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By *atchus OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near Ollerton

Hey guys, had a bit of a situation yesterday at a club, dont want to name it yet as to be honest we are feeling mixed emotions about it and could do with hearing other swingers advice/views.

Basically we were in a busy club, in a gloryhole box that was very dark, hubby was watching me go to work on a couple of guys when a bright phone light apeared at the holes, it was the main photo/video light not the screen light and was obvious it was someone recording or taking photos of me sucking cock!

The situation went further but I’d like to just pause the story there and see if anyone else has had a orevious experiance in a club like that, as today i feel sick imagining a guy out there had me/us on his phone

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By *acyCariadWoman
over a year ago

East Sussex

Thank God I haven't, I don't think I'd ever go again if that happened to me. Is it worth mentioning it to the club? Most have a strict policy again phones so I assume they'd want to know. Sorry you had this experience

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

Yeah, definitely contact the Club. They'll want to know it happened, so they can prevent in the future.

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By *aLinCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

Happened to us in one of the clubs. Reported to the staff, they dealt with it very swiftly-got the guy, deleted images and video from his phone and kicked him out.

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By *aughtyLittlePicsCouple
over a year ago

Belper


"Hey guys, had a bit of a situation yesterday at a club, dont want to name it yet as to be honest we are feeling mixed emotions about it and could do with hearing other swingers advice/views.

Basically we were in a busy club, in a gloryhole box that was very dark, hubby was watching me go to work on a couple of guys when a bright phone light apeared at the holes, it was the main photo/video light not the screen light and was obvious it was someone recording or taking photos of me sucking cock!

The situation went further but I’d like to just pause the story there and see if anyone else has had a orevious experiance in a club like that, as today i feel sick imagining a guy out there had me/us on his phone "

Oh no awful to hear. You guys are great and don't deserve this. Did the staff sort it?

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By *atchus OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near Ollerton

Arh ok, can see most replys going the same way so il tell a bit more of the story.

As soon as it happened hubby ran round and the guy had his phone in his hand putting it back in his pocket, there was a very light arguement and some how hubby didnt react like he normally would (probably as he was getting his cock sucked 3 seconds ago by me)

Went straight to the staff member and the women was amazing, got him within seconds and then took him to the exit to throw out.

Sadly this is where the story goes a bit bad, the owner of the club (one of two) just gve him a warning and didnt throw him out!! The female staff member come and told us that he was still in and then we started to loose out temper, we packed up our things, got dressed and went to leave, all at the same time hubby looking for this guy to sort the situation himself.

Just as we got to the door the other owner, who is absolutely amazing and lovely, could see the smoke coming out of hubbys ears and me a little shaken up come over and asked us to sit tight for a minute or two whilst he finds out what has happened and will resolve it, we did this, paced up and down for over a hour whilst this was resolved, he was eventually evicted from the club after getting violent.

7yrs in the scene and a couple of club visits each month this has really gave us mixed emotions, lastnight we were angry today I feel sick and violated as we never got to see what he had on his phone etc.

There was alot of witnesses to the guy having his phone out also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is very strange behaviour and a big reason why single men get a bad rep in the scene! That and a lot of single men do strange things.

Most clubs you can’t have your phone anywhere! But with it being a non dress down club, it’s a little harder to manage I suppose.

Glad to hear that the club spoke to the man but disappointed that he wasn’t thrown out? Need to set the precedent imo

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By *exy and HotCouple
over a year ago

St Albans


"Arh ok, can see most replys going the same way so il tell a bit more of the story.

As soon as it happened hubby ran round and the guy had his phone in his hand putting it back in his pocket, there was a very light arguement and some how hubby didnt react like he normally would (probably as he was getting his cock sucked 3 seconds ago by me)

Went straight to the staff member and the women was amazing, got him within seconds and then took him to the exit to throw out.

