks ago

london

Is Friday still couples only?

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By *ady Curvaceous OP Woman
24 weeks ago

Kent

"Is Friday still couples only? "

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By *uterspace1978Man
24 weeks ago

Bexley

Was thinking of visiting this evening or over the weekend. Hear good things , no expectations just relax have fun if it happens

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By *arleysarCouple
23 weeks ago

Redhill/Reigate

Hopefully be going today be nice to meet up with another couple for fun

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By *antalizingTeaserWoman
23 weeks ago

Essex

I used to be a regular with my ex partner. Never been on my own but building up the courage to. It gets mixed reviews but I always say try things for yourself

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By *aughtybutverynice23Woman
23 weeks ago

Maidstone

Hi , I go alone and it’s been absolutely fine .

Welcome to DM me x

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By *leasureseekrs007Couple
23 weeks ago

London / romford

How is the friday like these days

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By *man87Man
23 weeks ago

sittingbourne

"I used to be a regular with my ex partner. Never been on my own but building up the courage to. It gets mixed reviews but I always say try things for yourself

Hello just putting it out there im looking for a lady who wants to join me or me join them and go to a club or even bit daunting as a single male attending on my own feel free to pop a pm if not good luck im sure you'll he fine 🙂

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

Hi all im lookning to go tomorrow daytime i just wanna steam and unwind can you tell me what i should bring with me i.e. slides soaps towel etc? any help with be amazing T.I.A

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By *ornucopiaMan
23 weeks ago

Bexley

"Hi all im lookning to go tomorrow daytime i just wanna steam and unwind can you tell me what i should bring with me i.e. slides soaps towel etc? any help with be amazing T.I.A

They provide towels, unlimited dry ones, during your visit.

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By *estSussexCoupleCouple
23 weeks ago

Crawley

We went last week for first time & loved it.

Everyone very friendly…no hassles , staff great.

Spa facilities very good.

Heading there Friday again.

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By *cott14Man
22 weeks ago

Essex & SW Exeter/Taunton

Denting on here or Brighton Gardens tomorrow afternoon .

Been here a few times in the summer . How is it now the summer is almost past ?

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By *r-8-BBCMan
22 weeks ago

LONDON

"Who knew a little spa could be so popular. You have 174 posts remaining. It was pretty busy there yesterday, new faces, happy vibe "

Just had a look at their website, looks decent enough. Some bad reviews though. I might go this week, never been before.

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By *aked CoupleCouple
21 weeks ago

East Anglia.

We are going to stay overnight in November. Any other couples thinking of going then feel free to message us privately.

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

I am hoping to go a couple of times in October, I really enjoy it

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By *hazman1964Man
21 weeks ago

romford

Haven't been since before covid has it changed much since then

Do the still have the tv room with porn on.

It used to be couples only Friday nights I've seen that's changed to a party night which allows single males,anyone been what's it like,does it get busy ?

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

Friday night is still couples night, single guys have to leave at 7pm I believe

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By *aytime DoggerMan
21 weeks ago

Here,there&everywhere

"Haven't been since before covid has it changed much since then

Do the still have the tv room with porn on.

No porn anymore sadly. You’ll have to make do with Homes Under The Hammer to get your juices flowing

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By *uttercup and BeauCouple
21 weeks ago

kent

"Friday night is still couples night, single guys have to leave at 7pm I believe "

I’ve just checked their website, singles can now attend the Friday evening party nights

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By *orisjackMan
21 weeks ago

caterham

Any one going Friday afternoon

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

"Friday night is still couples night, single guys have to leave at 7pm I believe

I’ve just checked their website, singles can now attend the Friday evening party nights"

Oh really? That must have changed fairly recently then

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By *ady Curvaceous OP Woman
21 weeks ago

Kent

I refuse to go to Silverleigh again so it would be best if someone else started a new thread about the place.

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By *rivatepitMan
21 weeks ago

Battle

"I refuse to go to Silverleigh again so it would be best if someone else started a new thread about the place."

Wow. Got to wonder what happened to turn a previously loyal customer against this club?

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By *ssexcouple99Couple
21 weeks ago

brentwood

"I refuse to go to Silverleigh again so it would be best if someone else started a new thread about the place."

