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By *r and Mrs 757 OP   Couple
over a year ago

New Forest

Thinking of making our first visit to Temptations this weekend. Does anyone who's been know do they supply towels, and can you buy drinks there or is it take your own? Thanks

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By *ike_CampbellMan
over a year ago

Southampton

Sorry if this is too late!

Yes, they supply towels.

No drinks supplied but they are (literally) next door to an off licence and will pop there to buy for you.

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By *otInventedHereMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

They also have an area where you can make your own hot drinks if you fancy a cuppa.

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge

studied in the area and whiled away many happy hours in the club. Would love to go back sometime soon

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By *orny-youngMan
over a year ago

norfolk

Me and my girl are going this weekend! Who’s around?

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By *ueenofspades4uCouple
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

We always have some pleasureable times here xx

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By *iscreetlad85Man
over a year ago

south west

Anyone going today?

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By *agnar1980Man
over a year ago

Poole

I’ve never been to a club but really want to go. Just lacking the confidence to go on my own!

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge


"I’ve never been to a club but really want to go. Just lacking the confidence to go on my own! "

just go with no expectations other than a decent soak in the spa and maybe getting to see some horny sights. if you expect nothing you have nothing to lose (the real source of confidence)

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By *ike_CampbellMan
over a year ago

Southampton

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By *ike_CampbellMan
over a year ago

Southampton

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By *ike_CampbellMan
over a year ago

Southampton


"I’ve never been to a club but really want to go. Just lacking the confidence to go on my own! "

Just go. At the worst you'll get a few hours without your phone in a warm and friendly place. In the week there's a chance you'll be in there alone but it's no real loss, the place is a good spot to relax in.

If someone's there, don't be shy; people go there to meet, chat and have fun.

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By *hocCock1Man
over a year ago

Southampton

Any good on a Friday evening?? I'm thinking of going for a good steam

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By *maz.Man
over a year ago

Southampton / iford

Was there today , a couple and 5 or 6 guys, it's was ok , it's always good for a jacuzzi or sauna or steam room if nothing else is going on

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By *hocCock1Man
over a year ago

Southampton

Sounds good,no expectations, at least get a good steam in, I may brave tomorrow night, not been since lockdown

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By *orsetcplCouple
over a year ago

near you

We go at least once a week usually midweek, can be hit and miss but always a pleasant enjoyable experience, will be there this Saturday eve, might see you in there.

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By *hocCock1Man
over a year ago

Southampton


"We go at least once a week usually midweek, can be hit and miss but always a pleasant enjoyable experience, will be there this Saturday eve, might see you in there."

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By *igben9169Man
over a year ago

Waterlooville (ish)

Tempted (pun intended) to go tomorrow in the day, any couples/females about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been far too long since my last visit, really need to get back here again soon. Just hope I’m not the only woman next time

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By *iscreetlad85Man
over a year ago

south west

Anyone attending Temptation this evening?

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By *oo ShyCouple
over a year ago

ipswich

Just wondering what Saturday nights are like ? Is it all male or fairly even; and is it ok to look without joining in ? Would that upset hardened players ? Thinking of this Saturday ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I admit i havent been for a few months but the ration was about 2 guys to 1 couple depending on night.

I know a few couples that go just to chat or watch so you wont be unique in that sense.

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By *rossMan
over a year ago

Everywhere


"Just wondering what Saturday nights are like ? Is it all male or fairly even; and is it ok to look without joining in ? Would that upset hardened players ? Thinking of this Saturday ?"

It's always ok to not join in, no means no and there should be zero judgement in there (these are their rules you agree to when you go in)

Hope you had fun?

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By *iscreetlad85Man
over a year ago

south west

Anyone going tomorrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is the club open between the 24.04 - 26.04, I’ll be visiting Bournemouth that week??

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By *iscreetlad85Man
over a year ago

south west

Anyone going

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge

Heading down mid May 16th and looking to soak my cares away. Anyone going?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Heading down mid May 16th and looking to soak my cares away. Anyone going?"

Think they’ve been having trouble with the hot tub recently, fingers crossed it will be fixed for you by then. I’m hoping to pop down this Friday if anyone might be about feel free to say hi

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge


"Heading down mid May 16th and looking to soak my cares away. Anyone going?

Think they’ve been having trouble with the hot tub recently, fingers crossed it will be fixed for you by then. I’m hoping to pop down this Friday if anyone might be about feel free to say hi "

Hope they have, thanks for the heads up x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Heading down mid May 16th and looking to soak my cares away. Anyone going?