Sadly this is where the story goes a bit bad, the owner of the club (one of two) just gve him a warning and didnt throw him out!! The female staff member come and told us that he was still in and then we started to loose out temper, we packed up our things, got dressed and went to leave, all at the same time hubby looking for this guy to sort the situation himself.

Just as we got to the door the other owner, who is absolutely amazing and lovely, could see the smoke coming out of hubbys ears and me a little shaken up come over and asked us to sit tight for a minute or two whilst he finds out what has happened and will resolve it, we did this, paced up and down for over a hour whilst this was resolved, he was eventually evicted from the club after getting violent.

7yrs in the scene and a couple of club visits each month this has really gave us mixed emotions, lastnight we were angry today I feel sick and violated as we never got to see what he had on his phone etc.

There was alot of witnesses to the guy having his phone out also"

It’s disappointing to say the least that he wasn’t thrown out straight away. His behaviour was completely unacceptable in a club.

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By *tasiaCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"Arh ok, can see most replys going the same way so il tell a bit more of the story.

As soon as it happened hubby ran round and the guy had his phone in his hand putting it back in his pocket, there was a very light arguement and some how hubby didnt react like he normally would (probably as he was getting his cock sucked 3 seconds ago by me)

Went straight to the staff member and the women was amazing, got him within seconds and then took him to the exit to throw out.

Sadly this is where the story goes a bit bad, the owner of the club (one of two) just gve him a warning and didnt throw him out!! The female staff member come and told us that he was still in and then we started to loose out temper, we packed up our things, got dressed and went to leave, all at the same time hubby looking for this guy to sort the situation himself.

Just as we got to the door the other owner, who is absolutely amazing and lovely, could see the smoke coming out of hubbys ears and me a little shaken up come over and asked us to sit tight for a minute or two whilst he finds out what has happened and will resolve it, we did this, paced up and down for over a hour whilst this was resolved, he was eventually evicted from the club after getting violent.

7yrs in the scene and a couple of club visits each month this has really gave us mixed emotions, lastnight we were angry today I feel sick and violated as we never got to see what he had on his phone etc.

There was alot of witnesses to the guy having his phone out also"

Wondering if the phone was checked and any recent pics/video were seen to be deleted. Otherwise you may still have media out there unfortunately!

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By *ixey and CopperCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Arh ok, can see most replys going the same way so il tell a bit more of the story.

As soon as it happened hubby ran round and the guy had his phone in his hand putting it back in his pocket, there was a very light arguement and some how hubby didnt react like he normally would (probably as he was getting his cock sucked 3 seconds ago by me)

Went straight to the staff member and the women was amazing, got him within seconds and then took him to the exit to throw out.

Sadly this is where the story goes a bit bad, the owner of the club (one of two) just gve him a warning and didnt throw him out!! The female staff member come and told us that he was still in and then we started to loose out temper, we packed up our things, got dressed and went to leave, all at the same time hubby looking for this guy to sort the situation himself.

Just as we got to the door the other owner, who is absolutely amazing and lovely, could see the smoke coming out of hubbys ears and me a little shaken up come over and asked us to sit tight for a minute or two whilst he finds out what has happened and will resolve it, we did this, paced up and down for over a hour whilst this was resolved, he was eventually evicted from the club after getting violent.

7yrs in the scene and a couple of club visits each month this has really gave us mixed emotions, lastnight we were angry today I feel sick and violated as we never got to see what he had on his phone etc.

There was alot of witnesses to the guy having his phone out also

Wondering if the phone was checked and any recent pics/video were seen to be deleted. Otherwise you may still have media out there unfortunately! "

This is why we love Xtasia, even when we say our phones are upstairs the door staff insist on checking bags...makes us feel at ease knowing its taken seriously

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By *woforfun 1000Couple
over a year ago

surrey

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By *woforfun 1000Couple
over a year ago

surrey

This is unacceptable behaviour, I have been in a dark room where a guy has got his phone out and put the light on, the guy I was with shouted at him and he quickly put it away, I can’t say this for sure but I do find in the glory hole areas and dark rooms some idiots will use the torch on their phone to see if it’s a women in there and not a guy esp in the glory holes. Hope this may give u a little reassurance in there maybe no photos or videos and just an idiot using his torch!

