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By *ub bbw OP   Woman
over a year ago

oldbury

We are thinking of going one bi night to xstasias but im not sure about it having heard from some people in another club that being a bbw i might not be comfortable or welcome there this puts me off even trying it despite it looking like it has a great dungeon area among other things. Im not into bukkake either so will be avoiding those nights if possible as i dont want to be involved in that.

Advice please

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

Hi, we have only started going to this club in the last 6 months and have seen all shapes and sizes. I am sure you would not feel out of place in the least. They do have specific types of nights but we tend to go on a Friday which is a mixed night and have really enjoyed it. We found it a very friendly club and New Years Eve was the best Party night we have attended at any club in 10 years.. Bite the bullet I am sure you will not regret it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who has lead you to believe you wouldn't be welcome in a club as a BBW? Never heard such a load of round, spherical objects in me life!!! BBW's are ALWAYS in demand - and Xtasia is not different. I am sure Paul & Flirt would be very offended to think that was the view anyone had of their (dare I say it) 'flagship' club.

Okay, I'm a member so I'm biased, but it's one of the best clubs in the country and has a great atmosphere and you WON'T be made to feel out of place by anyone.

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By *ub bbw OP   Woman
over a year ago

oldbury


"Who has lead you to believe you wouldn't be welcome in a club as a BBW? Never heard such a load of round, spherical objects in me life!!! BBW's are ALWAYS in demand - and Xtasia is not different. I am sure Paul & Flirt would be very offended to think that was the view anyone had of their (dare I say it) 'flagship' club.

Okay, I'm a member so I'm biased, but it's one of the best clubs in the country and has a great atmosphere and you WON'T be made to feel out of place by anyone."

It was a conversation i had a in another club with regulars that go there supposedly who said it was a very body beautiful club and people like me werent made welcome. I wil go and try it soon but not this week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who has lead you to believe you wouldn't be welcome in a club as a BBW? Never heard such a load of round, spherical objects in me life!!! BBW's are ALWAYS in demand - and Xtasia is not different. I am sure Paul & Flirt would be very offended to think that was the view anyone had of their (dare I say it) 'flagship' club.

Okay, I'm a member so I'm biased, but it's one of the best clubs in the country and has a great atmosphere and you WON'T be made to feel out of place by anyone.

It was a conversation i had a in another club with regulars that go there supposedly who said it was a very body beautiful club and people like me werent made welcome. I wil go and try it soon but not this week"

I was there on New Years Eve, and you couldn't have had a wider range of body shapes and sizes in one place, at one time - I'm not exactly a gym-fit hunk meself - and I had no problem there at all! Think you might have experienced a bit of 'club-envy' there...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been to Xtasia on a few different occasions and found a good mix of people, age wise and body type wise. In my experiance nobody was made to feel out of place and those that put the efffort in to have a good time certainly did so, wether that was in the dungeon or playrooms. Not been since the cinema and dogging loft have been open, but from what I've heard they have proved a great hit as well.

All I can really say is go and see for yourself and make your own mind up, but I don't think you will be disapointed.

Well worth taking a look at the clubs website as well, to check what they have arranged for certain nights, so you can choose a night that you feel comfy with.

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By *ub bbw OP   Woman
over a year ago

oldbury


"Who has lead you to believe you wouldn't be welcome in a club as a BBW? Never heard such a load of round, spherical objects in me life!!! BBW's are ALWAYS in demand - and Xtasia is not different. I am sure Paul & Flirt would be very offended to think that was the view anyone had of their (dare I say it) 'flagship' club.

Okay, I'm a member so I'm biased, but it's one of the best clubs in the country and has a great atmosphere and you WON'T be made to feel out of place by anyone.

