FabSwingers.com forum: GOING TO LA CHAMBRE

By *randmrs29 OP Couple
over a year ago

derby

hi we have finaly decided to take the step and go to a club on the 16th of march and we are new to it all and wondered if there was anything we needed to no about la chambre and do's and donts and things that could ease us into the night all replies would be very helpfull thanks peeps

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By *imsonCouple
over a year ago

durham

brill club promise you s will have a good night

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By *randmrs29 OP Couple
over a year ago

derby

Yeah we are really looking forward to it but nervous at the same time lol that's why we put this out there to see what people say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

La Chambre is a brilliant club, you'll have a great night.

Have you checked out their website? Lots of good advice for new members.

From my own experience, I would suggest:-

~ follow the dress code ("smart" for men and "sexy as you dare" for ladies)

~ take towels (or hire from behind the bar) so that you can use the pool/sauna

~ chat with everyone in the bar/lounge(peeps are really friendly) but don't 'hog' the company of one particular couple/lady. If you leave them with the comment "I'd better let you mingle, but I hope to see you again later", that conveys that you would like to play, and THEY will find YOU if/when they're ready to play

~ if you don't meet anyone who you 'click' with, you can still have a great time, just the two of you, in the open playrooms. Or in one of the private rooms if you're shy!

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By *randmrs29 OP Couple
over a year ago

derby

Thank you for that and yeah sure it will be a good night just see how things go on the night maybe summat private for the first time hehe till we get used to the whole club thing we might not even end up playing but will have a better understanding of the surroundings and the people who go there

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By *lubPartyPeepsCouple
over a year ago

London

You find the whole club very straight forward and friendly.

Good choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you for that and yeah sure it will be a good night just see how things go on the night maybe summat private for the first time hehe till we get used to the whole club thing we might not even end up playing but will have a better understanding of the surroundings and the people who go there "

That's exactly how I played it, the first time. I was so nervous, I thought that swingers all probably have two heads or something - it was only the advice from the website that gave me the courage to get through those doors!

But as it turned out, I met loads and loads of lovely friendly people. I was invited to play, but when I politely declined with a "sorry, not tonight, it's my first visit and I want to take it slowly", they completely understood.

When I got back to my hotel, I thoroughly kicked myself for being too nervous to enjoy the new experience, and I just HAD to go back the next day, to rectify the matter.

Do come back to this thread and let us all know how you got on, or post a review in the Clubs section

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By *randmrs29 OP Couple
over a year ago

derby

Yeah exactly we don't wana leave kicking our selfs ever and yeah forums like this and asking questions kinda gets it out in the open before you go but until we get there and see what it's like for ourself we will never no but there no rush to play at least you no what to expect the next time you go and yeah we are looking forward to meeting new people that's the side what's fun too meeting like minded people who are all in the same situation as yourselfs too

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