FabSwingers.com forum: Honest advice and people’s own experiences

By *pforanything121 OP Man
over a year ago

castleford

Hey everybody, can I ask for your general advice and your first time with going to a club please. My nearest is Pandora and have been wanting to go for a while but nervous. So, what can I expect or should I expect to be like when I go there with being my first time at a club. Not wanting to seem like a cocky guy but i have done things like what kinda happens in clubs but just would like a bit of friendly advice. Thanks if you reply, it does help about it all.

By *pforanything121 OP Man
over a year ago

castleford

Anyone got any advice then? I’d appreciate it

By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).

Tell the owners you're a first time visitor.

Be yourself.

Don't "expect" anything.

Connect with people. Have conversations.

Don't touch anyone without consent.

By *pforanything121 OP Man
over a year ago

castleford

"Tell the owners you're a first time visitor.

Be yourself.

Don't "expect" anything.

Connect with people. Have conversations.

Don't touch anyone without consent. "

I’d never thought about expecting anything to happen at all to be honest. But thanks for your input. Appreciate it

By *orthernJayMan
over a year ago

Elsewhere

Whenever asked these kinds of questions I’ll always ask this as a reply……have you been naked in front of other people previously, have you had sex in front of other people or with people in the same space??

If the answers to either of those questions is “no” then a club environment is going to take many visits to instigate any kind of success and I say this from years around the Northern English scene.

I’ve lost count of the number of first timers who’ve literally had their tail between their legs in a club, no matter what bravado they proffer before the spotlight shines and they have to perform!