Where else offers the same thing localy? We have looks at the one in Brighton but its quite a long drive also going to try Rio's x

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By *taylorMan
21 weeks ago

SE LDN

There is no harm to try rios but i ve been there once and never again. You can try heathrow abfab maybe.

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By *ssexcouple99Couple
21 weeks ago

brentwood

"There is no harm to try rios but i ve been there once and never again. You can try heathrow abfab maybe. "

We have been to abfabs & really enjoyed it BUT our membership has expired & for us to visit for a couple of hours will cost £100 (membership plus entry) its just to much money. Its strange with Abfabs they make it so expencive for couples

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By *ink vixenCouple
21 weeks ago

Medway

The last time we went we asked for the music to be turned down a little in the lounge which resulted in the manager offering me “outside to sort it out”

Not sure if we’ll ever return.

It was more that individual than the place though which we previously enjoyed particularly on a cold and wet day.

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

"The last time we went we asked for the music to be turned down a little in the lounge which resulted in the manager offering me “outside to sort it out”

Not sure if we’ll ever return.

It was more that individual than the place though which we previously enjoyed particularly on a cold and wet day."

Is that silverleighs or Abfab you are referring to?

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By *ink vixenCouple
21 weeks ago

Medway

"The last time we went we asked for the music to be turned down a little in the lounge which resulted in the manager offering me “outside to sort it out”

Not sure if we’ll ever return.

It was more that individual than the place though which we previously enjoyed particularly on a cold and wet day.

Is that silverleighs or Abfab you are referring to? "

Silverleigh sadly.

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

"The last time we went we asked for the music to be turned down a little in the lounge which resulted in the manager offering me “outside to sort it out”

Not sure if we’ll ever return.

It was more that individual than the place though which we previously enjoyed particularly on a cold and wet day.

Is that silverleighs or Abfab you are referring to?

Silverleigh sadly. "

Oh wow, hmmm that’s not good

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By *cott14Man
20 weeks ago

Essex & SW Exeter/Taunton

"The last time we went we asked for the music to be turned down a little in the lounge which resulted in the manager offering me “outside to sort it out”

Not sure if we’ll ever return.

It was more that individual than the place though which we previously enjoyed particularly on a cold and wet day.

Is that silverleighs or Abfab you are referring to?

Silverleigh sadly. "

Wow , really surprised with this .

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By *ink vixenCouple
20 weeks ago

Medway

"The last time we went we asked for the music to be turned down a little in the lounge which resulted in the manager offering me “outside to sort it out”

Not sure if we’ll ever return.

It was more that individual than the place though which we previously enjoyed particularly on a cold and wet day.

Is that silverleighs or Abfab you are referring to?

Silverleigh sadly.

Wow , really surprised with this . "

As were we but we’ve heard that the situation may have improved.

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By *cott14Man
20 weeks ago

Essex & SW Exeter/Taunton

Hopefully someone was just having a bad day . I’m not a regular but do in occasion pop in ( this coming Friday actually ) and everyone has been super welcoming and polite

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By *m A FuckerMan
20 weeks ago

kingswood,surrey/leysdown kent

"The last time we went we asked for the music to be turned down a little in the lounge which resulted in the manager offering me “outside to sort it out”

Not sure if we’ll ever return.

It was more that individual than the place though which we previously enjoyed particularly on a cold and wet day.

Is that silverleighs or Abfab you are referring to?

Silverleigh sadly.

Oh wow, hmmm that’s not good "
lol funny though

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By *yson jacksonMan
16 weeks ago

Stoke Newington

Definitely going to head down later today! First time visit hopefully meet some lovely people down there

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By *aytimerider72Man
15 weeks ago

margate

What's it like on a Friday night now me and my partner use to go on the couples only nights

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By *aked CoupleCouple
13 weeks ago

East Anglia.

For couples Silverleigh is not really worth going to anymore unless you like being surrounded by single men. We won't be going back unless they restart the couples only nights.

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By *ssexcouple99Couple
13 weeks ago

brentwood

"For couples Silverleigh is not really worth going to anymore unless you like being surrounded by single men. We won't be going back unless they restart the couples only nights. "

It very much depends on what day you go x we went last friday day time & had a great time

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By *akedsunloversCouple
13 weeks ago

midlands

what happened too you then,as you was always there

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By *ankz1088Man
5 weeks ago

london

Anyone been today or going later? Been on Friday before and it was a ghost town hoping for a busier night tonight?

