FabSwingers.com forum: Clubs

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi I've been pondering for a while now about going to one of the swinging clubs near me, but bit nervous about the whole thing.

Any advice on what too expect, and where is best club to go where it's relaxed non pushy?.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was just as nervous about going to a swingers club for the first time, but it was one of the best things that I've ever done.

I don't know about the clubs in your area (maybe check the Clubs listing or phone the clubs in your area, to find out what they're like). When I was researching the clubs in my area, I felt that the main difference was between 'towel' clubs, and those where customers can stay dressed in the bar/lounge. Because I was very nervous, I chose a club where customers can stay dressed in the bar/lounge, and it was a great night. When I first arrived (early doors) it was much like a normal pub, except that:-

~ the big screen showed porn not sport

~ the bartender and many other ladies were dressed in very skimpy outfits

~ all the customers were very friendly and approachable.

ALL clubs should be non-pushy, as it's one of the key rules of swinging that 'no means no'. But if you remind the staff that you're new, they will keep an eye on you, to make sure that you're comfortable at all times. The female customers are really the life-blood of swingers clubs, so everyone will be keen to ensure that you have a good time and become a regular.

Pluck up your courage and go for it - I'm sure you will have a great time!