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What's the best club for a young couple?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We're considering going to a club for the first time and were wondering where would be best for us. We're totally not sure about club etiquette. Just now we like the idea of watching and being watched but not big into swapping. Is there a way we can make this clear or is it just a free for all if you start playing? It may sound like common sense to some but like we said we have never been.

Some advice would be appreciated

G&L

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

CJs in Glasgow is very relaxed and when I went there were a lot more people around my age than I anticipated.

it's definitely fine to go and watch or be watched - no one will just jump on board and if they tried it they would see the door very quickly! When I was there I didn't experience any pressure at all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks, wasn't sure if its best to stay home or try somewhere down south. It's the whole fear of the unknown that's the hurdle lol

G&L

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Head along for a fun for all night - you can just socialise downstairs if you want - all play goes on upstairs! I was nervous too but it's nothing to fear

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Think the attraction with going maybe somewhere in England is also your not likely to bump into someone you know lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even if you did they are there for the same reason :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Adam & Evens in Manchester..

The Attic.. Not sure where it is..

Tease 2..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Adam & Evens in Manchester..

The Attic.. Not sure where it is..

Tease 2..

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Have you been to these clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been to Adam and Eve's it's generally full of people 40+ with the odd young one, although I have only been once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks, wasn't sure if its best to stay home or try somewhere down south. It's the whole fear of the unknown that's the hurdle lol

G&L"

Come to the lodge in Gloucester. A bit far from you but a lovely place to be introduced! Would be great to see you there

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By *lubPartyPeepsCouple
over a year ago

London

We find most clubs, have a good mix on a Saturday, but certainly the following clubs we have been to, hard their share of young couples:

Liberty Elite

Xtasias

Atlantis

Ourplace4fun

That is not to suggest that all the other clubs were full of older people or more mature, we just noticed a good portion of people in their twenties on the last visits that we went to these four clubs.

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By *eet_the_spartanMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I've never heard a good word said about Adam and Eve's. Avoid it!

My partner and I are younger than you and we're always on the hunt. So far, the two most promising places we haven't yet had chance to visit- Cupids in Manchester and Chameleons in Darlaston.

If you're after a relaxed, social night rather than meeting people to play with though (like you, we don't often swap at clubs, mainly due to age differences), try out Infusion in Blackpool. It's a fantastic atmosphere!

Wherever you end up, update the thread and let us know how you get on. Maybe you can recommend somewhere for us next time x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We find most clubs, have a good mix on a Saturday, but certainly the following clubs we have been to, hard their share of young couples:

Liberty Elite

Xtasias

Atlantis

Ourplace4fun

That is not to suggest that all the other clubs were full of older people or more mature, we just noticed a good portion of people in their twenties on the last visits that we went to these four clubs. "

Thank you. We were needing a wee weekend away so that's a good excuse

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've never heard a good word said about Adam and Eve's. Avoid it!

My partner and I are younger than you and we're always on the hunt. So far, the two most promising places we haven't yet had chance to visit- Cupids in Manchester and Chameleons in Darlaston.

If you're after a relaxed, social night rather than meeting people to play with though (like you, we don't often swap at clubs, mainly due to age differences), try out Infusion in Blackpool. It's a fantastic atmosphere!

Wherever you end up, update the thread and let us know how you get on. Maybe you can recommend somewhere for us next time x"

We will do. Just have to get some time off now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are new and enjoy going infusions in Blackpool

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We are new and enjoy going infusions in Blackpool "

Well not been to Blackpool for years so a wee road trip could be on the agenda

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should. It's got swimming pool and hot tub and possibly wel be there

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By *eet_the_spartanMan
over a year ago

Manchester

let us know when you're going and once Rach is back, we might come along too with our young friends. party!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"let us know when you're going and once Rach is back, we might come along too with our young friends. party! "

Yeh we like to meet couples and single girls mainly

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By *r_G_SPMan
over a year ago

Nice shoes

Abfabs is the best club down south. Great age mix

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By *eet_the_spartanMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"let us know when you're going and once Rach is back, we might come along too with our young friends. party!

Yeh we like to meet couples and single girls mainly "

Same here. Well couples at least. We always take a couple with us when we go out. Then you're guaranteed a fun night even if the club is empty. That's my tip if you do try a new place- check the reviews page and find a nice couple who go and ask if they'll come along with you

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By *lubPartyPeepsCouple
over a year ago

London

Actually yes, Adfabs, also often a very good mix elsewhere, backing up the comment made above.

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By *evonTantraMan
over a year ago

Ashburton

The best clubs in the whole of the UK are Decadent Nights and Secrets in the South West. They also allow pigeoning and extreme pigeoning. Enjoy

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By *andKxxxCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

We love townhouse in the Wirral (liverpool)! It was our first club and felt so relaxed

Have been to Adam n Eve's in Manchester and do not recommend it for first time club!

Heard good things about infusions in Blackpool and really want to try it soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Infusions is a good place to head to. Plus you can't beat the swimming pool and hot tub!

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By *eet_the_spartanMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"The best clubs in the whole of the UK are Decadent Nights and Secrets in the South West. They also allow pigeoning and extreme pigeoning. Enjoy "

I just googled Decadent Nights and when I clicked on the page, Avast blocked a trojan. A half-constructed website with virus's doesn't fill me hope for the event they host

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