FabSwingers.com forum: Best day to go for Unicorns?

By *atsandToes OP Couple
over a year ago

Walsall

We were just wondering whether to explore different days whilst at Chams or even other local venues. (Birmingham)

We understand it is difficult, as we are only looking for the elusive female to join us, but hoping for some insight into different days pros/cons.

For the past 4/5 times we have been on a Saturday which is 'Couples and single fems' - to which we have had some spontaneous luck and fun in all instances whether social/playing.

We know the general scenario would be couples playing with other couples, and understand it would be difficult to lure the one half away.

Would you suggest single ladies would much prefer a Friday night? Or even a Monday night? Would we have to avoid an abundance of single guys on a Friday?

Keen to hear some thoughts and feedback

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

There are lots of gorgeous ladies at the bbw event. Next one is Sunday 20th August.

From my own experience and lots of ladies I know they tend to prefer events that include all, single males, single females and couples. X

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

No saturday is your best night. Because its couples and single ladies night so naturally the single ladies who attend tend to be ones that actively seek or at least like to be in the company of couples. To some its a suprise many single ladies mainly want to find single guys so if you go on another night there is single guys to compete with and ladies who may not be looking for couples at all.

I think the best way with Single ladies is just to take the night in your stride and let things flow naturally. Couples can tend to be a bit full on. But also remember a lot of women go to clubs with the purposes of just enjoying things in that time and space. Its straightforward, no pressure and fits around their lifestyle. A lot women who visit clubs aren't after anything beyond the walls of the club or getting deeper involved with others or to be anyone's designated unicorn. And of course that's why they're called unicorns. But Saturday is your best shot at finding one.

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By *atsandToes OP Couple
over a year ago

Walsall

Thank you very much, certainly helps. I think we will look at one's with all involved

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By *ebauchery DivineWoman
over a year ago

Down in Dickleburgh Drive

"No saturday is your best night. Because its couples and single ladies night so naturally the single ladies who attend tend to be ones that actively seek or at least like to be in the company of couples. To some its a suprise many single ladies mainly want to find single guys so if you go on another night there is single guys to compete with and ladies who may not be looking for couples at all.

I think you tend to find more single ladies on a Friday night than a Saturday so it would increase the chance of finding someone. Overall other single ladies I've met over the years have been more open to a variety of scenarios not just single men.

In my experience the couples on a Friday night generally seem to be more open to suggestions in terms of play, so that could be an option too.

Monday night is aimed at bi men really but I'd say your chances of finding a single bi lady would be about the same as a Saturday night.

It's been quite a few years since I visited other clubs so can't advise. Good luck though OP.

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