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By *herry delight OP   Woman
8 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

What kind of atmosphere do you like at a swinging club?

Not asking for names just the kind of things you like and don't like.

For example the one I have been going to doesn't play porn or loud music, and it has a lovely country pub feel about it even has a log fire.

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By *partharmonyCouple
8 weeks ago

Ruislip

That sounds really nice. Which club is that?

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By *he_turtle_movesMan
8 weeks ago

york

Agreed that sounds amazing!

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By *t0600Man
8 weeks ago

elvedon

Been to a couple that feel like there is a click don’t like that at all

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By *red333Man
8 weeks ago

Dorchester

Its called the Wild west club..... Yeeeeeha

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By *herry delight OP   Woman
8 weeks ago

Ilfracombe


"Its called the Wild west club..... Yeeeeeha "

In the west country we have some wild times. So saddle up. X

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By *oody BMan
8 weeks ago

Mcr. - The Gilded Palace of Sin

I like a sexy vibe. Sone sexy music. Sexy decor. Sexy porn on the tvs.

I don’t like to think of anything sleazy .

I imagine a place like the artist formally known as Prince’s front room or the Playboy mansion

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By *herry delight OP   Woman
8 weeks ago

Ilfracombe


"I like a sexy vibe. Sone sexy music. Sexy decor. Sexy porn on the tvs.

I don’t like to think of anything sleazy .

I imagine a place like the artist formally known as Prince’s front room or the Playboy mansion "

See me personally that would scream sleazy.

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By *red333Man
8 weeks ago

Dorchester


"I like a sexy vibe. Sone sexy music. Sexy decor. Sexy porn on the tvs.

I don’t like to think of anything sleazy .

I imagine a place like the artist formally known as Prince’s front room or the Playboy mansion "

They generally all play music and porn its unusual that they play country and western and have a barn dance yeeha diddle eye po

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By *herry delight OP   Woman
8 weeks ago

Ilfracombe


"I like a sexy vibe. Sone sexy music. Sexy decor. Sexy porn on the tvs.

I don’t like to think of anything sleazy .

I imagine a place like the artist formally known as Prince’s front room or the Playboy mansion They generally all play music and porn its unusual that they play country and western and have a barn dance yeeha diddle eye po "

Lucky the one I got to only plays music in one room and you can't hear it in the social areas or massage area. No porn.

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By *host63Man
8 weeks ago

Bedfont Feltham

One that doesn't see men as a cash cow and actually welcome single men with no clique.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
8 weeks ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"I like a sexy vibe. Sone sexy music. Sexy decor. Sexy porn on the tvs.

I don’t like to think of anything sleazy .

I imagine a place like the artist formally known as Prince’s front room or the Playboy mansion They generally all play music and porn its unusual that they play country and western and have a barn dance yeeha diddle eye po "

They definitely don't all play porn..... And if it was C&W music I'd run a mile Lol

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By *red333Man
8 weeks ago

Dorchester


"I like a sexy vibe. Sone sexy music. Sexy decor. Sexy porn on the tvs.

I don’t like to think of anything sleazy .

I imagine a place like the artist formally known as Prince’s front room or the Playboy mansion They generally all play music and porn its unusual that they play country and western and have a barn dance yeeha diddle eye po

They definitely don't all play porn..... And if it was C&W music I'd run a mile Lol "

me to

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By *xeterCandRCouple
8 weeks ago

Digby & Sowton, Exeter

Same here, nice country pub vibe, middle of nowhere, think your club is the one we go to. X

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By *ansoffateMan
8 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Ooh I like the log fire idea.

Maybe just a bonfire as the centre-piece of a pagan, primal orgy.

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By *ycanNightsMan
8 weeks ago

Workington

I can tell you what I dont like:

Too many Queen songs or variations of the same Queen songs in succession...

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By *anky_PankyWoman
8 weeks ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"I can tell you what I dont like:

Too many Queen songs or variations of the same Queen songs in succession...

"

I've been to a club night like that.... Never again!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
8 weeks ago

Leeds


"What kind of atmosphere do you like at a swinging club?

Not asking for names just the kind of things you like and don't like.

For example the one I have been going to doesn't play porn or loud music, and it has a lovely country pub feel about it even has a log fire. "

Now that I like the sound off, the shit porn totally puts me off.

Mrs

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By *oody BMan
8 weeks ago

Mcr. - The Gilded Palace of Sin


"I like a sexy vibe. Sone sexy music. Sexy decor. Sexy porn on the tvs.

I don’t like to think of anything sleazy .