We have met some amazing guys in clubs and hope this doesn’t put you off but I agree the first management should have thrown him straight out or at least checked his last camera roll for him to prove he wasn’t taking photos or videos even though it still doesn’t make it right it would have given u a better piece of mind!

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By *reshforu2Couple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Arh ok, can see most replys going the same way so il tell a bit more of the story.

As soon as it happened hubby ran round and the guy had his phone in his hand putting it back in his pocket, there was a very light arguement and some how hubby didnt react like he normally would (probably as he was getting his cock sucked 3 seconds ago by me)

Went straight to the staff member and the women was amazing, got him within seconds and then took him to the exit to throw out.

Sadly this is where the story goes a bit bad, the owner of the club (one of two) just gve him a warning and didnt throw him out!! The female staff member come and told us that he was still in and then we started to loose out temper, we packed up our things, got dressed and went to leave, all at the same time hubby looking for this guy to sort the situation himself.

Just as we got to the door the other owner, who is absolutely amazing and lovely, could see the smoke coming out of hubbys ears and me a little shaken up come over and asked us to sit tight for a minute or two whilst he finds out what has happened and will resolve it, we did this, paced up and down for over a hour whilst this was resolved, he was eventually evicted from the club after getting violent.

7yrs in the scene and a couple of club visits each month this has really gave us mixed emotions, lastnight we were angry today I feel sick and violated as we never got to see what he had on his phone etc.

There was alot of witnesses to the guy having his phone out also

Wondering if the phone was checked and any recent pics/video were seen to be deleted. Otherwise you may still have media out there unfortunately!

This is why we love Xtasia, even when we say our phones are upstairs the door staff insist on checking bags...makes us feel at ease knowing its taken seriously "

Unlike the new club in the SW where phones and taking photos we hear are the norm and in fact encouraged!

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By *aulp4alsMan
over a year ago

Warrington

You should have bitten on his cock to give him that much pain, so he gave up his phone and password and you delete deleted everything. That’s my opinion anyway. Let’s face it he’s not going to call the police and do you for assault.

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham

I’ve heard stories of club staff contacting the police in these situations. I’m sorry this happened to you.

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By *atchus OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near Ollerton

Thanks for all the messages guys, glad people agree with us and thank you for the nice pvt messages.

Have left feedback for the attic on here and had some abusive messages because of it aswell as one on the club review page, some delightful people about lately

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By *pank the MonkeyCouple
over a year ago

Fylde Coast

This kind of behaviour is beyond unacceptable in any environment.

I hate to be the bearer of bad news but it's highly likely that the idiot still has a copy of what he took as most phones automatically upload to the cloud as soon as the footage is taken. Anyone found to be carrying a phone or any other recording equipment in any club should be evicted and banned for life. People have a right to privacy and that should be respected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The above poster nailed it!

Any decent club will not permit Mobile Phones. Anyone caught with one will be immediately evicted.

The clubs that we go to request that phones are left in the secure lockers provided.

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By *bwstarzWoman
over a year ago

south cheshire

I had this last year at a dress down club, was in the glory hole cupboard for want of a better word with a guy having some fun and a phone appeared at one of the holes, he got told off me to move it or I’ll stick it where the sun don’t shine and he did but the staff weren’t bothered, plenty of people in the club that night had phones out in front of the staff, one even having a conversation on his as he walked down the stairs to go out and have a cigarette. I just don’t go that club very often now, used to be there weekly and I’ve been once this year, I go other places instead.