It was a conversation i had a in another club with regulars that go there supposedly who said it was a very body beautiful club and people like me werent made welcome. I wil go and try it soon but not this week

I was there on New Years Eve, and you couldn't have had a wider range of body shapes and sizes in one place, at one time - I'm not exactly a gym-fit hunk meself - and I had no problem there at all! Think you might have experienced a bit of 'club-envy' there... "
maybe but they were customers not owners or staff who knows but there was a club discussed on here a while ago who refused bbws entry so im just checking everything before i go and get turned away i now check every club we go to before going.

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By *acnShellCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

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By *acnShellCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Pretty sure the only reasons for turning folks away at Xtasia are dress code, and d*unks. Whenever we've been recently its a great range of people in.

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By *tasiaCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Dear OP,

We are offended, lol.

Lets clear the air. The old image of Xtasia was created from the very "sexual" imagery used on all its web sites and posters. Young gorgeous gals, pouting their bits everywhere. Everyone who looked at these, just assumed you needed to match to attend, and when we took over one of the first phone calls we had to answer was "I'm not sure I'm pretty enough to attend" We died, and dramatically started to change the imagery.

All are welcome and our membership is based on a range of people from 18 to 70, from size 6 to (hell, whats the biggest), white through all colours to black, we have wheelchair users and deaf/blind, infact we have no "isms" at all. The only point we will mention is Friday and Saturday are "Nightclub" evenings. Now that doesn't mean you need to pole dance for us all night, however we do ask folks to dress to impress, smartly....and we don't really do the towel thing. Ladies tend to naturally dress correctly and we often find it the guys who let them down a little

So I guess the answer is, if you're proud of your curves, want to show them off, enjoy a good time, and enjoy a nightclub style venue, then hell yea, get that backside along gal.

Look forward to meeting you,

Paul & Flirt

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By *ub bbw OP   Woman
over a year ago

oldbury


"Dear OP,

We are offended, lol.

Lets clear the air. The old image of Xtasia was created from the very "sexual" imagery used on all its web sites and posters. Young gorgeous gals, pouting their bits everywhere. Everyone who looked at these, just assumed you needed to match to attend, and when we took over one of the first phone calls we had to answer was "I'm not sure I'm pretty enough to attend" We died, and dramatically started to change the imagery.

All are welcome and our membership is based on a range of people from 18 to 70, from size 6 to (hell, whats the biggest), white through all colours to black, we have wheelchair users and deaf/blind, infact we have no "isms" at all. The only point we will mention is Friday and Saturday are "Nightclub" evenings. Now that doesn't mean you need to pole dance for us all night, however we do ask folks to dress to impress, smartly....and we don't really do the towel thing. Ladies tend to naturally dress correctly and we often find it the guys who let them down a little

So I guess the answer is, if you're proud of your curves, want to show them off, enjoy a good time, and enjoy a nightclub style venue, then hell yea, get that backside along gal.

Look forward to meeting you,

Paul & Flirt"

Sorry to have offended you but i like to do my research so to speak after hearing things like this. We were thinking of trying one of your bi nights as we love them in other places we will see when we can get along to one and look forward to seeing a new club and what you have done.

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By *tasiaCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Will be honest with you. Please don't expect numbers yet on a Thursday bi-night. We started them in Jan, and so they are still building up. At the moment its one of those catch 22 situations, if everyone came who phoned asking if it will be busy, then it would be busy, lol. I'm too honest, and say we're not sure about numbers yet, etc. so people don't come as believe it will be too quiet. Tum tee tum eh! Maybe the trick is to get you to bring a crowd...

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By *ub bbw OP   Woman
over a year ago

oldbury


"Will be honest with you. Please don't expect numbers yet on a Thursday bi-night. We started them in Jan, and so they are still building up. At the moment its one of those catch 22 situations, if everyone came who phoned asking if it will be busy, then it would be busy, lol. I'm too honest, and say we're not sure about numbers yet, etc. so people don't come as believe it will be too quiet. Tum tee tum eh! Maybe the trick is to get you to bring a crowd... "

we will have to try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, I am a bbw and I never let my size stop me going to clubs and this club is one I am eager to try mainly cause it's the first club I have found that does a bukkake night and I have always wanted to do one.

