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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Looking at going to a club but would be my first time ideally like a couple or a female to go with as not sure what to expect or what’s required.

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By *nvisible_manMan
over a year ago

TWICKENHAM


"Looking at going to a club but would be my first time ideally like a couple or a female to go with as not sure what to expect or what’s required."

What about going with a man ? Surely a single man is a better guide as he has experience of going alone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah suppose so never really looked at it like that

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By *orthernJayMan
over a year ago

Elsewhere

Neither is going to happen and hitting a club with another guy when you’ve zero experience is simply a waste of time/money.

If you can’t walk up to a stranger in a bar or coffee shop or charity store, wherever, start a conversation from zero then visiting a club won’t be a great experience in one’s humble opinion; I’ve seen it far too many times.

Let alone having sex in front of others or naked etc with no experience.

You’re going to have to take a deep breath!

Organised socials are often a better route into the scene and to gain experience.

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford


"Looking at going to a club but would be my first time ideally like a couple or a female to go with as not sure what to expect or what’s required.

What about going with a man ? Surely a single man is a better guide as he has experience of going alone."

Very much not! Particularly if the two of you get attached at the hip and cannot explore on your own. Two or more men following a woman or a couple around a club are more intimidating than just one.

So OP, go on your own, what's the worst that can happen?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Guess I’m just worried/nervous about what actually goes on at clubs and what’s also expected

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By *adyluck..Woman
over a year ago

Halifax

Be brave I do find single men more appealing and treat as a bar smile chat be respectful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guess I’m just worried/nervous about what actually goes on at clubs and what’s also expected "

The bar areas are just like walking into a normal bar. Go with no expectations. Be polite, friendly and chatty. Don't follow couples around the play areas with your cock in your hand...we hate that shit.

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