Will say I didn’t see his face as I was in the little cupboard so no idea who it was so couldn’t have advised the staff directly but they were told I’d seen a few people with phones out in the public areas downstairs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watchus I think what happened to you was out of order and sadly the guy taking the video is only letting the rest of us guys down.

I've read your comments in the club review and sadly you will always get idiots who will say nasty things and at the end of the day it didn't happen to them so just ignore them. It's sad that a club didn't take more drastic measures on the night straight away.

Clubs should be a safe place for adult activities and your pussy will affect that club so hopefully they will learn from it.

The only thing I would say is not all guys are like that and not all clubs are like that.

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By *edplusoneCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"I can’t say this for sure but I do find in the glory hole areas and dark rooms some idiots will use the torch on their phone to see if it’s a women in there and not a guy esp in the glory holes. Hope this may give u a little reassurance in there maybe no photos or videos and just an idiot using his torch!"

We purchased a little miniature torch for when we inevitably loose some of Reds clothes in a room x

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

I’ve clubbed for over 8 years and the attic is the only club I’d not return too.

Phones and fully dressed men everywhere and staff didn’t care. Was awful and you could totally tell it was normal behaviour cos no one batted an eye!

Thankfully in the other clubs I attend (Cupids, townhouse and club play) it’s never happened to me but once reported a phone and was dealt with immediately.

Awful behaviour! I’d be gutted x

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By *igwoody68Man
over a year ago

derby

I don’t know the full story on this issue, but I do know that this persons phone was checked at the time for any photos or videos and none were found (as the club does check if and when reported) this probably could of led to the confusion as when Ron (who is the ONLY owner) was only given half the information and like someone else has mentioned he might of just been using his torch especially if the glory hole light wasn’t on. We do everything we can to protect the safety and privacy of every person that attends the club and we are trying to stop things like this happening but, we don’t have cameras everywhere and the staff can’t be everywhere at once so unfortunately these things do happen! I hope this has relieved some of your worries about videos or photos turning up on porn hub!

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"I don’t know the full story on this issue, but I do know that this persons phone was checked at the time for any photos or videos and none were found (as the club does check if and when reported) this probably could of led to the confusion as when Ron (who is the ONLY owner) was only given half the information and like someone else has mentioned he might of just been using his torch especially if the glory hole light wasn’t on. We do everything we can to protect the safety and privacy of every person that attends the club and we are trying to stop things like this happening but, we don’t have cameras everywhere and the staff can’t be everywhere at once so unfortunately these things do happen! I hope this has relieved some of your worries about videos or photos turning up on porn hub!"

Most Men like to know there's a Woman the other side so it's likely he was just using the torch, which he shouldn't have been doing. Filming through the hole certainly wouldn't make a good porno, unless he stuck the phone through the hole. Either way he should have been removed immediately after his phone was checked.

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By *onicZMan
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

What an absolute disgrace. I'm sorry this happened to you!

Very unprofessional that it wasn't dealt with straight away too

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
over a year ago

Middle England

We love being watched and are happy to use the glory holes. We have had this or something similar happen to us. When we are in a dark glory hole a camera light or some sort of flashlight goes off. We immediately stop.

I'm not sure why people spoil it; we are happy playing in public so not sure why they feel the need to do it.

Unlike yourselves we've not complained about it as it was impossible to identify who the perpetrator was. However, given your experience we will in future; if only to alert management and see if there's anything that can be done moving forward.

People remember consent surely must be one of the pillars of this scene; not trying to stand on a soap box but we all deserve some respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is disgusting behaviour, I have never visited the attic but do frequent club play, Adam and eve's, cupids, infusions and other clubs in the northwest on two occasions I have seen people with phones in play areas both at different clubs,both times I reported it to a member of staff and it was delt with straight away.

Personally I like Adam and eve's idea when you get a locker key they take your phone wallet valuables put them in a box and you get them back when you return the locker key, club's are no place for mobile phones everyone in there deserves privacy and respect

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