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"We should be there; say hi if you see us. We are also going to try the spa if we can get there in time!" Ohhhh I really want to book the spa! Need to make some time available and make a whole day of it | |||
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"Hey I’m coming - first time for me at a club! Excited but a little nervous so any friendly words of advice and reassurance more than welcome "You will be well looked after when you arrive and you'll be given a tour. Everyone is super friendly, the staff and security are awesome. Cash or card at the bar, nice comfy vaping/smoking bit. You can get a locker for a tenner deposit if you want to bring a change of clothes or a party bag. If you want to use the hot tub they will give you towels too. | |||
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"Hey I’m coming - first time for me at a club! Excited but a little nervous so any friendly words of advice and reassurance more than welcome "We've attended these events several times; never had a bad evening. As you know it's a dress up type of club, and it used to be a night club. Some people meet at the adjacent Flirts bar before the club opens. It's a big place with lots of things going on, from an indoor dogging area, glory holes or private rooms. The DJ plays a good mix of music; there should be something for everyone! We will look out for you and have a great evening! | |||
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"Hey I’m coming - first time for me at a club! Excited but a little nervous so any friendly words of advice and reassurance more than welcome "Yay! You'll have a wonderful night, lots of friendly regulars going, the staff are all wonderful people. As above, you can opt to have the full tour, I'd recommend it as there is lots to see. Predrinks at Flirts from 7ish is pretty common. We shall keep an eye out for you and say hi! | |||
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"Hey I’m coming - first time for me at a club! Excited but a little nervous so any friendly words of advice and reassurance more than welcome
You will be well looked after when you arrive and you'll be given a tour.
Everyone is super friendly, the staff and security are awesome. Cash or card at the bar, nice comfy vaping/smoking bit.
You can get a locker for a tenner deposit if you want to bring a change of clothes or a party bag. If you want to use the hot tub they will give you towels too."Thank you that’s all really helpful! Tour sounds good! | |||
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"Hey I’m coming - first time for me at a club! Excited but a little nervous so any friendly words of advice and reassurance more than welcome
We've attended these events several times; never had a bad evening. As you know it's a dress up type of club, and it used to be a night club. Some people meet at the adjacent Flirts bar before the club opens.
It's a big place with lots of things going on, from an indoor dogging area, glory holes or private rooms. The DJ plays a good mix of music; there should be something for everyone!
We will look out for you and have a great evening!"Ahhhh brilliant - this is all easing the nerves for sure! Be good to have some people to say hello too so I don’t feel like a complete loner. Biggest thing to worry about now is what to wear ffs! | |||
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"Hey I’m coming - first time for me at a club! Excited but a little nervous so any friendly words of advice and reassurance more than welcome
Yay! You'll have a wonderful night, lots of friendly regulars going, the staff are all wonderful people. As above, you can opt to have the full tour, I'd recommend it as there is lots to see.
Predrinks at Flirts from 7ish is pretty common.
We shall keep an eye out for you and say hi! "Thank you! Yes I was planning on getting to Flirts first from what I’ve seen so would be good to be able to socialise a bit first and say hi to people! I’m staying at the hotel on site. | |||
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"Hey I’m coming - first time for me at a club! Excited but a little nervous so any friendly words of advice and reassurance more than welcome
Yay! You'll have a wonderful night, lots of friendly regulars going, the staff are all wonderful people. As above, you can opt to have the full tour, I'd recommend it as there is lots to see.
Predrinks at Flirts from 7ish is pretty common.
We shall keep an eye out for you and say hi!
Thank you! Yes I was planning on getting to Flirts first from what I’ve seen so would be good to be able to socialise a bit first and say hi to people! I’m staying at the hotel on site."Ohhh have you considered their spa too? We have t tied it yet but we've had the pleasure of looking around and it's amazing! I noticed you mentioned clothing too, most of the ladies go for something you'd wear for a "night out" so think sexy dresses, trousers, tops etc some go for heels, others just go for flats. Dress down is pretty normal around 10-11 (I rarely wait that long though) so if you wanted to do that, some sultry lingerie is a good shout. Our kind of tradition is get in, get a drink and then have a sit down and settle in, get chatting and then just from there really. The smoking area is always full of people just talking, it's good to wander around and see what's happening where xx | |||
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"Hey I’m coming - first time for me at a club! Excited but a little nervous so any friendly words of advice and reassurance more than welcome
You will be well looked after when you arrive and you'll be given a tour.
Everyone is super friendly, the staff and security are awesome. Cash or card at the bar, nice comfy vaping/smoking bit.
You can get a locker for a tenner deposit if you want to bring a change of clothes or a party bag. If you want to use the hot tub they will give you towels too.
Thank you that’s all really helpful! Tour sounds good!
"I'll second what Prozac said about the smoking area being full of people talking, its a little hub of its own. Come say hello to us if you see us | |||
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"Hey I’m coming - first time for me at a club! Excited but a little nervous so any friendly words of advice and reassurance more than welcome
Yay! You'll have a wonderful night, lots of friendly regulars going, the staff are all wonderful people. As above, you can opt to have the full tour, I'd recommend it as there is lots to see.
Predrinks at Flirts from 7ish is pretty common.
We shall keep an eye out for you and say hi!
Thank you! Yes I was planning on getting to Flirts first from what I’ve seen so would be good to be able to socialise a bit first and say hi to people! I’m staying at the hotel on site.
Ohhh have you considered their spa too? We have t tied it yet but we've had the pleasure of looking around and it's amazing!