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By *ssexcouple99Couple
5 weeks ago

brentwood

We had a lovely day at Silverleighs today

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By *oveActually!Man
5 weeks ago

Sompting

Going tomorrow (with a room booked). Taking my new OH as think (hope) it’ll be a ‘gentle’ introduction to our magical world of carnal, hedonistic joy. Reports are that it’s pretty quiet on Saturdays but I’ve never been to Silverleigh, so it’ll interesting to see what it’s like.

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By *panishMan
5 weeks ago

Brighton

Just heard John has died..I've known him since he started silverleigh.

I will.miss him

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By *oveActually!Man
5 weeks ago

Sompting

"Just heard John has died..I've known him since he started silverleigh.

I will.miss him"

As I mentioned in a previous post, I’ve never been to Silverleigh. However, having researched the place, it certainly sounds like John was quite a character and a stand-up guy. I’m sorry I’ll never get to meet him and my sincere condolences to all his family, friends and all those whose days were brightened by him. Hoping to bump into some regulars during tomorrow’s visit to listen to their memories and stories.

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By *leasureseekrs007Couple
5 weeks ago

London / romford

Oh thats such a sad news we knew the guy for 10 years god rest his sole

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By *aked CoupleCouple
4 weeks ago

East Anglia.

Sorry to hear that sad news as he seemed a very popular man who had done a lot for naturism by developing Silverleigh. Hopefully someone will be able to take over from him and ensure that people can continue to enjoy the place as he would want.

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By *ady Curvaceous OP Woman
4 weeks ago

Kent

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By *ady Curvaceous OP Woman
4 weeks ago

Kent

"Sorry to hear that sad news as he seemed a very popular man who had done a lot for naturism by developing Silverleigh. Hopefully someone will be able to take over from him and ensure that people can continue to enjoy the place as he would want. "

It's unlikely. I was told his license to run a naturist club would end with his passing. Lots of rumours going around about it being converted to a nursing home or sold to developers. Guess we will have to wait and see

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By *aughtybutverynice23Woman
4 weeks ago

Maidstone

How sad it will be to see it go

Let’s all make the most of it while we can .

Was there Friday quiet but fun still .

Does anyone know of similar local places ?

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By *incs_TiggerMan
4 weeks ago

Ask me

That is a shame, many fun times there and John was always a cheerful fella. RIP mate, and if that’s then end for Silverleigh then it was a good run. A little bit of old world naughtiness passes into history x

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By *irty-pairCouple
4 weeks ago

Essex

Sad to hear that John has passed. He was certainly a character.

I doubt the spa will be around for much longer. I’d also heard that the license would end with his passing; I don’t believe the venue was popular with locals or the council.

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By *ornucopiaMan
4 weeks ago

Bexley

"Sad to hear that John has passed. He was certainly a character.

I doubt the spa will be around for much longer. I’d also heard that the license would end with his passing; I don’t believe the venue was popular with locals or the council."

The amount of tut tutting and righteous indignation which goes on locally has to be heard to be believed.

In reality Silverleigh brings immeasurable happiness to a considerable number of visitors including many who stay over without doing any serious harn to high principles of the locality.

However, I am sure the council will find every good reason for it not to carry on icluding, probably, some questioanably legal promise made to the locals that the license would depart with John.

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By *incs_TiggerMan
4 weeks ago

Ask me

Where else is there to visit for a similar kind of laidback feel as Silverleigh? Is Brighton the closest comparable now?

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By *ink vixenCouple
4 weeks ago

Medway

"Where else is there to visit for a similar kind of laidback feel as Silverleigh? Is Brighton the closest comparable now? "

We live fairly local to Silverleigh.

If we don’t go there then in the summer we go to Eureka and in the winter we go to BGHS.

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By *incs_TiggerMan
4 weeks ago

Ask me

Thank you Pink Vixen x

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By *ndyb176Man
4 weeks ago

crawley

On Silverleigh website, says it will carry on foreseeable future

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By *aked CoupleCouple
3 weeks ago

East Anglia.

Do many couples visit Silverleigh on a weekday?

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