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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it wrong to think it’s ok to play with partner only? How many people only play with their partner only ?

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By *lderguy4uMan
over a year ago

wirral

It's quite common in the club scene just go for it and enjoy each other with people watching

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By *andy IanMan
over a year ago

cheshire/Preston

A lot of couples go for the first time to see what happens and if it’s what they want. They may like the idea of the lady being admired in her underwear and see how turned on they get. They may have agreed to only play together the first time or if a suitable partner attracts their attention swop partners and enjoy new pleasures. Some may just want to just watch others or be watched themselves. It’s best to go open minded but be aware of each others limits.

Enjoy

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By *edsthewordMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

My wife and I only played with each other our first time, some night we still do. You can do whatever you like when you like! x

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By *taffsnewtwoCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"Is it wrong to think it’s ok to play with partner only? How many people only play with their partner only ? "

I'd say it was quite normal to only play with your partner initially at least. We haven't invited any one else to join us. The first few times we played in a private room, but loved the whole atmosphere of clubs. We now have fun in more open areas, but still just the two of us. You just need to do what is right for you. Absolutely no pressure to do anything you aren't comfortable with.

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

Why wouldn't it be ok, OP? Clubs are not like a massive orgy where you get dragged in whether you want to or not. Most clubs have private lockable rooms as well that you can use if you prefer not to play in open areas. A lot of people come to clubs to socialize with like-minded people and use club facilities rather than have sex with others. What I'm trying to say, OP, is use the club the way it suits you (obviously as long as you respect the etiquette) and have fun .

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By *eenawMan
over a year ago

anywhere and everywhere

Hi,

Nothing wrong with that at all, it’s your day and your experience, so just have a great time and enjoy it ??

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By *inacolada3Couple
over a year ago

kettering

Sometimes we only play with each other, sometime we dont play at all and just dance, drink and chat, the sex bit is always secondry x

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Some people that have been in huge orgies can equally decide to just have a bit of exclusive time, maybe in an open area so people can watch but not join in.

Nothing wrong with doing what you want.

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By *imandLiz14Couple
over a year ago

Needham


"Is it wrong to think it’s ok to play with partner only? How many people only play with their partner only ? "

It's totally your choice as other's have said,

We've had several visits to Chameleons Darlaston and not played with others, we look at it as a chill day/weekend and if we play with other's all good if not we've had a relaxing time on the company of like minded people.

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
over a year ago

Norwichish

Have never played with others at a club but are club regulars. Mainly for the dungeons which are so much better than anything we could build at home.

Then there is the fun of being exhibitionists.

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