I imagine a place like the artist formally known as Prince’s front room or the Playboy mansion

See me personally that would scream sleazy. "

Haha. …and there was I just about to decorate my bedroom this way.

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By *ycanNightsMan
8 weeks ago

Workington


"I can tell you what I dont like:

Too many Queen songs or variations of the same Queen songs in succession...

I've been to a club night like that.... Never again! "

It's so annoying...I suspect it might be the same one.

I do generally find the music helps set the right vibe...

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By *oody BMan
8 weeks ago

Mcr. - The Gilded Palace of Sin


"I can tell you what I dont like:

Too many Queen songs or variations of the same Queen songs in succession...

I've been to a club night like that.... Never again!

It's so annoying...I suspect it might be the same one.

I do generally find the music helps set the right vibe..."

Do do do… another one bites the dust!

Fat bottomed girls make the rocking world go round!….

I want it all, and I want it now!!!

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By *ycanNightsMan
8 weeks ago

Workington

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By *ycanNightsMan
8 weeks ago

Workington


"I can tell you what I dont like:

Too many Queen songs or variations of the same Queen songs in succession...

I've been to a club night like that.... Never again!

It's so annoying...I suspect it might be the same one.

I do generally find the music helps set the right vibe...

Do do do… another one bites the dust!

Fat bottomed girls make the rocking world go round!….

I want it all, and I want it now!!!

"

Woody fuck off

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
8 weeks ago

Manchester

Less rnb/dance music and a bit more variety. I'd rather listen to some sexy guitar solos than the kissfm playlist but any variety of music rather than just the same old (maybe not country for getting in a sexy mood tho )

Oh and bloody AIR CON IN PLAYROOMS

And make the beds lower, I'm 5'1 and the amount of times I have to do a little jump to get up onto them or have someone shove me up by my arse dignified

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
8 weeks ago

Manchester

Oh and shit cheesy porn on tvs puts me off too.

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By *redwilma666Couple
8 weeks ago

Kilbirnie

The clubs in Edinburgh & Glasgow play porn films, but in dedicated cinema rooms. So you can take it or leave it, your choice.

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By *herry delight OP   Woman
8 weeks ago

Ilfracombe


"Same here, nice country pub vibe, middle of nowhere, think your club is the one we go to. X "

I think it might be. Xx

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By *oody BMan
8 weeks ago

Mcr. - The Gilded Palace of Sin


"…

I do generally find the music helps set the right vibe...

Do do do… another one bites the dust!

Fat bottomed girls make the rocking world go round!….

I want it all, and I want it now!!!

Woody fuck off "

I get this reply in my messages all the time.

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By *herry delight OP   Woman
8 weeks ago

Ilfracombe


"…

I do generally find the music helps set the right vibe...

Do do do… another one bites the dust!

Fat bottomed girls make the rocking world go round!….

I want it all, and I want it now!!!

Woody fuck off

I get this reply in my messages all the time. "

Now now Good Old-Fashioned Lover Boy It's a Beautiful Day, but this Killer Queen might show you Pain Is So Close to Pleasure, so Ride the Wild Wind as You Take My Breath Away.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
8 weeks ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"I can tell you what I dont like:

Too many Queen songs or variations of the same Queen songs in succession...

I've been to a club night like that.... Never again!

It's so annoying...I suspect it might be the same one.

I do generally find the music helps set the right vibe..."

Totally! As a club event host, I choose the music played pretty carefully!

Never yet have I played Jocelyn Brown - Somebody Else's Guy.....

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By *aughty treatsMan
8 weeks ago

tamworth

Been really interesting reading the responses because I’m pretty keen to attend some clubs. Not so sure I fancy the ones with towel only as wouldn’t mind having some clothes on just to find my feet. ??

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By *herry delight OP   Woman
8 weeks ago

Ilfracombe


"I can tell you what I dont like:

Too many Queen songs or variations of the same Queen songs in succession...

I've been to a club night like that.... Never again!

It's so annoying...I suspect it might be the same one.

I do generally find the music helps set the right vibe...

Totally! As a club event host, I choose the music played pretty carefully!

Never yet have I played Jocelyn Brown - Somebody Else's Guy..... "

So you like music at a swinging event , that is the kind of vibe you enjoy.

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By *herry delight OP   Woman
8 weeks ago

Ilfracombe


"Been really interesting reading the responses because I’m pretty keen to attend some clubs. Not so sure I fancy the ones with towel only as wouldn’t mind having some clothes on just to find my feet. ??"

The one I have been going to there are included myself people wearing dressing gowns.

