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"Key lesson learnt for insomnia get there for opening…" I heard the cues for many of the clubs are insane. | |||
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"What’s the wear black thing about?? " Dark clothes add to the chic, street-wise look of young people in the city. It's more tradition now than anything though. That dates back to the late 80s early 90s when many of the famous super clubs appeared. Berlin wall was being ripped down. Techno, EBM, what would later become Trance [although this is more the Frankfurt sound] as well as for east Germans, western music that previously could only be heard illigally; became to represent freedom,liberty, tollerence and self expression. A sub group of people wanted to appear edgy. Black is Powerful, edgy, sleek and strong; it's an understated shade that creates a statement. Many kulterhaus were simply reflecting their favourite music acts none the less. It's impact on the Berlin techno scene that still persists. Black is often combines with some edgy accessories (auffallend). Although wearing black is a good and safe choice, being unique and staying true to yourself (bleib dir treu) is also highly encouraged. There is also a practical reason for black. After the Berlin wall fell the no means land between original wall became fertile ground for illegal raves. Wearing black allows for greater chance of not being spotted in case the Feds cause you to do a runner by breaking up your underground party. It also mates sweate less visable, Raves get hot normally wearing less cloths is better practically. From a modern day POV. Tradition combined with a techno sub culure and an industrial athletic are reasons for all the gothic black. But I'm not German so maybe someone who is from Berlin and/or German is better at explaining. | |||
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A great city though with fantastic transport links. I wish we were going back!!!
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"Ok some advice. I want to know what people were on their night out currently trying to buy as much much things as I can." What people were on? Hopefully nothing much more than caffeine. Possibly a bit of nicotine and maybe a drop or two of alcohol.  | |||
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"Ok some advice. I want to know what people were on their night out currently trying to buy as much much things as I can. What people were on? Hopefully nothing much more than caffeine. Possibly a bit of nicotine and maybe a drop or two of alcohol. "Sorry I ment what they were wearing | |||
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"Do they have tickets on their website ?" Most clubs you have to buy. KitKat you pay in the door. | |||
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"What’s the wear black thing about?? Dark clothes add to the chic, street-wise look of young people in the city. It's more tradition now than anything though. That dates back to the late 80s early 90s when many of the famous super clubs appeared. Berlin wall was being ripped down. Techno, EBM, what would later become Trance [although this is more the Frankfurt sound] as well as for east Germans, western music that previously could only be heard illigally; became to represent freedom,liberty, tollerence and self expression. A sub group of people wanted to appear edgy. Black is Powerful, edgy, sleek and strong; it's an understated shade that creates a statement. Many kulterhaus were simply reflecting their favourite music acts none the less. It's impact on the Berlin techno scene that still persists. Black is often combines with some edgy accessories (auffallend). Although wearing black is a good and safe choice, being unique and staying true to yourself (bleib dir treu) is also highly encouraged. There is also a practical reason for black. After the Berlin wall fell the no means land between original wall became fertile ground for illegal raves. Wearing black allows for greater chance of not being spotted in case the Feds cause you to do a runner by breaking up your underground party. It also mates sweate less visable, Raves get hot normally wearing less cloths is better practically. From a modern day POV. Tradition combined with a techno sub culure and an industrial athletic are reasons for all the gothic black. But I'm not German so maybe someone who is from Berlin and/or German is better at explaining." So sure wedding a video about EBM (ELECTRIC BODY MOVEMENT) of the late 80s had an impact on let's wear all black techno scene. EBM is a form of electronica rock music, where one replaces the guitars with synths and the percussion is shared between drums and drum machines. Anyway the asthetics of EBM inspired or grew with Berlin's vergening BDSM and gay scenes as well as inspiring techno and early trance music. Basically the asthetic was an edgy way of saying fuck you to to their communist and fascist forefathers. Anyway one 90s gay sex club Osgut and it's party Snax in 2004 would evolve into the techno club Berghrain.  | |||
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"Back from Berlin I loved every moment would though recommend if anyone is that kind of thing to go to sexclubs they are just off a different level." Tell us more. | |||
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"Back from Berlin I loved every moment would though recommend if anyone is that kind of thing to go to sexclubs they are just off a different level. Tell us more. " I'm going to write a club review. But basically it was a totally different experience. Being able to dance the night away and also people getting off around me. Put it this way a lot of things happened in KitKat that simply would either not be able happen in the UK because of law but also the type of clientele. | |||
