FabSwingers.com forum: Single male, club virgin, Lincolnshire…

By *ttentiveoralgiver OP Man
47 weeks ago

boston

Good morning Guys and girls,

So I’ve recently had a break from fab.

I’m based in Lincolnshire, Lincoln area ish.

28, single male. Average build, straight, I’m genuine, down to earth, polite and just a nice guy.

Previously wanted to start club visits etc, never got there. I’ve met some really good friends on here previously who have given their input and advice based But I thought I’d ask on here for a wider opinion.

Partly before never went, as being a single male I can imagine it being a case of stood propping up the bar, and the fact of previously being between locations and being in-decisive. it was more quest or pandora at that time but now I live in lower Lincolnshire, where all clubs are retrospectively all within the same distance.

So my question is,

What clubs would you recommend? And if so any theme nights you suggest first time around ?

And ideally it’d be nice to chat to like minded people from the club scene to put faces to names on arrival.

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By *thLincsCpleCouple
47 weeks ago

Barton upon Humber

Have you thought about checking out Chunkymufins, that is just outside Boston I don’t think they have any restrictions on single males attending. We went to a party there last week and really liked the place and intend on returning, it would be nice to see some younger single males there.

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By *iss DevilWoman
47 weeks ago

Bedford

How far are you prepared to travel, OP? Also, swinging is not a cheap hobby so be prepared to spend a bit of money. Some clubs offer free or nearly free membership whereas others charge quite a lot, usually every year. So I'd say do your research- look at clubs reviews section on here and check forum, but be mindful that bad reviews don't usually get published/get written.

Once you have narrowed your interest to a few clubs, check their websites for requirements for single men and for membership and entry prices. Then decide whether you want to pay those prices. If yes- contact the club and arrange your first visit. If not- keep looking.

Also, some clubs have non-members events when you don't need to be a member, but you do need to be on the guest list for the event. That would allow you to visit that particular club for the event without needing the membership, almost like "try before you buy". It can be nearly on par with winning the lottery, getting on the guest list for some events, as a single man, but it's doable.

Good luck, OP.

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By *ttentiveoralgiver OP Man
43 weeks ago

boston

Would you mind sending me a pm regarding chunky muffins.please

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By *inksAPlentyCouple
43 weeks ago

Bedfordshire

"Would you mind sending me a pm regarding chunky muffins.please "

Have a search for their profile Chunkymufin and send them a message. We're booked in to go to one of their parties in March - it will be our first time visiting but the reviews are good.

Which other clubs are you considering? We like JayDees but not sure how far that is for you to travel.

Ms x

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