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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My wife is a nervous first timer on the club scene. She hates seedy which is her perception sadly. Any tips on where to try first so she becomes more confident and not get put off.

We have had several MMF meetings but all at home..

Also what do you wear?

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By *archelCouple
over a year ago

A field somewhere

Quest on a couples single ladies night will fit the bill for her...2nd Saturday of the month. We're regulars and it's always a good night.

I always dress full glam as it's Saturday night and I want to impress. Mr wears smart jeans/shirt/shoes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to admit I love the idea of going to a club, and have several fantasies I want to fulfil.

However...

The idea of dress down really scares me, I don't have the body confidence at all and i know I would feel uncomfortable and / or inferior. Completely my issue, but it does put me off, I wish there was a way to get around that part so easily!

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By *archelCouple
over a year ago

A field somewhere


"I have to admit I love the idea of going to a club, and have several fantasies I want to fulfil.

However...

The idea of dress down really scares me, I don't have the body confidence at all and i know I would feel uncomfortable and / or inferior. Completely my issue, but it does put me off, I wish there was a way to get around that part so easily! "

I've massive body conscious issues. When we first started going I used to wear my dressing gown and slippers...nobody batted an eye lol

Now I walk around in sexy gear. Do what makes you comfortable

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You sound just like my wife!

I understand but no one is judging just enjoying the moment...like you should (and my Mrs!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to admit I love the idea of going to a club, and have several fantasies I want to fulfil.

However...

The idea of dress down really scares me, I don't have the body confidence at all and i know I would feel uncomfortable and / or inferior. Completely my issue, but it does put me off, I wish there was a way to get around that part so easily!

I've massive body conscious issues. When we first started going I used to wear my dressing gown and slippers...nobody batted an eye lol

Now I walk around in sexy gear. Do what makes you comfortable

Mrs "

Does a sheet count as dressing down for the first time?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to admit I love the idea of going to a club, and have several fantasies I want to fulfil.

However...

The idea of dress down really scares me, I don't have the body confidence at all and i know I would feel uncomfortable and / or inferior. Completely my issue, but it does put me off, I wish there was a way to get around that part so easily!

I've massive body conscious issues. When we first started going I used to wear my dressing gown and slippers...nobody batted an eye lol

Now I walk around in sexy gear. Do what makes you comfortable

Mrs

Does a sheet count as dressing down for the first time?! "

And, you're beautiful! I know we own have our own body issues, but you really don't look like you need to, I'd be strutting around in next to nothing if I looked like you!

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By *archelCouple
over a year ago

A field somewhere


"I have to admit I love the idea of going to a club, and have several fantasies I want to fulfil.

However...

The idea of dress down really scares me, I don't have the body confidence at all and i know I would feel uncomfortable and / or inferior. Completely my issue, but it does put me off, I wish there was a way to get around that part so easily!

I've massive body conscious issues. When we first started going I used to wear my dressing gown and slippers...nobody batted an eye lol

Now I walk around in sexy gear. Do what makes you comfortable

Mrs

Does a sheet count as dressing down for the first time?!

And, you're beautiful! I know we own have our own body issues, but you really don't look like you need to, I'd be strutting around in next to nothing if I looked like you! "

Thank you

If you want to rock the Casper look, you go girl lol You don't have to dress down unless you're going to the play rooms. Although some clubs do have an instant dress down rule, but we don't go to them for that reason. You can also dress down and just wear a towel too

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By *inacolada3Couple
over a year ago

kettering

Most clubs have a social area, font go with the intention of sex or dressing down, just socialise first time and get a feel for it.

If you both just sat in a corner all night it would bother no one.

Also read club reviews to find the more quality club that would fit your needs. X

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By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

Adam and eves in eccles is now a non dress down club on ground floor only

The best night to go is a thurs which us quiz night and a great ice breaker

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By *rcadian110Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

For my wife and I , going to Pandora's really changed our opinion of ourselves. I was always really self conscious being a bigger guy but as soon as we went in there we both felt comfortable and confident. More so than anywhere else we have tried. It's brought us out of our shells and the place is far from seedy. It's fun, sex and non pushy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Adam and eves in eccles is now a non dress down club on ground floor only

The best night to go is a thurs which us quiz night and a great ice breaker"

Quiz night is a great idea as an ice breaker.

I’m hugely competitive though. So probably not a good idea

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