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By (user no longer on site) OP   
52 weeks ago

Toying with the idea of a club but feeling quite nervous, can anyone recommend clubs in and around Gloucestershire that would be a good place to start for a couple feeling a little shy?

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By *ittlemisseroticaCouple
52 weeks ago

london

No need to be nervous, maybe visit VA when we are there on 12/13 Jan, we love to meet newbies. You two look like a lot fun!

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple
52 weeks ago

Northampton

+1 for VA. It’s a great club.

Depending what you are looking for, Friday night includes single men and Saturday excludes them.

Book a hotel and make a weekend of it. There is a hotel on site which is very nice and serves the purpose of a club visit or there are some lovely hotels on the area if you want to explore

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By *ryagain500Man
52 weeks ago

southend

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By *ryagain500Man
52 weeks ago

southend

Where is the V and A club please?

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple
52 weeks ago

Northampton


"Where is the V and A club please?"

V & A is a museum in London

The VA (Vanilla Alternative) is just outside Bedford

Although historically speaking there are some similarities

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By *uncouple 321Couple
52 weeks ago

south West

Xtasia, West bromwich. Good place to start

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By *evilandTheBeastCouple
52 weeks ago

Peterborough and Bedford

Even though VA (closer to Sandy actually than Bedford, and not far from Black Cat Roundabout on A1) is a good club, it may not necessarily be suitable for people who are new to swingers clubs. As they don't offer private lockable room, it's open play or couples room. There is one area with a curtain that you can close if you want some privacy but the closed curtain is not always respected.

Also, you are probably nearer to Birmingham, with their Xstasia and Chameleons, than Bedfordshire.

As far as I'm aware, there are no swingers clubs in Gloucestershire.

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By *emini and ScorpioCouple
52 weeks ago

The South West


"Toying with the idea of a club but feeling quite nervous, can anyone recommend clubs in and around Gloucestershire that would be a good place to start for a couple feeling a little shy? "

Try Utopia in Devon. Straight down the M5, our regular club and super friendly for newbies.

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple
52 weeks ago

Northampton


"Even though VA (closer to Sandy actually than Bedford, and not far from Black Cat Roundabout on A1) is a good club, it may not necessarily be suitable for people who are new to swingers clubs. As they don't offer private lockable room, it's open play or couples room. There is one area with a curtain that you can close if you want some privacy but the closed curtain is not always respected.

Also, you are probably nearer to Birmingham, with their Xstasia and Chameleons, than Bedfordshire.

As far as I'm aware, there are no swingers clubs in Gloucestershire. "

No one knows where Sandy is And only Radio 2 listeners will have heard of Black Cat r/bout

Good points on play. The whole club is open play. We prefer that, primarily as you pointed out the closed curtain is not always respected.

We’ve played with just the 2 of us in the open areas and never had an issue with boundaries being broached by others.

OP I guess that’s an important thing to consider when looking for a club. Do you want open or closed play. And of course geography/ travel time etc.

Let us know how you get on and where you choose

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
52 weeks ago

Thanks so much for the suggestions

We arent really sure what we want yet figure it will be come apparent along the way. Think we would like the option of privacy though. Heard good things about Chams up in Birmingham (not too far for us)

Just wondering how the different clubs differ, seems there's quite a bit of variation

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By *abuedoCouple
52 weeks ago

Leamington Spa

Liberty Elite in Lutterworth do a great newbie event - Vanilla to Vixen. Can highly recommend & host profile on here is naughtycp1

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By *emini and ScorpioCouple
52 weeks ago

The South West


"+1 for VA. It’s a great club.

Depending what you are looking for, Friday night includes single men and Saturday excludes them.

Book a hotel and make a weekend of it. There is a hotel on site which is very nice and serves the purpose of a club visit or there are some lovely hotels on the area if you want to explore "

VA is on our list for early next year. Haven’t been yet but heard good things. Chic events are also held there I think?

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By *uriouscouple4fun2022Couple
52 weeks ago

Kempston

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By *uriouscouple4fun2022Couple
52 weeks ago

Kempston

We were quite nervous about going to a club but took the plunge and went to jaydees on Halloween (apparently the busiest night of the year). We were made to feel so welcome by staff and guests alike. We've now been twice and felt very comfortable both times.

It's quite a long trek from you but worth it if you're able to stay there or in a hotel not far away.

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By *ingeandTCouple
52 weeks ago

Peterborough

Another vote for Jaydees, we’ve only been there so can’t comment on anywhere else. Have been made to feel so welcomed, they also run newbie nights. Have a look at the club reviews go all the clubs and it might give you a feel for the clubs you’re thinking of trying?

We plan to visit different ones next year so will be looking for newbie nights too! Lol x

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By *ebblesnBambamCouple
52 weeks ago

mk

Newbie night at penthouse playrooms this Friday we always have a great night at this fantastic club and I think you don’t have to have a membership this Friday if you’re a couple

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By *evilinherCouple
52 weeks ago

varied

Chams do a great bbw event it’s a great chance to try the club as if your on the guest list you don’t need membership

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