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By (user no longer on site) OP
50 weeks ago

Leeds based. Can anyone give me some advice on an event to attend with my wife for the first time?

It would be a surprise for her. I have mentioned it to her and she's not adverse to the idea, but without 'pushing her in the pool' she will not try. I know once we get going she will love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
50 weeks ago

I would strongly advise the "surprise" route, unless it is a few hours previous, in the sense of "would you like to go to a club tonight?"

And accepting her answer.

Turning up at a friends house and finding a gang of odd-bods waiting isn't the way to go about it.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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50 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I'd suggest scrapping the 'surprise' route completely.

Why not set up a couple's profile on here and let her browse the site from the comfort and safety of home, read the club reviews section, maybe chat to some people who attend clubs and then go from there?

If she's not comfortable being online I doubt very much she'll be OK with a surprise trip to a club.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
50 weeks ago

Got it. There is a club that does workshops for newbies. So that's where I will start and I'm going to ask her first. Then what will be will be.

No couples profile yet as I only came on here for a look

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By *inful DogMan
50 weeks ago

Birmingham

Or you could both, knowingly, go to a club with the clear intention of going only for reconnaissance and to have sex with each other in that environment.

That's how my ex partner and I first approached clubs.

All the best with your journey

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