FabSwingers.com forum: New to this, looking to visit a club

By *hungai OP Man
over a year ago

dundee

Hi, im a single male and i assume clubs allow single males in?

really can anyone give me an insight on how to go about visiting one and what happens once there.

im in scotland btw

By *absFrenchGentMan
over a year ago

stafford

Every swingers club is the same and the main three things are , cleanliness respect and you need to be yourself and chat with people. When I go to a club I don't expect anything to happen andvi just chat to people . Now I must admit I'm a regular to a locale club so now I tend to chat to people I know there but I do still chat to new people and that's how things happen most of the time . But as you know you can't be everywhere at the same time so sometimes if you wander around to see what is happening and if you look good and that people can see that you''re a decent bloke then they might ask you to join them , do not try to touch people if you haven't been invited to and if the area where you are is opened to all singles or couples relax and enjoy watching as it turns couples on too but not all couples though so try to keep an eye on them and if they get dressed and leave it's always better if you ask them if you''re reason why they''re leaving the play area and if they answer yes just apologize and keep in mind for later on but don't worry too much as you didn't't do anything wrong , in public areas people have to expect to be watched ifvthey want some privacy they are lockable rooms . Take your time when you see a couple playing and Adkins them if they look at you if it's ok for you to watch or if they'd rather be left alone and the same for wanting once you''ve made it closer to them ... ask as they might not like it and after that let them invite you . If the male part of a couple looks at you very briefly several Times usually he isn't't really happy with you being there so if it happens just step back and just watch from the distance , if he didn't't mind you most of the time the guys will tell you to stay . I do that most of teatime with new people I didn't't get a chance to talk to and trust me it works lol and one more thing don't get proper chit faced as people don't really like when a single man is hammered as fuck . Good luck mate and let me know on the forum ihow you went on