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"Back from Berlin I loved every moment would though recommend if anyone is that kind of thing to go to sexclubs they are just off a different level. Tell us more. I'm going to write a club review. But basically it was a totally different experience. Being able to dance the night away and also people getting off around me. Put it this way a lot of things happened in KitKat that simply would either not be able happen in the UK because of law but also the type of clientele." This is taking longer than expected bare with me guys. | |||
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"Last time I was on Berlin I was wearing khaki " How was your last time in Berlin? | |||
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"Back from Berlin I loved every moment would though recommend if anyone is that kind of thing to go to sexclubs they are just off a different level. Tell us more. " hear is my review of it https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/clubs/1547073 | |||
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"Kit Kat club is a kink/fetish club not a swingers club so there is a dress code. I’ve not been in it but have been to other kink/fetish events in Berlin. " Hope its ok if I very, very politely and respectfully correct you and inform any interested readers that Berlin's KitKat is most definitely a swinger's club. People have sex in there, at night anyway. I would agree it has an element of kink/fetish to it but that's more the clientele rather than the club itself. Where the confusion often arises is that they do have a loose "must wear black" rule on the door but, especially at weekends when the club is very popular, there are often huge queues to get in so many "dress up" in outlandishly sexy gear and lavish costumes to gain favour (and they hope earlier entry) with the door staff. Some of the guests really do look amazing! Inside it definitely has that huge "night club" feel with large dancefloors playing mainly banging EBM (think goth rock meets techno if you not familiar with this genre) and many do go to just dance or pose or go on the pull like every other night club on the planet. It is easy to frequent the KitKat and not be a swinger. That is true. But away from the dance floors people have sex in there. A lot of it too. They most certainly swing! And literally anything goes. There is a lot of both straight and gay sex as well as any/all kinks, fetishes, specialities you can think of. Even ones you might not have! I would say to anyone thinking of going by all means go for it but be prepared for it being so popular as it is so famous. If you are going to Berlin but want a more "same as UK swinger clubs" experience then there are umpteen others in the city to choose from. If you like the sound of the KitKat - as in banging gothy-techno music, dark clothing but still places to have sex may I suggest looking at Insomnia as its a smaller version of the KitKat in a way. Hope this might be of use to some readers. | |||
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"Kit Kat club is a kink/fetish club not a swingers club so there is a dress code. I’ve not been in it but have been to other kink/fetish events in Berlin. Hope its ok if I very, very politely and respectfully correct you and inform any interested readers that Berlin's KitKat is most definitely a swinger's club. People have sex in there, at night anyway. I would agree it has an element of kink/fetish to it but that's more the clientele rather than the club itself. Where the confusion often arises is that they do have a loose "must wear black" rule on the door but, especially at weekends when the club is very popular, there are often huge queues to get in so many "dress up" in outlandishly sexy gear and lavish costumes to gain favour (and they hope earlier entry) with the door staff. Some of the guests really do look amazing! Inside it definitely has that huge "night club" feel with large dancefloors playing mainly banging EBM (think goth rock meets techno if you not familiar with this genre) and many do go to just dance or pose or go on the pull like every other night club on the planet. It is easy to frequent the KitKat and not be a swinger. That is true. But away from the dance floors people have sex in there. A lot of it too. They most certainly swing! And literally anything goes. There is a lot of both straight and gay sex as well as any/all kinks, fetishes, specialities you can think of. Even ones you might not have! I would say to anyone thinking of going by all means go for it but be prepared for it being so popular as it is so famous. If you are going to Berlin but want a more "same as UK swinger clubs" experience then there are umpteen others in the city to choose from. If you like the sound of the KitKat - as in banging gothy-techno music, dark clothing but still places to have sex may I suggest looking at Insomnia as its a smaller version of the KitKat in a way. Hope this might be of use to some readers. " I agree with you that to me any way. Swingers clubs and sex clubs are the same thing. Alas though when speaking to people at KitKat many did but see themselves as swingers. A) because they had a traditional understanding of what it bent to be a swingers i.e. wife swapping B) some were singles looking to explore there first sex club (maybe this was the back up option). | |||