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By *herry delight OP   Woman
8 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

I honestly thought more people would join in as most people say they only meet at clubs.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
8 weeks ago

Sheffield

A busy mixed crowd, decent current music, drinks and laughs

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By *herry delight OP   Woman
8 weeks ago

Ilfracombe


"A busy mixed crowd, decent current music, drinks and laughs "

Don't you find that the music is distracting when naughty playing ?

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
8 weeks ago

Sheffield


"A busy mixed crowd, decent current music, drinks and laughs

Don't you find that the music is distracting when naughty playing ? "

No as the music is in another room or sometimes outside. It’s not off putting in the play rooms. Or too loud in the bar area so you can chat.

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By *herry delight OP   Woman
8 weeks ago

Ilfracombe


"A busy mixed crowd, decent current music, drinks and laughs

Don't you find that the music is distracting when naughty playing ?

No as the music is in another room or sometimes outside. It’s not off putting in the play rooms. Or too loud in the bar area so you can chat."

I would want to be able to chat in the social areas as. Xx

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By *anky_PankyWoman
8 weeks ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"I can tell you what I dont like:

Too many Queen songs or variations of the same Queen songs in succession...

I've been to a club night like that.... Never again!

It's so annoying...I suspect it might be the same one.

I do generally find the music helps set the right vibe...

Totally! As a club event host, I choose the music played pretty carefully!

Never yet have I played Jocelyn Brown - Somebody Else's Guy.....

So you like music at a swinging event , that is the kind of vibe you enjoy. "

My taste in music isn't what most of my events are, but I do fill a large venue (about 360 people) a couple times a year with a rock n metal night). Most parties it's generic music to cater to all tastes as we all like something different. I can still fill the club with this, so I think it's fair to say plenty like it. It's usually loud enough to dance too but not so loud you can't talk, and it's only in the social area and not im the playrooms - which for some is a negative.

We all like different things but I go with main crowd pleasing x

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By *oeBeansMan
8 weeks ago

Derby

It's not so much the club, but the people that make the atmosphere. I'd go with any club that doesn't treat single guys as lepers and an inconvenience who are only there because their money keeps the lights on

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By *aomilatteCouple
8 weeks ago

Midlands

We like a dance floor with a nightclub vibe, flashing lights and dance anthems. Lockable playrooms where you can still hear the music in the background. We have no interest in a Jacuzzi or a swimming pool.

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By *ony MannMan
8 weeks ago

Wallop

I go to a club not far from Exeter, a clear divide between chat and play and it is possible to stay in private rooms over night.

Some very nice people go there and a very pleasant atmosphere, no porn videos

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By *herry delight OP   Woman
8 weeks ago

Ilfracombe


"I can tell you what I dont like:

Too many Queen songs or variations of the same Queen songs in succession...

I've been to a club night like that.... Never again!

It's so annoying...I suspect it might be the same one.

I do generally find the music helps set the right vibe...

Totally! As a club event host, I choose the music played pretty carefully!

Never yet have I played Jocelyn Brown - Somebody Else's Guy.....

So you like music at a swinging event , that is the kind of vibe you enjoy.

My taste in music isn't what most of my events are, but I do fill a large venue (about 360 people) a couple times a year with a rock n metal night). Most parties it's generic music to cater to all tastes as we all like something different. I can still fill the club with this, so I think it's fair to say plenty like it. It's usually loud enough to dance too but not so loud you can't talk, and it's only in the social area and not im the playrooms - which for some is a negative.

We all like different things but I go with main crowd pleasing x"

That is why there are different clubs as variety is what swinging is all about. Everyone can find a club that they would enjoy and that's the main thing. X

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By *iss FuegoWoman
8 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat - Macedonia

I like a club where people don't hang around the cinema having a loud conversation about courgettes whilst you are fucking

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By * and R cple4Couple
8 weeks ago

swansea

I like the chilled clubs quiet background music so you can have a good chat in the social areas, hot tubs and usually dress down...

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By *anky_PankyWoman
8 weeks ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"I can tell you what I dont like:

Too many Queen songs or variations of the same Queen songs in succession...

I've been to a club night like that.... Never again!

It's so annoying...I suspect it might be the same one.

I do generally find the music helps set the right vibe...

Totally! As a club event host, I choose the music played pretty carefully!

Never yet have I played Jocelyn Brown - Somebody Else's Guy.....

So you like music at a swinging event , that is the kind of vibe you enjoy.

My taste in music isn't what most of my events are, but I do fill a large venue (about 360 people) a couple times a year with a rock n metal night). Most parties it's generic music to cater to all tastes as we all like something different. I can still fill the club with this, so I think it's fair to say plenty like it. It's usually loud enough to dance too but not so loud you can't talk, and it's only in the social area and not im the playrooms - which for some is a negative.