Think they’ve been having trouble with the hot tub recently, fingers crossed it will be fixed for you by then. I’m hoping to pop down this Friday if anyone might be about feel free to say hi

Hope they have, thanks for the heads up x"

I’ve just seen on their Facebook that it’s all fixed now, yay

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge


"Heading down mid May 16th and looking to soak my cares away. Anyone going?

Think they’ve been having trouble with the hot tub recently, fingers crossed it will be fixed for you by then. I’m hoping to pop down this Friday if anyone might be about feel free to say hi

Hope they have, thanks for the heads up x

I’ve just seen on their Facebook that it’s all fixed now, yay "

Perfect thanks for letting me know, can’t wait for a good splash x

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By *edic2021Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Do we know who we have to contact to book in to temptations spa I can't seem to find anything.

I was hoping to pop along tonight if possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do we know who we have to contact to book in to temptations spa I can't seem to find anything.

I was hoping to pop along tonight if possible "

No booking necessary, just turn up when you’re free and pay on the door. For me that’s one of the biggest selling points, I can fit it in when I like without having to plan too far ahead for it. Makes it really spontaneous for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who’s heading today or tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to visit here when staying in bournemouth.however the guy on the door when I visited was the most obnoxious moron I've ever met.was smoking outside and was pissed off that I was stopping him then was rude and not polite.was ready to tell him to stick it and to fuck off.if you want to run somewhere successful then have friendly staff that welcome people and change the dvd for upstairs room when it's finished playing.its the only club in the area otherwise I'd say avoid

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By *r Mischief 86Man
over a year ago

Plymouth

I'll be heading there tonight. I'm looking forward to a dip in the jacuzzi x

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge

Heading there tomorrow, Thursday, anyone else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Staying at hotel Nici on Thursday with the gf who would love to meet a guy

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By *ack to the bedroomMan
over a year ago

Andover

planning a mid week visit, anyone else going Wednesday or Thursday?

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By *otsuredorsetCouple
over a year ago

Sturminster Newton, but travel all over

We are debating whether to go to Temptations or Gems Saturday night.

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By *eachlifeMan
over a year ago

Kent

Girlfriend and I will be going soon.

Do we bring towels ?

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By *JMLCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

;-hey

Any nice woman/couples going today or this evening

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By *r and Mrs 757 OP   Couple
over a year ago

New Forest


"Girlfriend and I will be going soon.

Do we bring towels ? "

No need they supply towels

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By *eekySweetheartWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Hello everyone! What's this place like during the week?

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By *otInventedHereMan
over a year ago

West Midlands


"Hello everyone! What's this place like during the week? "

I've only been once in the week (on a Wednesday IIRC) and it was fairly well attended. I am probably going again this coming Wednesday or Thursday, hopefully it will be the same, I'll post back here afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love this place,but the last 3 times I have been its been surprisingly quiet,Saturday it closed early, but was worth tbe visit for the legit massage

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By *ustylouWoman
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Was planning on popping in tonight. Hope it's not too quiet.

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By *RR68BMan
over a year ago

Bournemouth

I live not far away and haven't been for more than a while. My cleaners son works there and I know the owners. I have no idea then what it's like these days but my previous experience of it left me not recommending it (as a swinging venue anyway). I would be interested in feedback from others as to how busy it is over the weekend as I went with a friend on a Friday night between 8pm and midnight and there weren't even double figures in number. Yes they supply towels but you can walk about naked if you wish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

newbie looking for company to Temptations in Bournemouth this Thursday.?

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By *ostringsfun84Man
over a year ago

South

Anyone know what the attendance is generally like on a Friday afternoon/evening?

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By *ocal lumberMan
over a year ago

Hampshire

Any one going down today?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not today but I’ll be down on Saturday, if anyone else will be there too feel free to say hi

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By *avenvalCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

We are in Poole for three days Monday 5th to Wednesday 7th August we plan to go to the sauna on at least one night if the weather is bad and we can't get to Studlands dunes we will probably be there during the day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you have a lovely time whilst you’re down our way, if the weather stays like this you’re in for a treat on Studland for sure ☀️

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are any of you lovely people going today?

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By *avenvalCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

We are going to Temptations tonight is anyone else going we are exhibionist love a crowd 😀

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By *um as a PairCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Hello all , would you recommend for a first time couple ? Don’t want to be “ put off”…

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By *rossMan
over a year ago

Everywhere


"Hello all , would you recommend for a first time couple ? Don’t want to be “ put off”… "

yeah it's a very friendly place, as long as nudity doesn't scare you then you'll be fine and even then you can hide under the bubbles :D :P They have lockable rooms with beds if you want to have fun without the world watching and depending when you go it can be pretty quiet anyway x

I guess the question is, what would put you off? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi I’m going to be in Bournemouth for a couple of weeks in October.

