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Xtasia as a single male

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By *ames_Solo OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Never been before but have been a regular at Chams.

As I know it's more of a nightclub venue, is it more hard work going alone as a male and trying to get chatting to people? (As I'd never go to a nightclub on my own in general, especially if it's loud and you want to chat).

Are there communal areas where it's easier to get chatting, like the jacuzzis and saunas at Chams?

Amateur questions I'm sure but like I say, I've never been before : )

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By *inkcouple192Couple
over a year ago

birmingham


"Never been before but have been a regular at Chams.

As I know it's more of a nightclub venue, is it more hard work going alone as a male and trying to get chatting to people? (As I'd never go to a nightclub on my own in general, especially if it's loud and you want to chat).

Are there communal areas where it's easier to get chatting, like the jacuzzis and saunas at Chams?

Amateur questions I'm sure but like I say, I've never been before : )"

Hey can definitely understand what your saying about it being advertised as a night club setting

But the club has a big indoor sauna and play area plus up stairs commercial seating for getting to know new people

We’re even hosting a night for males and couples next Friday which would give you chance to get to know some very naughty women and also have some fun too

Can always message you for more info and any other questions you might have

J&D x

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By *elixxx_FelicisMan
over a year ago

Daventry

Thanks for the reply, i was going to ask the same. I sent you a private msg regarding _tasia event nights.

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By *inkcouple192Couple
over a year ago

birmingham


"Thanks for the reply, i was going to ask the same. I sent you a private msg regarding _tasia event nights.

F"

Well we cans always add you both tot the guest list x

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By *tasiaCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"Never been before but have been a regular at Chams.

As I know it's more of a nightclub venue, is it more hard work going alone as a male and trying to get chatting to people? (As I'd never go to a nightclub on my own in general, especially if it's loud and you want to chat).

Are there communal areas where it's easier to get chatting, like the jacuzzis and saunas at Chams?

Amateur questions I'm sure but like I say, I've never been before : )

Hey can definitely understand what your saying about it being advertised as a night club setting

But the club has a big indoor sauna and play area plus up stairs commercial seating for getting to know new people

We’re even hosting a night for males and couples next Friday which would give you chance to get to know some very naughty women and also have some fun too

Can always message you for more info and any other questions you might have

J&D x"

Think it’s a spell check issue, but middle paragraph should be jacuzzi not sauna, and commercial should say chill out at a guess

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By *wocomeasoneCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Would stick to chams xtaisa got a rubbish vibe much better atmosphere at chams

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By *tasiaCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"Would stick to chams xtaisa got a rubbish vibe much better atmosphere at chams "

Green arrow is your guide, lol, just go back a few messages!

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Would stick to chams xtaisa got a rubbish vibe much better atmosphere at chams

Green arrow is your guide, lol, just go back a few messages! "

I had to get the popcorn and have a look lol

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Never been before but have been a regular at Chams.

As I know it's more of a nightclub venue, is it more hard work going alone as a male and trying to get chatting to people? (As I'd never go to a nightclub on my own in general, especially if it's loud and you want to chat).

Are there communal areas where it's easier to get chatting, like the jacuzzis and saunas at Chams?

Amateur questions I'm sure but like I say, I've never been before : )"

They've got a great area outside, separate "chill" area and smoking, really great place to chat. The jacuzzi area seems popular for people to chat. The play areas and dungeons are also always full of people talking (just remember to talk fairly quietly whilst in the dungeons if people are in a scene). There is also the actual chill out lounge area too so you've got lots of options not including the bar and around the dance floor xx

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By *tasiaCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"Would stick to chams xtaisa got a rubbish vibe much better atmosphere at chams

Green arrow is your guide, lol, just go back a few messages!

I had to get the popcorn and have a look lol "

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By *inkcouple192Couple
over a year ago

birmingham


"Would stick to chams xtaisa got a rubbish vibe much better atmosphere at chams "

That’s funny to hear as you were enjoying the vibe and atmosphere @ greedy girls where we had a lot of our single guys and couples. So maybe not actually a genuine response to his message for help if you saying one thing but having the opposite reaction at the same time

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By *eddfmyd11Man
over a year ago

Towcester

I went to _tasia for the first time on Friday as a single male and I had a good time, and I'm terrible at approaching people

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By *live10Man
over a year ago

Derby

Xtasia is a great club. Really enjoyed my first time at the greedy girls night recently. It's got a wet area with a jacuzzi, a night club with a dance floor.. fully stocked bar. a play area with glory holes.. gangbang room and various private rooms. What more could u want ??? Lol. ..

