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Xtasia Security WTF?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Met some great people tonight and left happy, until the security guy came to us on the car park after we had left asking what went on in the room and asking why the room we’d been in smelt!! Discussing way to run a business and attitude, security shouldn’t be following us after we left asking questions! WTF was he thinking! Destroyed an otherwise good night!!!

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By *Team123Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Did he say what it smelt like?

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By *ornyspiceCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

If you have done nothing wrong and have nothing to hide then report to club owners.

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By *he fab twoCouple
over a year ago

brentwood

Was probably hoping for a bj in car park

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By *eddfmyd11Man
over a year ago

Towcester

I saw someone else on here say they were accosted by security in the car park too - for squirting in the playroom?!?

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

Wow, that is bad! I've never been to Xtasia but this thread puts me off even considering the club.

I don't know what equipment they have in their playrooms for cleaning after yourself, but a lot of clubs have got disinfecting sprays for the beds that are slightly scented which can mask the smells of squirt. However, this is a swingers club, meaning their rooms can smell of sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wow, that is bad! I've never been to Xtasia but this thread puts me off even considering the club.

I don't know what equipment they have in their playrooms for cleaning after yourself, but a lot of clubs have got disinfecting sprays for the beds that are slightly scented which can mask the smells of squirt. However, this is a swingers club, meaning their rooms can smell of sex. "

Great venue, amazing members just a shame the one staff attitude ruined it as we were leaving on a high, he should understand sex and body function,

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By *tasiaCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Can we clarify exactly what happened last night. Someone had a rear end accident. Others were aware of it, and a couple tried to tidy the room up. Security was made aware and tried to chat to the couple on exiting to find out where the issue was so they could block off the room for a serious clean. We take cleaning seriously and would hate guests to stumble across this. Sorry if it ruined your night, but we were doing the best we could discretely. Sensitive subject, and we wouldn't have mentioned in a public forum, but do feel we need to reply now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can we clarify the security guard was present when the bed was getting cleaned as he sprayed around it while 3 were cleaning it so knew the room, he even acknowledged us there so no need to humiliate anyone afterwards

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By *ragon007Man
over a year ago

london

I don’t understand the concept of security guards in swinging parties and clubs .it does mess up the mood

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t understand the concept of security guards in swinging parties and clubs .it does mess up the mood "

To be honest the security is needed and does a great job, it was just unfortunate this one instance things were said that wasn’t needed at this time

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By *op4bottomMan
over a year ago

Billingham


"I saw someone else on here say they were accosted by security in the car park too - for squirting in the playroom?!?"

Thats what should happen in the play room.

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By *tasiaCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Trying to sort out a delicate issue at the time in a busy club, or a foyer, etc is always awkward and the guys try to do their best. Shall we all leave it there? No need to blow things up. Hope we can get past the nights ending and welcome back anytime

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By *ope_kisses22Couple
over a year ago

Hyde

We went for the first time last night and I would say the security are really warm and welcoming and showed us around.

During the evening they were there checking but they never felt imposing.

Sadly xstasia isn't the club for us- not dressing down made it totally awkward when in the play rooms. But we recognise that this isn't everyone's taste. Staff and security were great and my gosh the DJ played great songs all night.

K

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

Tamworth

We personally thought the whole situation was handled amazingly lastnight! We weren't made aware of the details however we were given the heads up that an area of the playrooms were not usable due to clean up happening.

It really showed just how seriously the club take hygiene, how quickly they worked and how discretely people were made aware and asked to give space to the staff for them to do their jobs whilst also not impacting on the people enjoying their night.

On the other side, shit happens (excuse the pun), shows someone had a fantastic time! Noone should ever be embarrassed about normal bodily functions.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Trying to sort out a delicate issue at the time in a busy club, or a foyer, etc is always awkward and the guys try to do their best. Shall we all leave it there? No need to blow things up. Hope we can get past the nights ending and welcome back anytime

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As we said great club, great staff, with friendly members, we understand things can be sensitive, yes time to move on

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"We personally thought the whole situation was handled amazingly lastnight! We weren't made aware of the details however we were given the heads up that an area of the playrooms were not usable due to clean up happening.

It really showed just how seriously the club take hygiene, how quickly they worked and how discretely people were made aware and asked to give space to the staff for them to do their jobs whilst also not impacting on the people enjoying their night.

On the other side, shit happens (excuse the pun), shows someone had a fantastic time! Noone should ever be embarrassed about normal bodily functions. "

This

Security have always been awesome during every trip I've made over the last decade+ - last night was no different.

And there's always enough spray and roll to self clean anything left after play and it's the responsibility of whoever made the mess, more than the club staff. Having been to many a club over the years I've seen rooms left in shocking states by people who just finish what they're doing and saunter off leaving some other poor sod to clean up. Rare that I've ever seen that at Xtasia.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We personally thought the whole situation was handled amazingly lastnight! We weren't made aware of the details however we were given the heads up that an area of the playrooms were not usable due to clean up happening.

It really showed just how seriously the club take hygiene, how quickly they worked and how discretely people were made aware and asked to give space to the staff for them to do their jobs whilst also not impacting on the people enjoying their night.

On the other side, shit happens (excuse the pun), shows someone had a fantastic time! Noone should ever be embarrassed about normal bodily functions.

This

Security have always been awesome during every trip I've made over the last decade+ - last night was no different.

And there's always enough spray and roll to self clean anything left after play and it's the responsibility of whoever made the mess, more than the club staff. Having been to many a club over the years I've seen rooms left in shocking states by people who just finish what they're doing and saunter off leaving some other poor sod to clean up. Rare that I've ever seen that at Xtasia. "

I agree! it was cleaned by members who used the room if you read the thread, all sorted, as said time to move on

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

Tamworth


"We personally thought the whole situation was handled amazingly lastnight! We weren't made aware of the details however we were given the heads up that an area of the playrooms were not usable due to clean up happening.

