FabSwingers.com forum: never been 2 a club

By *piceitup OP Couple
48 weeks ago

mountain ash

we still quite new to all this and was wondering if some one help us out with info on going 2 a club what what's it like dress code price etc thanks in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
48 weeks ago

I’d suggest starting with the Club Reviews section on here. Some great info there.

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By *udandBryanCouple
48 weeks ago

Boston

Some clubs are compulsory dress down, some are dress up, some are members only, some expensive, some are byob etc.

Best bet is to look at some club websites and see which one you like the look of.

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By *hellebelleWoman
48 weeks ago

ashford

Tbh, personal taste means the only way to judge clubs is by yourself really… as even in the swinging world, some love certain clubs whilst others hate them.

I prefer clubs to have a main social area with music, space to dance and maybe a pool or hot tub to chill in but with areas to go for sexy time.

Others prefer a more open plan environment with the crux based for the more voyeur and participatory approach.

Read the club reviews, google the clubs you’re interested in and view the galleries to see if it would suit your taste atheistically and take the plunge.

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By *BitOfAMouthfulCouple
48 weeks ago

Scarborough

"we still quite new to all this and was wondering if some one help us out with info on going 2 a club what what's it like dress code price etc thanks in advance "

Hiya,

We host events up and down the country that are particularly suitable for people new to the club scene. In addition to that we have a great telegram chat to get to know others in advance.

Feel free to pm me if you’d like some more details or just general advice. Happy to help

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By *ightMountainMan
48 weeks ago

Basingstoke

"we still quite new to all this and was wondering if some one help us out with info on going 2 a club what what's it like dress code price etc thanks in advance "

As folks have said a lot of what you can expect depends entirely on which club you're going to. Have you got one in mind?

For some broad tips (in no particular order) I'd go with:

Dress smart and sexy, you don't have to do black tie however you want to make a good impression.

Don't get plastered (a little is good to loosen up however it's so easy to get messy).

You are not required to play or do anything, if you're happy watching and socialising then do that and work up from there

Have agreed rules/limits between yourselves for what you are looking to do.

If you haven't swapped before and you end up seeing your partner with someone else then don't be surprised if you feel conflicted or jealous at whats happening. We'd all like to say that we know what we're getting into however the reality can be quite different. There is nothing wrong with feeling that way just make sure you take the time to think about it and talk openly later.

Be open to trying things and talking to people, go in with no expectations and an open mind.

Some people can try to cop a feel or otherwise cross boundaries, don't be afraid to say so and report them to the club staff. A good place will take these reports seriously.

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By *piceitup OP Couple
48 weeks ago

mountain ash

thank you all so much

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