FabSwingers.com forum: Looking at going to chameleons

By (user no longer on site) OP
39 weeks ago

Hi all we are thanking about going to chameleons for are fits time at a swingers club and we would like to just have a look about and have a beer or 2 lol see if the wife is up for playing as we are new to it all what do you have to put on to go in any help please

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
39 weeks ago

wonderland.

It’s a fantastic club and definitely our favourite, the staff and people who go are so friendly.

Best thing to do is just enjoy the social side of it, have a drink,chat to people and anything else that may happen is a bonus. Be sure to ask one of the staff to show you around as it can be a bit labyrinthine at first.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
39 weeks ago

wonderland.

You wear your normal clothes to enter then get changed in the locker room, then it towel or lingerie for ladies and towel or shorts for guys.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
39 weeks ago

Hi thanks for all your help my wife don't like being fully naked coz she thanks she fat and puts her off going I thank she hot

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By *oknickers coupleCouple
39 weeks ago

A Town called Malice

Chams is a great club, very friendly & non-judgmental

As with any club we’ve been to, you don’t have to “play”, you can go & just socialise. If it’s your 1st time going to a club then it can be very daunting but also very exciting, so go with the attitude of just seeing what goes on at them & you’ll either love it or hate it.

As for your lady not wanting to be naked (which she definitely doesn’t have to) there’s a whole range of things she can wear from full body suits to a flimsy babydoll or just knickers & bra, basically if she can walk around Sainsbury’s in it she shouldn’t be wearing it in a dress down club is how we look at it

Go have fun & enjoy, if you/she hates it then at least you can say you tried it

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
39 weeks ago

wonderland.

"Hi thanks for all your help my wife don't like being fully naked coz she thanks she fat and puts her off going I thank she hot "
unless going in the hot tub you don't have to get fully naked unless on naked night ( Thursday evening)

I'm a bigger girl.. I am most definitely fat... but I am always made to feel comfortable at chams.

Just go with no expectations to do anything not meet some.like minded people. We often only have any fun with each other x

Cali

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By *ebauchery DivineWoman
39 weeks ago

Down in Dickleburgh Drive

She can wear anything she would wear for sexy times at home.

Oh by the way if you want a beer or two you need to take your own as they don't have an alcohol licence. They keep your drinks behind the bar on the same number as your locker key. They sell soft drinks and food so no need to worry about that if needed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
39 weeks ago

Hi thank you all for all your help what night do you thank is bast for the fist time thank you so much all

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By *oodgirlbadboyCouple
39 weeks ago

birmingham

"Hi thank you all for all your help what night do you thank is bast for the fist time thank you so much all"

Definitely not a Friday for a first time, can be very busy with lots of guys, we would recommend a Sunday for a first time visit, not too busy but busy enough,

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By *ifemale32GGWoman
39 weeks ago

Telford

Chams is bring your own alcohol so if you want beer bring it. They put it in the fridge when you arrive. You have to buy mixers and soft drinks inc water. It’s a dress down club so just your best pants / lingerie or you can wear a towel that they provide in the locker when you arrive. Best time to just chill is probably a Sunday afternoon. Unless you want to avoid single guys in which case go after 7pm on Saturday when single guys not allowed. Next Sunday will be busy though as bank hol.

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By *idnight experimentalCouple
39 weeks ago

Congleton / Derby

"Hi thank you all for all your help what night do you thank is bast for the fist time thank you so much all

Definitely not a Friday for a first time, can be very busy with lots of guys, we would recommend a Sunday for a first time visit, not too busy but busy enough, "

Totally agree with all the statements be yourselves and no body is judgemental and if they are they shouldn’t be there that’s all we can say.

But we find everyone very friendly including the staff. One thing we find with this club and the style ie dress down is everyone is on the same page. Where as in a dress up club you have all the designer stuff happening.

Yes Sundays are the best days of the week for newbies as it’s chillied and lest busy unless it’s a bank holiday weekend.

We look forward to seeing you soon and welcoming you to the club and lifestyle xx

T&M xx

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By *oft and sensualCouple
39 weeks ago

Stone

"Hi thank you all for all your help what night do you thank is bast for the fist time thank you so much all

Definitely not a Friday for a first time, can be very busy with lots of guys, we would recommend a Sunday for a first time visit, not too busy but busy enough, "

Agree with above but also consider going Saturday mid afternoon as it is a bit quieter then hopefully you will feel more relaxed before it starts to get busier in the evening. We find it easier to chat to people when it’s less busy.

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By *ittle MonkeysCouple
39 weeks ago

Kimberley

One big thing I have learned from swingers clubs is that no one gives a crap about your body type. It’s nothing like a vanilla venue where most of us are likely to feel a little judged from time to time, thinking that we are too fat, too old, too bald or too anything.

PeopleIn swingers clubs are a different breed, I’ve never been anywhere where anyone has said anything about anyone being too fat. And trust me there are some big girls in clubs.

People go to clubs to have fun, be nice and have sex. No one cares if your arse is bigger than the next girls.

She will over it in an hour. Don’t worry

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By *oandJohn50Couple
39 weeks ago

Dublin/Wicklow

Have to agree with all of the comments re Chameleons, it’s a fabulous club, great people and so well run. You can totally be yourself without judgement from anyone. We love it. Oh and try the round room…

now planning our next visit!

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