It really showed just how seriously the club take hygiene, how quickly they worked and how discretely people were made aware and asked to give space to the staff for them to do their jobs whilst also not impacting on the people enjoying their night.

On the other side, shit happens (excuse the pun), shows someone had a fantastic time! Noone should ever be embarrassed about normal bodily functions.

This

Security have always been awesome during every trip I've made over the last decade+ - last night was no different.

And there's always enough spray and roll to self clean anything left after play and it's the responsibility of whoever made the mess, more than the club staff. Having been to many a club over the years I've seen rooms left in shocking states by people who just finish what they're doing and saunter off leaving some other poor sod to clean up. Rare that I've ever seen that at Xtasia. "

Ohhh actually, I saw the group room in the worst mess lastnight that I'd ever seen it just as we went in! There were 2 or 3 glow braclets left in the corner. Terrible!

But yeah, Xtasias stock of spray and paper etc is literally every few feet in all the rooms and even in the bar. Makes clean up very easy and it's one of the few clubs I've literally never seen in a mess. They do a fantastic job! We love how they make all cleaning supplies so accessible regardless of where you are in there

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By *orisjackMan
over a year ago

caterham

Shit on the floor £50 fine

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"Shit on the floor £50 fine "

Shit on the bed £100?

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By *r and Mrs Double spiceCouple
over a year ago

somewhere around midlands

I don't understand the need behind this post.

It seems to me like defamation of the club.

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

Tamworth


"I don't understand the need behind this post.

It seems to me like defamation of the club. "

It is certainly sad when people feel a need to shit on a club especially when the owners and staff work so hard to make it a wonderful place.

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By *r and Mrs Double spiceCouple
over a year ago

somewhere around midlands


"We went for the first time last night and I would say the security are really warm and welcoming and showed us around.

During the evening they were there checking but they never felt imposing.

Sadly xstasia isn't the club for us- not dressing down made it totally awkward when in the play rooms. But we recognise that this isn't everyone's taste. Staff and security were great and my gosh the DJ played great songs all night.

K

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On our last visit 90% of the attendees were dressed down. I believe it's good when there isn't a rule to dress down, especially for new people who attend to a club for a first time.

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By *ottom charlieMan
over a year ago

washington


"Met some great people tonight and left happy, until the security guy came to us on the car park after we had left asking what went on in the room and asking why the room we’d been in smelt!! Discussing way to run a business and attitude, security shouldn’t be following us after we left asking questions! WTF was he thinking! Destroyed an otherwise good night!!! "
if he is security he should be outside patrolling the grounds and car park not inside watching what people are doing in rooms,,,, sounds like he has promoted himself to the sex and prim and proper standards police the guy sounds like a creep,,, hope he was not taking pics on a body cam

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By *ope_kisses22Couple
over a year ago

Hyde


"

On our last visit 90% of the attendees were dressed down. I believe it's good when there isn't a rule to dress down, especially for new people who attend to a club for a first time. "

It was probably the opposite last night, hardly any dressed down and it was mainly the women. It just makes it harder and more awkward to invite in others to play or get the action started in a room when you then have to get undressed first. Mr also had to scrabble and search for his shoes afterwards in the pile of shoes all the while ppl were coming in to watch others.

Like I say.... this is our opinion of it as it suits many but not us.

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By *urreyVixenStagCouple
over a year ago

Surrey


"Met some great people tonight and left happy, until the security guy came to us on the car park after we had left asking what went on in the room and asking why the room we’d been in smelt!! Discussing way to run a business and attitude, security shouldn’t be following us after we left asking questions! WTF was he thinking! Destroyed an otherwise good night!!! if he is security he should be outside patrolling the grounds and car park not inside watching what people are doing in rooms,,,, sounds like he has promoted himself to the sex and prim and proper standards police the guy sounds like a creep,,, hope he was not taking pics on a body cam "

That is exactly what they should be doing, to ensure the guests are safe! Not outside. Not a creep, doing his job!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a real shitty situation

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By *w214Couple
over a year ago

Wirral

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

Tamworth


"Met some great people tonight and left happy, until the security guy came to us on the car park after we had left asking what went on in the room and asking why the room we’d been in smelt!! Discussing way to run a business and attitude, security shouldn’t be following us after we left asking questions! WTF was he thinking! Destroyed an otherwise good night!!! if he is security he should be outside patrolling the grounds and car park not inside watching what people are doing in rooms,,,, sounds like he has promoted himself to the sex and prim and proper standards police the guy sounds like a creep,,, hope he was not taking pics on a body cam "

The security often patrol the entire club to ensure everyone is OK, they also give club tours to newbies, help with bottle & glass collecting aswell general clean up. They do a huge job over the course of an evening

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By *aughty kittensCouple
over a year ago

In And Around The


" if he is security he should be outside patrolling the grounds and car park not inside watching what people are doing in rooms,,,, sounds like he has promoted himself to the sex and prim and proper standards police the guy sounds like a creep,,, hope he was not taking pics on a body cam "

You’ve obviously never been to the club yourself then.…

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By *orderboyblueMan
over a year ago

Scottish Borders

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By *orderboyblueMan
over a year ago

Scottish Borders


" if he is security he should be outside patrolling the grounds and car park not inside watching what people are doing in rooms,,,, sounds like he has promoted himself to the sex and prim and proper standards police the guy sounds like a creep,,, hope he was not taking pics on a body cam

You’ve obviously never been to the club yourself then.…"

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