FabSwingers.com forum: Chams Darleston

By *otogpcpl OP Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

How strict is the dress code? Not sure towels or underwear will be comfortable for us. I think dress code should be freedom of choice. Would really like to go though.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

It's completely strict on the rules of towels or underwear/Lingerie. But it's really not a thing when you're in there. Lots of people worry about this when they come and find themselves perfectly relaxed and comfortable. It feels completely normal.

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By *otogpcpl OP Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

So you have to wear it?

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By *myAndScottCouple
over a year ago

Tamworth

"So you have to wear it?"

Yep. Dress down rule is in force. We've seen someone be told off for having a tshirt on in the bar area before.

There are plenty of clubs that don't have this rule.

We personally love this rule though. It would feel weird at this point if we were in a club fully dressed.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

"So you have to wear it?"

Yes, absolutely. Or completely naked is fine too

It's the clubs rules. It's part of what makes the club what it is and most of its members wouldn't have it any other way.

But seriously is a wonderful club. You should try it and we think you'll find you actually love it. Obviously clubs are subjective but there is a reason so many love this club and say such great things. Definitely worth a try, you never know if you never go.

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By *woodcplCouple
over a year ago

Borehamwood

"How strict is the dress code? Not sure towels or underwear will be comfortable for us. I think dress code should be freedom of choice. Would really like to go though."

No, dress code is the decision of the club and should be respected. If it won’t be ‘comfortable’ for you- don’t go. Simple

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By *otogpcpl OP Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Each to thier own. It's just not for us. Thanks for the info. We have been invited by another couple and say it's a pretty relaxed rule. As you imply it is not the case.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

"Each to thier own. It's just not for us. Thanks for the info. We have been invited by another couple and say it's a pretty relaxed rule. As you imply it is not the case. "

No, not in the slightest. Likewise we've seen staff tell people to remove their swimwear/lingerie in the hot tub (nude rule in the hot tub like most places). And pretty much everyone who goes support these rules.

Suspect maybe the other couple maybe being a little economical on the truth to get you quickly in a state of undress and/or their hands on you there. Everyone who goes or has been there is under no illusions about the rules and they've always been the same.

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By *otogpcpl OP Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Fair enough rules are rules and are there to be respected which we would if the rules suited our tastes. But as said if not comfortable then don't go! Maybe in the future. The couple wouldn't get us in a state of undress if we didn't want to we'd walk away lol. Thanks again for the info.

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By *woodcplCouple
over a year ago

Borehamwood

"Each to thier own. It's just not for us. Thanks for the info. We have been invited by another couple and say it's a pretty relaxed rule. As you imply it is not the case. "

Not the case at all . The rules are there to be adhered to and generally, everyone respects them . It’s not for you so go to another club - lots out there .

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By *otogpcpl OP Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Each to thier own. It's just not for us. Thanks for the info. We have been invited by another couple and say it's a pretty relaxed rule. As you imply it is not the case.

Not the case at all . The rules are there to be adhered to and generally, everyone respects them . It’s not for you so go to another club - lots out there .

As I said in a previous post!

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By *ttractive coupleCouple
over a year ago

North West

"So you have to wear it?

Yep. Dress down rule is in force. We've seen someone be told off for having a tshirt on in the bar area before.

There are plenty of clubs that don't have this rule.

We personally love this rule though. It would feel weird at this point if we were in a club fully dressed. "

Have to agree with the dress down rule and thats why we love Chams.

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By *x cplCouple
over a year ago

North of Oxford

The dress rules are simple and not intimidating at all. Gents if nervous wear swim shorts and you can even drape the towel almost like a roman toga over a shoulder if you want to, no different to being at a beach. Ladies can wear club dresses (mini dresses, skirts and tops even the lacy dresses and robes over lingrerie or just lingerie, basically anything hot and sexy really) A lot more than at a beach or swimming pool. The atmosphere is very relaxed actually a lot more than many other clubs that don't have a dress down policy.

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By *ustus56Couple
over a year ago

rugby

we have seen ladies wearing sexy dresses at chams but most most ladies are wearing lingerie.for guys it is either shorts or a towel

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

You can wear a one piece if you'd feel more comfortable in that OP

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By *otogpcpl OP Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Thanks all for the info x

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By *eachesandcream69Couple
over a year ago

Warks

"The dress rules are simple and not intimidating at all. Gents if nervous wear swim shorts and you can even drape the towel almost like a roman toga over a shoulder if you want to, no different to being at a beach. Ladies can wear club dresses (mini dresses, skirts and tops even the lacy dresses and robes over lingrerie or just lingerie, basically anything hot and sexy really) A lot more than at a beach or swimming pool. The atmosphere is very relaxed actually a lot more than many other clubs that don't have a dress down policy.

This answer best describes your choices. It's a fabulous club and dress down is a great leveler, but as said above there's different approaches to dress down. Having been to other clubs this feels so much more relaxed and chilled and like being on a nudist beach youde feel out of place fully clothed. Give it a whirl

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By *andK78Couple
over a year ago

Newport

Where thinking of going for our first time on the 28th, it's a Halloween party night, not sure what to expect and need to work the details out.

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