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By *ancelot1633 OP   Man
over a year ago

weybridge

I know everyone is different but i’d love to understand how people think around this.

I love to play but also love to watch, as long as whoever is playing is happy for me to do so (and Ive had some fabulous times doing each).

I would hate to r??detract from anyones fun.

Im also consious that people playing may or may not like people (lone males like myself) to watch.

I also feel that if they are in the throws of enjoying themselves asking may be a potentially unwelcome distraction.

So how do people feel, if guys watch? do you prefer if they ask ? and what shouldnt they do at all cost?

Not expecting many replies but a few nuggets would be amazing

Thank you

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

I think for the most part, unless people are in a locked room, they are happy to be watched.

This should be a given but apparently not, don't stand millimetres from someone's face with your cock out unless they ask you to

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By *ancelot1633 OP   Man
over a year ago

weybridge

Thanks, thats what I thought made sense but i can overthink things in my efforts not to offend so a little reassurance is fabulous.

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By *lovisMan
over a year ago

Twickenham

The default is if someone is in an open play area they are happy to be watched.

Don't move too close, don't talk (especially don't do a running commentary or comment on persons physical features)

Don't ask if you can join in - if that's an option you'll be invites.

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By *p4fun60Couple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Like many couples we don't necessarily class ourselves as exhibitionist, & often prefer to play in a private room with other couples but not all clubs or venues offer this opportunity & have more open play areas - these we tend to avoid now prefering to make it our choice rather than turn into performing seals for the single guys - however in saying that if playing in an open area like a cinema room for instance then we are fine with people watching, but there's nothing more off putting to us as when a single guy just plonks himself down right next to us & gets his cock out assuming that's what we want reguardless of if we're playing or not, & if we are playing the assumption that it's OK for them to start groping or trying to wank over us without asking or being asked is normally met by a swift fuck off, to those guys that understand club etiquette & are polite we have no problem with at all

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By *ancelot1633 OP   Man
over a year ago

weybridge

Perfect thank you

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By *ancelot1633 OP   Man
over a year ago

weybridge


"Like many couples we don't necessarily class ourselves as exhibitionist, & often prefer to play in a private room with other couples but not all clubs or venues offer this opportunity & have more open play areas - these we tend to avoid now prefering to make it our choice rather than turn into performing seals for the single guys - however in saying that if playing in an open area like a cinema room for instance then we are fine with people watching, but there's nothing more off putting to us as when a single guy just plonks himself down right next to us & gets his cock out assuming that's what we want reguardless of if we're playing or not, & if we are playing the assumption that it's OK for them to start groping or trying to wank over us without asking or being asked is normally met by a swift fuck off, to those guys that understand club etiquette & are polite we have no problem with at all "

A swift fuck off is as clear as it’s concise

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

I normally play in an open area in a club, and don't mind being watched. However, I very much do mind if someone comes and stands very near to me as in the past, situations like that led to unwanted touching while I was in the middle of play. Nowadays, I have found my voice and I am more than happy to direct someone who I don't want in my intimate space to move.

Also, if you are in an open area watching people play, please respect the area and don't discuss loudly what you had for dinner the other day (or similar)- there are much better areas for loud chats than open play areas.

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By *en_Dover79Man
over a year ago

Oswaldtwistle

nothing worse than loud irrelevant conversations when people are playing.

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