Is temptations a club or venue as I can’t find anything in the south west section of the club reviews or where the club is. I’d love to get the chance to attend as I’m in the north of Scotland and haven’t had the chance to visit a club since pre covid so really want to get back to one

Many thanks

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By *r and Mrs 757 OP   Couple
over a year ago

New Forest

It's a naturist/swinger spa as opposed to an actual night club. If it's a proper club you're looking to attend then Untamed Nights is also in Bournemouth. Both venues have got websites and profiles on here

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By *ornycoupleforfunxCouple
over a year ago

somerset

Anyone going tonight any chance? x

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By *otsuredorsetCouple
over a year ago

Sturminster Newton, but travel all over


"Hi I’m going to be in Bournemouth for a couple of weeks in October.

Is temptations a club or venue as I can’t find anything in the south west section of the club reviews or where the club is. I’d love to get the chance to attend as I’m in the north of Scotland and haven’t had the chance to visit a club since pre covid so really want to get back to one

Many thanks "

It’s called paradise on the club reviews. It still has its old name on it. If I remember correctly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you for your replies.

Both sound like a good night out so hopefully I’ll get the chance to give both a visit

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By *trawberries and Cream 40Couple
over a year ago

Salisbury

Does anyone know if any of the playrooms have a swing here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to, think it's been changed now though

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By *aveBunceMan
over a year ago

Lymington

I'm heading to Temptations this coming Sunday 22nd. Probably be there by 19h00. If anyone is free for a chat and get together there please drop me a PM

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By *JMLCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"Does anyone know if any of the playrooms have a swing here?"

Hey guys

Yes they have a swing in the play room it’s really good with lots of space and private if you want it to be

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By *trawberries and Cream 40Couple
over a year ago

Salisbury

Thanks guys, just what we need!

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By *efinitelymaybe6996Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Hi

Is anyone going tomrrow evening?

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By *aveBunceMan
over a year ago

Lymington

Yes Sunday evening

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By *otsuredorsetCouple
over a year ago

Sturminster Newton, but travel all over

We are thinking of heading their Christmas Eve,

Looking for other naughty couples that may want to join us!

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By *ichaelG76Man
over a year ago

Andover

Anyone going new years eve?

Is it any good in the afternoon?

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By *andrindevonCouple
over a year ago

Torquay

Heading over for our second visit on Saturday 15th February late afternoon if anyone fancies joining us?

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By *apacitoMan
over a year ago

Sleepy Dorset

Thinking of going on a Friday afternoon. Will it be quiet or busy?

Are there changing rooms? What do males tend to wear?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

23 year old bisexual male, looking to come here for the first time, anyone want to take me under their wing?

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By *iscreetlad85Man
over a year ago

south west

Anyone in temptation now? Are they open?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went once when it was paradise

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By *1newfunWoman
over a year ago

Eastleigh

There’s a small locker room. It’s naked or wear a towel only. Towels are provided.

Went there for the first time yesterday and had an excellent time.

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By *apacitoMan
over a year ago

Sleepy Dorset

Thanks for the info. When did you go? Was it busy?

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By *otsuredorsetCouple
over a year ago

Sturminster Newton, but travel all over

We are planning to head there next Sunday. 9th Feb, any other naughty couples going?

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By *andrindevonCouple
over a year ago

Torquay

anyone making it down Saturday 15th afternoon?

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By *uriojohnMan
over a year ago

Nr St Andrews


"anyone making it down Saturday 15th afternoon? "

Unfortunately not as it look like it will be lots of fun! I’ll be there Sunday 16th in the evening. Can’t wait as it’s been a while

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By *ukka coupleCouple
over a year ago

winchester

Anybody going today Thursday afternoon !

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By *iscreetlad85Man
over a year ago

south west

Anybody going this evening?

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By *aughty29Man
over a year ago

Barnstaple

Hi is anyone going tonight?

