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By *idnight experimental OP   Couple
over a year ago

Congleton / Derby

When does No!! Not mean No ?

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

No always means no when I say it

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By *pank the MonkeyCouple
over a year ago

Fylde Coast

The in the vanilla world as soon as its said. In the other world, as far as we are concerned, stop means nothing....

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By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago

Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me

No should mean no straight away no matter what's happening.

Unless there's already consent of using a safe word instead.

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By *pank the MonkeyCouple
over a year ago

Fylde Coast


"No should mean no straight away no matter what's happening.

Unless there's already consent of using a safe word instead."

Which is why I added the caveat.

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
over a year ago

Norwichish


"When does No!! Not mean No ? "

Most fet nights use traffic light system, green, amber, red, easy to remember safe words and not difficult to remember, say, and most importantly hear. They are out of context with anything else.

Amber if it's getting a bit close to the edge and you want your partner to steady it for a bit, red is a hard stop whatever you are doing.

In the vanilla scene no is no and has always meant no.

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