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By *mall.sausage OP   Man
48 weeks ago

Rochdale

Is it ok for a single man to have a hardon in a bar area and not try to hide it ?

Is it ok for a single man to have a none discrete wank in a bar area ?

Is it ok for a single man to have a discrete wank in a bar are ?

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By *londebiguyMan
48 weeks ago

Southport

Probably best not.

I'm sure that you knew already.

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By *allguynowMan
48 weeks ago

durham

Think the door staff in my local spoons would throw you out mate.

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By *mall.sausage OP   Man
48 weeks ago

Rochdale


"Think the door staff in my local spoons would throw you out mate. "
ment in swingers club as you well know lol. But good coment

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
48 weeks ago

Bristol/ Daventry


"Is it ok for a single man to have a hardon in a bar area and not try to hide it ?

Is it ok for a single man to have a none discrete wank in a bar area ?

Is it ok for a single man to have a discrete wank in a bar are ? "

it is worth having a read about consent and search the forums for the wanking dead. There is a lot on this topic that you might find interesting and useful from a range of perspectives.

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By *mall.sausage OP   Man
48 weeks ago

Rochdale


"Is it ok for a single man to have a hardon in a bar area and not try to hide it ?

Is it ok for a single man to have a none discrete wank in a bar area ?

Is it ok for a single man to have a discrete wank in a bar are ?

it is worth having a read about consent and search the forums for the wanking dead. There is a lot on this topic that you might find interesting and useful from a range of perspectives. "
im just curious on peoples answers i used to go to clubs

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By *ebaucherous_duoCouple
48 weeks ago

Bristol/ Daventry

I spoon-feed at work, and have no interest in doing it here. If it feels wrong it typically is, if it doesn’t feel wrong, then read about consent. Equally most clubs have rules on these things, particularly aimed at men for this very reason. No one likes a creepy wanker.

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman
48 weeks ago

Worcester

I think that the important thing is that people are not likely to want to hold a conversation while you’re having a wank.

So if your goal is to interact with people then I’d keep it to yourself or pop to the toilet.

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago


"I think that the important thing is that people are not likely to want to hold a conversation while you’re having a wank.

So if your goal is to interact with people then I’d keep it to yourself or pop to the toilet."

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By *ucianpoundCouple
48 weeks ago

Cap d’Agde, France

It’s pretty normal here in the Cap d’Agde bars but if you’re seen getting a bj, the bar staff will politely ask you to stop!

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By *adCherriesCouple
48 weeks ago

Cheshire/Northwest

We have had sex in a club bar area but it was a dress down club where play is permitted anywhere . As for having a wank in the bar area I think that would give you a lifetime membership of the 'wanking dead'. Unless of course its some kind of fetish event where that kind of thing is acceptable.

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By *amnaughtybutniceWoman
48 weeks ago

tf1

It would be fucking creepy and weird for you to stand at the bar wanking.

I hope you’d get told to leave.

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By *irm and TenderCouple
48 weeks ago

north west

I don’t think it would really offend us if someone did that. As a previous commenter said though, we have lived in Agde so it gives a different perspective. Even so, we probably wouldn’t play with such a bar wanker.

Sure a boner in the bar is fine though… we’re all there to be aroused.

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By *iss DevilWoman
48 weeks ago

Bedford

Bar area in swingers clubs is normally meant for socialising rather than sexual activity. If you get a hard on, that is fine, relatively understandable, but having a wank in the bar area, either discreet or not, is usually frowned upon.

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By *-HantsguyMan
48 weeks ago

Sunbury

Yeah, just don’t.

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By *itygamesMan
48 weeks ago

UK

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By *izzy.Woman
48 weeks ago

Stoke area

I guess it depends on the particular club. The club were I regularly attend I'd say

YES

NO

NO

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By *ancelot1633Man
48 weeks ago

weybridge


"I guess it depends on the particular club. The club were I regularly attend I'd say

YES

NO

NO "

that sounds about right with the caveat that whilst 1. may be ok, (who can always control them) pushing it out, waving it around or tapping people on the shoulder with it would bring on a 3rd NO (NO NO) imho

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