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By *jEuphoria OP   Couple
over a year ago

north kent

Had a strange conversation, not so long ago.

Was at a naturist spa, got talking to a couple, well ‘her’, really. Pretty new to the scene. The conversation got on to clubs, and said lady, proceeded to mention how she went to JD’s, in her jeans and very casual attire. Really! and had the audacity to say that half the women were dressed like ‘ladies of the night’….

I then had to educate said lady, on why there is a dress code, and the whole purpose of why women dress that way, (and some men).

I wonder whether she was, very naive, ignorant or her husband had taken her along and she was under the assumption that the scene was akin to a night at the pub, and you picked out the keys from a bowl.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Maybe when she got to JD's she took off her jeans and casual attire and wore her underwear or a towel.

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge

So whats appropriate for a friday at Ab Fabs these days. Suit and nice shirt, jacket, chinos, nice shirt, chinos nice shirt no jacket.

asking for a friend

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By *p4fun60Couple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"So whats appropriate for a friday at Ab Fabs these days. Suit and nice shirt, jacket, chinos, nice shirt, chinos nice shirt no jacket.

asking for a friend"

Your trying to sell yourself so to speak, we always make the effort but it's so surprising how many don't - in my humble opinion a man who's made an effort on himself will treat me with the same respect, same with ladies, it always surprises me at those that wear little or no make up, come on girls at least put a bit of lippy on lol

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


" it always surprises me at those that wear little or no make up, come on girls at least put a bit of lippy on lol"

I rarely wear makeup, especially not at a wet club with jacuzzi and sauna. Even if you have sex at a dry club it all smears off so I don't wear it.

Strangely my lack of make-up doesn't seem to put people off getting intimate with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a strange conversation, not so long ago.

Was at a naturist spa, got talking to a couple, well ‘her’, really. Pretty new to the scene. The conversation got on to clubs, and said lady, proceeded to mention how she went to JD’s, in her jeans and very casual attire. Really! and had the audacity to say that half the women were dressed like ‘ladies of the night’….

I then had to educate said lady, on why there is a dress code, and the whole purpose of why women dress that way, (and some men).

I wonder whether she was, very naive, ignorant or her husband had taken her along and she was under the assumption that the scene was akin to a night at the pub, and you picked out the keys from a bowl.

"

It surprises me sometimes when we go to a club night what people, in particular women are wearing.

I personally like to make an effort to dress nicely/sexy and put on makeup. If you’re not going to make an effort when you go to a club, when are you?

IMO it comes across as lazy, if you’re too lazy to make an effort in yourself then more than likely you’ll carry that into the playrooms!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So whats appropriate for a friday at Ab Fabs these days. Suit and nice shirt, jacket, chinos, nice shirt, chinos nice shirt no jacket.

asking for a friend"

Just look smart, no jeans. Shirt and smart trousers, easy

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By *aidForSharingWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire


"So whats appropriate for a friday at Ab Fabs these days. Suit and nice shirt, jacket, chinos, nice shirt, chinos nice shirt no jacket.

asking for a friend

Your trying to sell yourself so to speak, we always make the effort but it's so surprising how many don't - in my humble opinion a man who's made an effort on himself will treat me with the same respect, same with ladies, it always surprises me at those that wear little or no make up, come on girls at least put a bit of lippy on lol"

I'm not there to attract men. I find it degrading that I am expected to dress like a hoe so I just put on a towel wrap, no makeup and am never short of attention.

As for 'making an effort', a guy in a club is usually looking for a no strings shag. They hover round couples fucking, hoping to get some anonymous action. Not much effort made by most of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So whats appropriate for a friday at Ab Fabs these days. Suit and nice shirt, jacket, chinos, nice shirt, chinos nice shirt no jacket.

asking for a friend

Your trying to sell yourself so to speak, we always make the effort but it's so surprising how many don't - in my humble opinion a man who's made an effort on himself will treat me with the same respect, same with ladies, it always surprises me at those that wear little or no make up, come on girls at least put a bit of lippy on lol

I'm not there to attract men. I find it degrading that I am expected to dress like a hoe so I just put on a towel wrap, no makeup and am never short of attention.