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By *unishment CoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Oxford

What is this place like on a Tuesday daytime? Has mixed reviews here

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By *r and Mrs 757 OP   Couple
over a year ago

New Forest

Think it's usually pretty quiet during the daytimes, perfect if you just want a bit of chill time for the pair of you, Wednesday and Friday evenings are generally the busier nights when it's cheap for couples entry

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By *ike_CampbellMan
over a year ago

Southampton


"Thinking of making our first visit to Temptations this weekend. Does anyone who's been know do they supply towels, and can you buy drinks there or is it take your own? Thanks"

Yes they supply towels. Soft drinks (squash) and tea/coffee supplied. Anything else you'll have to bring or they'll pop out any buy for you from the off-licence that's literally next door.

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By *ike_CampbellMan
over a year ago

Southampton

and buy*

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By *iscreetlad85Man
over a year ago

south west

Anyone going to temptation today or evening?

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By *or Your Eyes TooCouple
51 weeks ago

Hampshire

Might actually give this a go tonight…

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By (user no longer on site)
51 weeks ago

We went last night, fantastic fun again. This is our favourite club by far. Intimate, but relaxed and friendly

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By (user no longer on site)
46 weeks ago


"Might actually give this a go tonight… "

Did you guys go? Looking to visit in July but have no clue on best times days etc

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By *aughty fingersMan
46 weeks ago

over here

I'm thinking of going next week but would be better if I had someone with me

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By *untimecouple-2Man
44 weeks ago

Twickenham

Looking forward to an afternoon on Monday 14th July at the club enjoying the spa facilities and the sex cinema. Would be great to know if anyone else is going. Have fun. Xx

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By *ohn D03Man
44 weeks ago

just visiting

I am thinking of going to Temptations around the 21st...do people go if the weather is warm?

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By *eekySweetheartWoman
44 weeks ago

Hampshire

Im thinking about going Friday 😈

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By *JMLCouple
44 weeks ago

West Midlands


"Im thinking about going Friday 😈"

Hey we’re in Bournemouth 28th-30th would be great to meet you at temptations

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By *agnar1980Man
44 weeks ago

Poole

I’ve never been to a club, not got the confidence to go on my own. If I do go what do usually wear while walking around? Stupid question I guess.

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By *JMLCouple
44 weeks ago

West Midlands

A towel if your not comfortable naked

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By *r and Mrs 757 OP   Couple
44 weeks ago

New Forest


"I’ve never been to a club, not got the confidence to go on my own. If I do go what do usually wear while walking around? Stupid question I guess. "

It's not a club as such its a naturist spa

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By *untimecouple-2Man
44 weeks ago

Twickenham

Looking forward to an afternoon at the club on Monday 14th July. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
42 weeks ago

Thinking of a visit this week, any days better than others for a single guy?

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By *yphodMan
42 weeks ago

London

How busy is it generally on a Sunday afternoon?

Last time I popped in on a Friday it was dead.

What about Friday/Saturday nights?

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By *JMLCouple
42 weeks ago

West Midlands

Hey

We’re Bournemouth Monday and Tuesday evening would love a hottie to join us here for some fun

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By *aceFitForABeardMan
41 weeks ago

London

Hey thinking of going Wednesday or Thursday during the day, will it be really quiet?

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By *eekySweetheartWoman
41 weeks ago

Hampshire

Anyone thinking of going Sunday? Xx

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By *JMLCouple
41 weeks ago

West Midlands

Love to meet you Monday to Wednesday honey

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By *uscles-sotonMan
41 weeks ago

southampton

Is it still open. The websites not responding and Facebook group is not accepting request.

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By *ohn D03Man
40 weeks ago

just visiting

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By *ohn D03Man
40 weeks ago

just visiting

Thinking of going in a few weeks, did you find an answer?

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

We are looking to try Temptations Spa and see how it all work as this would be our first time at a club any help would be great

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By *ermithimCouple
40 weeks ago

christchurch

Hi, we've been there many times. You go in the door and will be asked if you have been to similar places before. Dress down policy will be explained; you will get a locker key, the lockers are in a small room off the hallway as you go in. You keep the wristband and give the key back to reception.

Bring your own booze (wine/beer fine, spirits frowned on 😄). Coffee tea and fruit provided free.

Jacuzzi, steam room and sauna downstairs plus an outside area, playrooms upstairs.

Always lots of regulars who all know eachother really well. I wouldn't describe it as cliquey as such, but it can feel as though you have crashed a private party sometimes !

We were made very welcome on our first visit. Only ever been on a Weds when it's very cheap for couples and free for single women so there's usually quite a lot of them around.

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By *lackAfricanVibesMan
40 weeks ago

South West

I’ve had the privilege of visiting many places around the world but unfortunately my experience at Temptations Spa was the worst I’ve had in terms of service. The door staff was unprofessional and there was no proper introduction or guidance during my first visit

On my second visit today, I was unexpectedly denied entry. The reason given, bringing alcohol… was confusing, especially since on my first visit, I was told they don’t sell alcohol and was directed to buy it from the shop next door.