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"Kit Kat club is a kink/fetish club not a swingers club so there is a dress code. I’ve not been in it but have been to other kink/fetish events in Berlin. Hope its ok if I very, very politely and respectfully correct you and inform any interested readers that Berlin's KitKat is most definitely a swinger's club. People have sex in there, at night anyway. I would agree it has an element of kink/fetish to it but that's more the clientele rather than the club itself. Where the confusion often arises is that they do have a loose "must wear black" rule on the door but, especially at weekends when the club is very popular, there are often huge queues to get in so many "dress up" in outlandishly sexy gear and lavish costumes to gain favour (and they hope earlier entry) with the door staff. Some of the guests really do look amazing! Inside it definitely has that huge "night club" feel with large dancefloors playing mainly banging EBM (think goth rock meets techno if you not familiar with this genre) and many do go to just dance or pose or go on the pull like every other night club on the planet. It is easy to frequent the KitKat and not be a swinger. That is true. But away from the dance floors people have sex in there. A lot of it too. They most certainly swing! And literally anything goes. There is a lot of both straight and gay sex as well as any/all kinks, fetishes, specialities you can think of. Even ones you might not have! I would say to anyone thinking of going by all means go for it but be prepared for it being so popular as it is so famous. If you are going to Berlin but want a more "same as UK swinger clubs" experience then there are umpteen others in the city to choose from. If you like the sound of the KitKat - as in banging gothy-techno music, dark clothing but still places to have sex may I suggest looking at Insomnia as its a smaller version of the KitKat in a way. Hope this might be of use to some readers. " Another vote for Insomnia, albeit, we last attended on a Saturday, five years ago. It was our first experience of a swinging club after just attending fetish clubs and prompted us to join this site. There was no queue despite the place being rammed. Mostly people were dancing to techno though there was some sex going on just off the dance floor. We had no issues getting in despite being middle aged (me much more so), though she was 6 months pregnant, half naked with a collar and lead, which even by Berlin standards, must carry some novelty value for jaded door staff. There was a mezzanine level with lots of huge beds for couples only which was where most of the sex was going on. Lots of it in fact, all the beds being occupied by multiple couples at one point. The most shocking thing for us though was the smoking area which was a big glass box inside the club with doors that seemed to let all the smoke into the club. | |||
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"Kit Kat club is a kink/fetish club not a swingers club so there is a dress code. I’ve not been in it but have been to other kink/fetish events in Berlin. Hope its ok if I very, very politely and respectfully correct you and inform any interested readers that Berlin's KitKat is most definitely a swinger's club. People have sex in there, at night anyway. I would agree it has an element of kink/fetish to it but that's more the clientele rather than the club itself. Where the confusion often arises is that they do have a loose "must wear black" rule on the door but, especially at weekends when the club is very popular, there are often huge queues to get in so many "dress up" in outlandishly sexy gear and lavish costumes to gain favour (and they hope earlier entry) with the door staff. Some of the guests really do look amazing! Inside it definitely has that huge "night club" feel with large dancefloors playing mainly banging EBM (think goth rock meets techno if you not familiar with this genre) and many do go to just dance or pose or go on the pull like every other night club on the planet. It is easy to frequent the KitKat and not be a swinger. That is true. But away from the dance floors people have sex in there. A lot of it too. They most certainly swing! And literally anything goes. There is a lot of both straight and gay sex as well as any/all kinks, fetishes, specialities you can think of. Even ones you might not have! I would say to anyone thinking of going by all means go for it but be prepared for it being so popular as it is so famous. If you are going to Berlin but want a more "same as UK swinger clubs" experience then there are umpteen others in the city to choose from. If you like the sound of the KitKat - as in banging gothy-techno music, dark clothing but still places to have sex may I suggest looking at Insomnia as its a smaller version of the KitKat in a way. Hope this might be of use to some readers. Another vote for Insomnia, albeit, we last attended on a Saturday, five years ago. It was our first experience of a swinging club after just attending fetish clubs and prompted us to join this site. There was no queue despite the place being rammed. Mostly people were dancing to techno though there was some sex going on just off the dance floor. We had no issues getting in despite being middle aged (me much more so), though she was 6 months pregnant, half naked with a collar and lead, which even by Berlin standards, must carry some novelty value for jaded door staff. There was a mezzanine level with lots of huge beds for couples only which was where most of the sex was going on. Lots of it in fact, all the beds being occupied by multiple couples at one point. The most shocking thing for us though was the smoking area which was a big glass box inside the club with doors that seemed to let all the smoke into the club. " Was that The SNF/SFN night or international afair? | |||