As for 'making an effort', a guy in a club is usually looking for a no strings shag. They hover round couples fucking, hoping to get some anonymous action. Not much effort made by most of them."

I’m not there to attract men either, You find it degrading that you are expected to dress up as a hoe?!

Wow so any woman who dresses up for a club is a hoe?

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By *ottodot123Couple
over a year ago

Gillingham

I love to dress up and wear make up. It's all part of the fun for me.

However, I have no judgement for women that don't. I want them to feel comfortable however they like and I don't think it has any bearing on what they would be like to play with.

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By *aidForSharingWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire


"So whats appropriate for a friday at Ab Fabs these days. Suit and nice shirt, jacket, chinos, nice shirt, chinos nice shirt no jacket.

asking for a friend

Your trying to sell yourself so to speak, we always make the effort but it's so surprising how many don't - in my humble opinion a man who's made an effort on himself will treat me with the same respect, same with ladies, it always surprises me at those that wear little or no make up, come on girls at least put a bit of lippy on lol

I'm not there to attract men. I find it degrading that I am expected to dress like a hoe so I just put on a towel wrap, no makeup and am never short of attention.

As for 'making an effort', a guy in a club is usually looking for a no strings shag. They hover round couples fucking, hoping to get some anonymous action. Not much effort made by most of them.

I’m not there to attract men either, You find it degrading that you are expected to dress up as a hoe?!

Wow so any woman who dresses up for a club is a hoe?

I said LIKE a hoe. Read!!!!!

"

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By *p4fun60Couple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"So whats appropriate for a friday at Ab Fabs these days. Suit and nice shirt, jacket, chinos, nice shirt, chinos nice shirt no jacket.

asking for a friend

Your trying to sell yourself so to speak, we always make the effort but it's so surprising how many don't - in my humble opinion a man who's made an effort on himself will treat me with the same respect, same with ladies, it always surprises me at those that wear little or no make up, come on girls at least put a bit of lippy on lol

I'm not there to attract men. I find it degrading that I am expected to dress like a hoe so I just put on a towel wrap, no makeup and am never short of attention.

As for 'making an effort', a guy in a club is usually looking for a no strings shag. They hover round couples fucking, hoping to get some anonymous action. Not much effort made by most of them.

I’m not there to attract men either, You find it degrading that you are expected to dress up as a hoe?!

Wow so any woman who dresses up for a club is a hoe?

I said LIKE a hoe. Read!!!!!

Reads the same surely....dressed like a hoe you said ...a sweeping statement and a bit insulting to those of us who love to wear make up and nice lingerie lol but you have a lovely day

"

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By *aidForSharingWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire


"So whats appropriate for a friday at Ab Fabs these days. Suit and nice shirt, jacket, chinos, nice shirt, chinos nice shirt no jacket.

asking for a friend

Your trying to sell yourself so to speak, we always make the effort but it's so surprising how many don't - in my humble opinion a man who's made an effort on himself will treat me with the same respect, same with ladies, it always surprises me at those that wear little or no make up, come on girls at least put a bit of lippy on lol

I'm not there to attract men. I find it degrading that I am expected to dress like a hoe so I just put on a towel wrap, no makeup and am never short of attention.

As for 'making an effort', a guy in a club is usually looking for a no strings shag. They hover round couples fucking, hoping to get some anonymous action. Not much effort made by most of them.

I’m not there to attract men either, You find it degrading that you are expected to dress up as a hoe?!

Wow so any woman who dresses up for a club is a hoe?

I said LIKE a hoe. Read!!!!!