I noticed you mentioned clothing too, most of the ladies go for something you'd wear for a "night out" so think sexy dresses, trousers, tops etc some go for heels, others just go for flats.
Dress down is pretty normal around 10-11 (I rarely wait that long though) so if you wanted to do that, some sultry lingerie is a good shout.
Our kind of tradition is get in, get a drink and then have a sit down and settle in, get chatting and then just from there really. The smoking area is always full of people just talking, it's good to wander around and see what's happening where xx"I didn’t even know there was a spa! I don’t think I’ll get there to check in to the hotel around 4ish so not sure I’d have time. And great advice on what to wear - exactly what I was thinking to be fair so that’s good. I’m a smoker anyway so good to know there will be plenty going on! X | |||
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"Hey I’m coming - first time for me at a club! Excited but a little nervous so any friendly words of advice and reassurance more than welcome
You will be well looked after when you arrive and you'll be given a tour.
Everyone is super friendly, the staff and security are awesome. Cash or card at the bar, nice comfy vaping/smoking bit.
You can get a locker for a tenner deposit if you want to bring a change of clothes or a party bag. If you want to use the hot tub they will give you towels too.
Thank you that’s all really helpful! Tour sounds good!
I'll second what Prozac said about the smoking area being full of people talking, its a little hub of its own.
Come say hello to us if you see us "Brilliant! And yes I’ll be sure to say hello to any one I recognise | |||
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"Hey I’m coming - first time for me at a club! Excited but a little nervous so any friendly words of advice and reassurance more than welcome
You will be well looked after when you arrive and you'll be given a tour.
Everyone is super friendly, the staff and security are awesome. Cash or card at the bar, nice comfy vaping/smoking bit.
You can get a locker for a tenner deposit if you want to bring a change of clothes or a party bag. If you want to use the hot tub they will give you towels too.
Thank you that’s all really helpful! Tour sounds good!
I'll second what Prozac said about the smoking area being full of people talking, its a little hub of its own.
Come say hello to us if you see us
Brilliant! And yes I’ll be sure to say hello to any one I recognise "If it helps, we always put a pic up on our public pics of what we are wearing and how we look so we can be spotted fairly easily, it only stays up till the next morning. Found it helps people recognise us as my hair often changes. We will no doubt see you outside at some point though as I'm a smoker too xx | |||
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"Hey I’m coming - first time for me at a club! Excited but a little nervous so any friendly words of advice and reassurance more than welcome
You will be well looked after when you arrive and you'll be given a tour.
Everyone is super friendly, the staff and security are awesome. Cash or card at the bar, nice comfy vaping/smoking bit.
You can get a locker for a tenner deposit if you want to bring a change of clothes or a party bag. If you want to use the hot tub they will give you towels too.
Thank you that’s all really helpful! Tour sounds good!
I'll second what Prozac said about the smoking area being full of people talking, its a little hub of its own.
Come say hello to us if you see us
Brilliant! And yes I’ll be sure to say hello to any one I recognise
If it helps, we always put a pic up on our public pics of what we are wearing and how we look so we can be spotted fairly easily, it only stays up till the next morning. Found it helps people recognise us as my hair often changes.
We will no doubt see you outside at some point though as I'm a smoker too xx"Ooooo great advice! Thank you! Be nice to know there will be a few friendly faces to chat to and get me feeling at ease so I can let my hair down and enjoy xxx | |||
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"Looking forward to this haven’t been for a while should be a good night as always ,probably book the premiere inn for the night if anybody else is staying there" Yay! Be good to see you again! | |||
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"Can’t wait for this one. It’s been a while "Dammm it…I’m at a interracial party in Reading can’t make this  hope to catch you when you next come over xx | |||
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"I’ve just filled in the form on the website, it’ll be my first BMFC and my first trip to Xtasia. My hotel isn’t exactly around the corner but it’s non-refundable "That's a shame the Premier Inn is literally 2 or 3 mins away in a taxi, they only charge a fiver, plus there's usually an after club party happen there somewhere | |||
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"Do I need to sign up as single woman, or am I okay to attend as one half of the couple?!" Ensure you get your name on the list. If you sign up via the BMFC website you can attend as a single woman guest. You wouldn't need to get a club membership. | |||
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"Do I need to sign up as single woman, or am I okay to attend as one half of the couple?!" If as a couple, you already have a couples membership to the club, you can use your card to attend solo. If you're not a club member, you can sign up for the night via the BMFC site | |||
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"We were never given a tour of the club this will be 4th visit. Not an issue really it's a case of where is the bar and where are the sexy bbc ha ha " you can always ask a member of security at the door and they will happily do it for you. | |||
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"Can I be put on the guest list with a plus one please ?" You can do so through the BMFC website. | |||
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"Looking to come along tomorrow night will be my first time at a club. Would anyone be up for meeting before had ? Wouldn’t mind going in with someone and having a familiar face for the night ? " We think some people meet at Flirts bar first. If you don't get any replies this could be an option. Otherwise they are a friendly crowd and you'll be just fine going on your own! | |||
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"Looking to come along tomorrow night will be my first time at a club. Would anyone be up for meeting before had ? Wouldn’t mind going in with someone and having a familiar face for the night ? " A bunch meet at Flirts before from 7ish, we are all a friendly bunch though, you will be made welcome. Feel free to come say hello if you see us | |||
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"It certainly looks like all the sexy people are out to party tonight!! Those with existing valid Xtasia memberships, just turn up as usual Non Xtasia members, just follow the advice displayed in my status to get your names on the guest list See you sexy beasts later "We just couldn't keep away! Your Good Griday event was fabulous so we had to come straight back! | |||
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