FabSwingers.com forum: Club Virgin

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Never been to a club but love the idea although a bit nervous about going alone. Are there any ladies out there that fancy holding my hand or something more? Best time for me is through the day though and anywhere in the North. Free next Tuesday if anyone is interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry! There are soooo many men who ask this when what they really mean is:-

~ it's less expensive to go as 'a couple', rather than as a single bloke, and

~ ' hope you will shag me'

Single girls can usually get into clubs for a fiver (or free). Why would any girl tie themselves down to going to a club with a stranger (who they may not 'click' with), when they could go on their own, and have the freedom to explore!

Just bite the bullet, and go to a club on your own. Choose a 'mixed' night, and you will find that many of the couples there are actually LOOKING FOR an extra man! There is nothing sleazy about a single man going to a swingers club on his own. Just go for it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd echo that. Bite the bullet and go on a mixed night. You won't be treated like a social leper for turning up alone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for telling me what I want Im finding there's a few "know it alls on this site!".

I put exactly what I was looking for in my original post, you shouldn't tar all the blokes on here the same!

I'd be more than happy to meet up with someone first socially to see if we click and do you really think I'm just on here to save a few quid? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the two posters are right just turn up on your own you will be very welcome as long as you display a friendly none pushy demeanour. I have been to chams and xtasia as a single, sometimes its great other times not so.Dont worry and enjoy. Please dont take offence as none is meant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for telling me what I want Im finding there's a few "know it alls on this site!".

I put exactly what I was looking for in my original post, you shouldn't tar all the blokes on here the same!

I'd be more than happy to meet up with someone first socially to see if we click and do you really think I'm just on here to save a few quid? lol"

How has anyone tarred you with the same brush?

You need to remember that the benefits to a female in accompanying a stranger to a club are pretty much non-existant.

Good luck to you, but your search may take some time. Or you can go alone and enjoy a club much sooner. It takes courage to go to a club on your own and I fully understand why people are hesitant to do so, but every post on this subject echos the same opinion, you will be fine on your own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for telling me what I want Im finding there's a few "know it alls on this site!".... lol"

I won't say I know it ALL, but I have been going to clubs for five years, and you have never been to one. So yes, I do think I know more than you.

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