So we will at some point be making the journey and attending our first party there

Hoping to get to the club in April

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By *tasiaCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"Hi, I am a bbw and I never let my size stop me going to clubs and this club is one I am eager to try mainly cause it's the first club I have found that does a bukkake night and I have always wanted to do one.

So we will at some point be making the journey and attending our first party there

Hoping to get to the club in April "

Is that a veiled offer to put your name forward for Aprils Bukkake event, lol...do let us know!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What date in April?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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It was a conversation i had a in another club with regulars that go there supposedly who said it was a very body beautiful club and people like me werent made welcome. I wil go and try it soon but not this week"

I was told exactly the same by a few people as I mentioned I was thinking of going, was told it was very body beautiful, BBW not overly welcome and very cliquey. I'll be honest it had made very wary of going now. I checked the nights they run and there isn't a BBW one so it made me think it had some truth to it.

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By *MFC PartiesWoman
over a year ago

Here, There & Everywhere


"

It was a conversation i had a in another club with regulars that go there supposedly who said it was a very body beautiful club and people like me werent made welcome. I wil go and try it soon but not this week

I was told exactly the same by a few people as I mentioned I was thinking of going, was told it was very body beautiful, BBW not overly welcome and very cliquey. I'll be honest it had made very wary of going now. I checked the nights they run and there isn't a BBW one so it made me think it had some truth to it. "

As a party organiser who hosts a monthly party at XTASIA (albeit NOT a BBW party), i can categorically say that the owners AND members of this club are welcoming of all shapes, sizes, sexual orientation and culture ..

I can also speak from experience, as we have many curvy ladies attending the BMFC parties ...

Maybe the reason that they don't have a specific BBW party, is because no-one has stepped forward to arrange / suggest one

The owners (Paul & Flirt) have often posted on these forums asking for suggestions / types of parties that people want to see at XTASIA

They have recently taken over this venue and are VERY keen to listen to members and potential members ..

So, why not contact them and suggest a BBW party and i know that they will be only too happy to consider it ...

In the meantime though, i would advise that people dont listen to tittle tattle as comments like that are often made by people who have hidden agendas ..

So, you've heard it from one curvy lady to another ... XTASIA is a VERY welcoming club, with HUNDREDS of VERY sexy members but we ALL know that sexy comes in all sizes and you, m'dear look size sexy to me!!!

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By *rummiePartyManMan
over a year ago

birmingham


"...maybe but they were customers not owners or staff ...."

In all honesty though, if you went to the West Bromwich Albion Supporters Club and tried to get an opinion from a "Baggies" fan what they tought of Wolverhampton Wanderers, do you think that they would be encouraging you to go there either?

Somewhat sadly, people have their favourite swingers clubs and like to show that they know best by hyping up their favourites and decrying the "opponents", just like they do in football.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...maybe but they were customers not owners or staff ....

In all honesty though, if you went to the West Bromwich Albion Supporters Club and tried to get an opinion from a "Baggies" fan what they tought of Wolverhampton Wanderers, do you think that they would be encouraging you to go there either?

Somewhat sadly, people have their favourite swingers clubs and like to show that they know best by hyping up their favourites and decrying the "opponents", just like they do in football."

Succinct and bang on the money, Sir!

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By *aughtylilredheadWoman
over a year ago

Port Talbot

Hya. We went to Xtasia on the foam night-an planning to go again next Sat (30th) An we travel up from South Wales to go specifically!! I was nervous when I first went in, but Paul took us around, made us EXTREMELY welcome an comfortable! I'm a curvy girl, an I didn't feel out of place at all! If anything, I had more attention cos of my boobs oozing out of my corset (Which my man LOVED!) Lol! Honestly, it's a totally relaxed an friendly club! An remember, everyone is there to get naughty together, not to sit an judge! Hope u get a chance to go, u will LOVE it! We did!!!

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