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"Kit Kat club is a kink/fetish club not a swingers club so there is a dress code. I’ve not been in it but have been to other kink/fetish events in Berlin. Hope its ok if I very, very politely and respectfully correct you and inform any interested readers that Berlin's KitKat is most definitely a swinger's club. People have sex in there, at night anyway. I would agree it has an element of kink/fetish to it but that's more the clientele rather than the club itself. Where the confusion often arises is that they do have a loose "must wear black" rule on the door but, especially at weekends when the club is very popular, there are often huge queues to get in so many "dress up" in outlandishly sexy gear and lavish costumes to gain favour (and they hope earlier entry) with the door staff. Some of the guests really do look amazing! Inside it definitely has that huge "night club" feel with large dancefloors playing mainly banging EBM (think goth rock meets techno if you not familiar with this genre) and many do go to just dance or pose or go on the pull like every other night club on the planet. It is easy to frequent the KitKat and not be a swinger. That is true. But away from the dance floors people have sex in there. A lot of it too. They most certainly swing! And literally anything goes. There is a lot of both straight and gay sex as well as any/all kinks, fetishes, specialities you can think of. Even ones you might not have! I would say to anyone thinking of going by all means go for it but be prepared for it being so popular as it is so famous. If you are going to Berlin but want a more "same as UK swinger clubs" experience then there are umpteen others in the city to choose from. If you like the sound of the KitKat - as in banging gothy-techno music, dark clothing but still places to have sex may I suggest looking at Insomnia as its a smaller version of the KitKat in a way. Hope this might be of use to some readers. Another vote for Insomnia, albeit, we last attended on a Saturday, five years ago. It was our first experience of a swinging club after just attending fetish clubs and prompted us to join this site. There was no queue despite the place being rammed. Mostly people were dancing to techno though there was some sex going on just off the dance floor. We had no issues getting in despite being middle aged (me much more so), though she was 6 months pregnant, half naked with a collar and lead, which even by Berlin standards, must carry some novelty value for jaded door staff. There was a mezzanine level with lots of huge beds for couples only which was where most of the sex was going on. Lots of it in fact, all the beds being occupied by multiple couples at one point. The most shocking thing for us though was the smoking area which was a big glass box inside the club with doors that seemed to let all the smoke into the club. Was that The SNF/SFN night or international afair?" Sorry, can’t remember, it was over 5 years ago now. | |||
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"not alot is open to all by this i mean alot and i do mean alot is underground but when you find it well lets just say wow.. best advice do you searching and homework before you go its not like Amsterdam or Hamburg as open but its far more kinky and hardcore in the flesh as in people not media " | |||
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"We lived Avarus. A quieter blend of lounge bar, wet rooms and big open play space. Stylish friendly. And occasionally they have chocolate night which is hot and sensuous in the steam room. " The next time if I'm back in berlin I will have to give it a visit. | |||
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"Kit Kat club is a kink/fetish club not a swingers club so there is a dress code. I’ve not been in it but have been to other kink/fetish events in Berlin. Hope its ok if I very, very politely and respectfully correct you and inform any interested readers that Berlin's KitKat is most definitely a swinger's club. People have sex in there, at night anyway. I would agree it has an element of kink/fetish to it but that's more the clientele rather than the club itself. Where the confusion often arises is that they do have a loose "must wear black" rule on the door but, especially at weekends when the club is very popular, there are often huge queues to get in so many "dress up" in outlandishly sexy gear and lavish costumes to gain favour (and they hope earlier entry) with the door staff. Some of the guests really do look amazing! Inside it definitely has that huge "night club" feel with large dancefloors playing mainly banging EBM (think goth rock meets techno if you not familiar with this genre) and many do go to just dance or pose or go on the pull like every other night club on the planet. It is easy to frequent the KitKat and not be a swinger. That is true. But away from the dance floors people have sex in there. A lot of it too. They most certainly swing! And literally anything goes. There is a lot of both straight and gay sex as well as any/all kinks, fetishes, specialities you can think of. Even ones you might not have! I would say to anyone thinking of going by all means go for it but be prepared for it being so popular as it is so famous. If you are going to Berlin but want a more "same as UK swinger clubs" experience then there are umpteen others in the city to choose from. If you like the sound of the KitKat - as in banging gothy-techno music, dark clothing but still places to have sex may I suggest looking at Insomnia as its a smaller version of the KitKat in a way. Hope this might be of use to some readers. " Yeah they have sex in it but it has a strict dress code as well. | |||
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