The inconsistency left me questioning whether there was another reason behind the treatment, possibly even racial bias, which is extremely disappointing to encounter in a Spa.

If you’re a person of color considering a visit, I’d suggest thinking twice. My experience was a complete waste of time and left a lasting negative impression…

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By *emptations Health SpaMan
39 weeks ago

BOURNEMOUTH

We are really sorry to hear this and that you feel this way.

my colleague had explained to you everything about the facility in detail. on your first visit you did NOT mention to the staff member about bringing alcohol to the club.

On returning on your second visit, you had brought your own cup containing alcohol, now to staff unknown on what was inside they asked you what the cup was containing which you mentioned "wine" the staff member then proceeded if they could check the contents and you "DECLINED"

we have a 0 policy on spirits unless its already in a premixed can, we are instructed by the owner to make sure people within this club are safe, so we have to make sure people are not bringing things in they shouldn't be.

alcohol is allowed in the club. beer/cider/wine/premixed cans (all sealed) we will not accept home brought flasks/sealed cups that contain alcohol, unless we check the contents.

unfortunately due to you declining the request he couldn't proceed on letting you in. if you had brought the bottle or allowed him to view the contents (as the cup wasn't see-through) in it would have been completely okay. all clubs have there own policy so why disrespect ours. you then continue to argue with the staff member and he remained calm and polite.

If you think that the reason you wasn't allowed in was because of some sort of racial bias then you are very incorrect, that is RIDICULOUS! we have people from all over the world, different nationalities, different cultures. but they do one thing, FOLLOW THE RULES.

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By *emptations Health SpaMan
39 weeks ago

BOURNEMOUTH

hey there, yes it is still open. unfortunately our website is down due to refurbishments and redesigning. please contact the club if needing any questions answered.

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By *ealDeal_GuyMan
39 weeks ago

Reading

Any one is going there today?

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Is anyone heading to temptations on saturday 30th x

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

We are as a couple

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By *xploringSlowlyCouple
37 weeks ago

Salisbury

How busy is it on a Thursday? Thinking of heading there for a few hours later on today

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By *ff_to_button_moonCouple
36 weeks ago

Button Moon (S.Central Hampshire)

Has the daytime pricing now changed for couples and single ladies? We seem to remember it being £10 for couples and free for single ladies on certain days but can't find reference to it on the website(s) now?

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By *emptations Health SpaMan
36 weeks ago

BOURNEMOUTH

Hey there, £10 for couples and free for single ladies is on a Wednesday.

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By *ff_to_button_moonCouple
35 weeks ago

Button Moon (S.Central Hampshire)

Thank you! Looking forward to getting back there... It's a looking spa'less summer

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By *xarMan
34 weeks ago

Southampton

What of single guys?

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By *ohn D03Man
33 weeks ago

just visiting

Anyone planning on going Wednesday? Working local and figured i might stick around

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By *ack on the wagonMan
33 weeks ago

Around…

Potentially visiting as a filthy couple - how busy is a Fri or Sat evening, and what sort of dynamic/atmosphere is there?

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By *artorialMan
33 weeks ago

weymouth

Intending to give it a go Sunday 12th October (dropping the old fella off for his cruise so 10days of unfettered debauchery - hopefully )

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By *andrindevonCouple
21 weeks ago

Torquay

Maybe going Monday 22nd again for some daytime escape

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By *o againTV/TS
20 weeks ago

swansea

Thinking about popping in on the 29th/30th.

Never been before. What can I expect?

Jox

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By *artorialMan
20 weeks ago

weymouth


"Thinking about popping in on the 29th/30th.

Never been before. What can I expect?

Jox"

It's a dress down club so towel or naked. As with all clubs the vibe will depend on who else is there. Enjoy

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By *ockDuoCouple
16 weeks ago

Essex / Oxford

Looking forward to a visit for some Rest, Relaxation, Chat & a dip in the jacuzzi on Tuesday 27th.

Been a while since we last came by, so looking forward to it.

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By *altedpopcornCouple
7 weeks ago

Bromyard

Looking to visit Easter weekend T/F/S daytimes. Anybody else about? M F MF xxx

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By *eady for round 2Man
6 weeks ago

near you

Hey all

What's it like for single guys here during the week?

Im looking to attend on Monday evening get a massage and see where the night takes me.

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