Reads the same surely....dressed like a hoe you said ...a sweeping statement and a bit insulting to those of us who love to wear make up and nice lingerie lol but you have a lovely day

"

Great for you and your pictures look gorgeous but it is a matter of personal taste. Shouldn't be obligatory for us

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By *p4fun60Couple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"So whats appropriate for a friday at Ab Fabs these days. Suit and nice shirt, jacket, chinos, nice shirt, chinos nice shirt no jacket.

asking for a friend

Your trying to sell yourself so to speak, we always make the effort but it's so surprising how many don't - in my humble opinion a man who's made an effort on himself will treat me with the same respect, same with ladies, it always surprises me at those that wear little or no make up, come on girls at least put a bit of lippy on lol

I'm not there to attract men. I find it degrading that I am expected to dress like a hoe so I just put on a towel wrap, no makeup and am never short of attention.

As for 'making an effort', a guy in a club is usually looking for a no strings shag. They hover round couples fucking, hoping to get some anonymous action. Not much effort made by most of them.

I’m not there to attract men either, You find it degrading that you are expected to dress up as a hoe?!

Wow so any woman who dresses up for a club is a hoe?

I said LIKE a hoe. Read!!!!!

Reads the same surely....dressed like a hoe you said ...a sweeping statement and a bit insulting to those of us who love to wear make up and nice lingerie lol but you have a lovely day

Great for you and your pictures look gorgeous but it is a matter of personal taste. Shouldn't be obligatory for us"

Absolutely we are all different lol and thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So whats appropriate for a friday at Ab Fabs these days. Suit and nice shirt, jacket, chinos, nice shirt, chinos nice shirt no jacket.

asking for a friend

Your trying to sell yourself so to speak, we always make the effort but it's so surprising how many don't - in my humble opinion a man who's made an effort on himself will treat me with the same respect, same with ladies, it always surprises me at those that wear little or no make up, come on girls at least put a bit of lippy on lol

I'm not there to attract men. I find it degrading that I am expected to dress like a hoe so I just put on a towel wrap, no makeup and am never short of attention.

As for 'making an effort', a guy in a club is usually looking for a no strings shag. They hover round couples fucking, hoping to get some anonymous action. Not much effort made by most of them.

I’m not there to attract men either, You find it degrading that you are expected to dress up as a hoe?!

Wow so any woman who dresses up for a club is a hoe?

I said LIKE a hoe. Read!!!!!

"

I can READ!!!!!!!!! Thank you

Just shows there’s a market for lazy men

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By *p4fun60Couple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"So whats appropriate for a friday at Ab Fabs these days. Suit and nice shirt, jacket, chinos, nice shirt, chinos nice shirt no jacket.

asking for a friend

Your trying to sell yourself so to speak, we always make the effort but it's so surprising how many don't - in my humble opinion a man who's made an effort on himself will treat me with the same respect, same with ladies, it always surprises me at those that wear little or no make up, come on girls at least put a bit of lippy on lol

I'm not there to attract men. I find it degrading that I am expected to dress like a hoe so I just put on a towel wrap, no makeup and am never short of attention.

As for 'making an effort', a guy in a club is usually looking for a no strings shag. They hover round couples fucking, hoping to get some anonymous action. Not much effort made by most of them.

I’m not there to attract men either, You find it degrading that you are expected to dress up as a hoe?!

Wow so any woman who dresses up for a club is a hoe?

I said LIKE a hoe. Read!!!!!

I can READ!!!!!!!!! Thank you

Just shows there’s a market for lazy men "

Lol

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham

Meh. I’d rather have a good night than be constantly worrying about my makeup. That absolutely makes me lazy, but not in the playrooms.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

As long as I’m having a good time I really couldn’t care less what anyone else wears. I’d just expect whoever I’m playing with to be clean and smell good

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge


"So whats appropriate for a friday at Ab Fabs these days. Suit and nice shirt, jacket, chinos, nice shirt, chinos nice shirt no jacket.

asking for a friend

Just look smart, no jeans. Shirt and smart trousers, easy "

sorted ty

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