We all like different things but I go with main crowd pleasing x

That is why there are different clubs as variety is what swinging is all about. Everyone can find a club that they would enjoy and that's the main thing. X"

Exactly 100%

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By *oiluvfunMan
8 weeks ago

Penrith


"It's not so much the club, but the people that make the atmosphere. I'd go with any club that doesn't treat single guys as lepers and an inconvenience who are only there because their money keeps the lights on"

I feel your pain my friend

Cue U2 and; ‘Still haven’t found, what I’m looking for”………

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By *herry delight OP   Woman
8 weeks ago

Ilfracombe


"It's not so much the club, but the people that make the atmosphere. I'd go with any club that doesn't treat single guys as lepers and an inconvenience who are only there because their money keeps the lights on

I feel your pain my friend

Cue U2 and; ‘Still haven’t found, what I’m looking for”……… "

I hope you find what you are looking for.

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By *herry delight OP   Woman
8 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

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By *JcuriousCouple
8 weeks ago

Derby

That does sounds lovely.

Do like music, bar, dance floor etc and not too small of a club.

Miss S x

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By *herry delight OP   Woman
8 weeks ago

Ilfracombe


"That does sounds lovely.

Do like music, bar, dance floor etc and not too small of a club.

Miss S x"

Personally I wouldn't want to dance floor as that is what put me off going for a long time, but that's the joy of having different types of swinging clubs. Xx

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By *JcuriousCouple
8 weeks ago

Derby


"That does sounds lovely.

Do like music, bar, dance floor etc and not too small of a club.

Miss S x

Personally I wouldn't want to dance floor as that is what put me off going for a long time, but that's the joy of having different types of swinging clubs. Xx"

For sure.

I do like a boogie after a few wines though

Miss S x

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By *ulia2013Couple
8 weeks ago

Yeovil


"I honestly thought more people would join in as most people say they only meet at clubs.

"

I'm pretty sure we have been to the club to which you refer. Great atmosphere and nice people. Looking forward to going again when we can fit it in to our plans and diaries.

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By *ulia2013Couple
8 weeks ago

Yeovil


"Been really interesting reading the responses because I’m pretty keen to attend some clubs. Not so sure I fancy the ones with towel only as wouldn’t mind having some clothes on just to find my feet. ??

The one I have been going to there are included myself people wearing dressing gowns. "

The dressing gown was a good idea but we were happy with towels. Definitely some sort of sandal next time though!

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By *herry delight OP   Woman
8 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

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By *herry delight OP   Woman
8 weeks ago

Ilfracombe


"Been really interesting reading the responses because I’m pretty keen to attend some clubs. Not so sure I fancy the ones with towel only as wouldn’t mind having some clothes on just to find my feet. ??

The one I have been going to there are included myself people wearing dressing gowns.

The dressing gown was a good idea but we were happy with towels. Definitely some sort of sandal next time though!"

I have had a quick look at your profile and yes it's the same club. I like that from the outside it looks like a country pub.

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By * and R cple4Couple
8 weeks ago

swansea

Maybe it's a age thing but we avoid the clubs with the loud music and dance floors where you have to ask someone 5 times their name.

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By *herry delight OP   Woman
8 weeks ago

Ilfracombe


"Maybe it's a age thing but we avoid the clubs with the loud music and dance floors where you have to ask someone 5 times their name."

I am with you there. I like a chat without having to talk over the music. Even better with a cup of tea.

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By *herry delight OP   Woman
8 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

Bump x

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By *ony MannMan
8 weeks ago

Wallop

I don't like too much noise, I don't mind low lights.

Please no need for porn, if its on, I normally run down the continuity

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By *herry delight OP   Woman
8 weeks ago

Ilfracombe


"I don't like too much noise, I don't mind low lights.

Please no need for porn, if its on, I normally run down the continuity "

I know the kind of club you like lol xx

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
8 weeks ago

Norwich

I thought you were talking about golf.

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By *inkForLifeCouple
8 weeks ago

North Shields

One full of single guys we've never seen before with good music and a licensed bar.

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By *bony and ivoryCouple
8 weeks ago

East Midlands


"What kind of atmosphere do you like at a swinging club?

Not asking for names just the kind of things you like and don't like.

For example the one I have been going to doesn't play porn or loud music, and it has a lovely country pub feel about it even has a log fire. "

We attend a club like this it also has a disco room play music and the only place showing porn is in the cinema

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