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By *wocomeasoneCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Would stick to chams xtaisa got a rubbish vibe much better atmosphere at chams

Green arrow is your guide, lol, just go back a few messages! "

Don’t need to go back anywhere. Your a big fan of messages though ain’t you

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By *wocomeasoneCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Would stick to chams xtaisa got a rubbish vibe much better atmosphere at chams

That’s funny to hear as you were enjoying the vibe and atmosphere @ greedy girls where we had a lot of our single guys and couples. So maybe not actually a genuine response to his message for help if you saying one thing but having the opposite reaction at the same time "

Was we ? Don’t remember speaking to you ? The last greedy girls we was at nobody knew it was greedy girls was only busy because people thought it was hot wives lol. Why don’t you stop being the owners pet and don’t respond to stuff that dissent concern you. Or maybe drop us a message id you have an issue

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By *inkcouple192Couple
over a year ago

birmingham


"Would stick to chams xtaisa got a rubbish vibe much better atmosphere at chams

That’s funny to hear as you were enjoying the vibe and atmosphere @ greedy girls where we had a lot of our single guys and couples. So maybe not actually a genuine response to his message for help if you saying one thing but having the opposite reaction at the same time

Was we ? Don’t remember speaking to you ? The last greedy girls we was at nobody knew it was greedy girls was only busy because people thought it was hot wives lol. Why don’t you stop being the owners pet and don’t respond to stuff that dissent concern you. Or maybe drop us a message id you have an issue "

At the end of the day the issue we have is you saying the club is rubbish but actually having a good time there as shown on your Verifications . Just because your no longer hosting or having anything to do with the club your whole attitude towards it is irrelevant people should have the choice to make there own minds about what the vibe is like and not have your unbiased opinion based on what every issue you have within the club , as for us we not teachers pet in anyway as Paul will confirm but we won’t let you or anyone use this space to just say crap that’s correct

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester


"Would stick to chams xtaisa got a rubbish vibe much better atmosphere at chams

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You have 11 positive verifications over the last 11 months all specifically mentioning Xtasia, if it's rubbish why keep going back? Is there some personal beef going on here? If so it's not a genuine club feedback and should stay out of the forum

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I went to _tasia for the first time on Friday as a single male and I had a good time, and I'm terrible at approaching people"

This, and the post from ‘Alive10’ are the kind of responses a single guy visiting any club for the first time, myself, and other single guys hope to see. So fair play to Xtasia and their event hosts for making these two guys feel welcome, and included

I’ve been to other clubs who couldn’t have cared less once I’d paid my entry fee…..

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By *ames_Solo OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Take it to the DMs please guys. Spoiling the thread a bit

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester


"Take it to the DMs please guys. Spoiling the thread a bit "

Agreed

Xtasia is a bit smaller than the Attic but not much, a lot of space is devoted to a dancefloor and social area, which does occasionally get used for kink equipment. The quality of the decor is higher, toilets aren't a warzone, music is better with real DJs, lighting is better. Has fewer themed rooms, but the Czech glory holes are better and more of them. The darkroom/glory holes are fewer, but are there, the cinema room is bigger and better visibility for voyeurs or access for gangbangs, the hot tub is bigger but I think the plastic flap entrance should be swapped for something better, maybe a bead curtain? It has 2 dungeons and both are well kitted out. There is a dungeon playbed with a camera that is showing elsewhere on site. A nice touch is the angled mirrors above some playrooms so people can see inside. There is a sealed playroom for total privacy as well. A fully licensed bar, good lockers and even an onsite shop for kink supplies, toys, etc. I would honestly say for variety it's on par with Attic, for quality of fixtures it's on par with Libery Elite.

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By *tasiaCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

The curtain into the jacuzzi we’ve played with for years. There used to be a tiled wall and door there but one side is obviously very very damp and humid. It rotted through over a few years and eventually we had to remove it. The curtain allows us to keep the condensation in that area, and saves it spreading into the locker area. A bead curtain would allow everything to escape, but accept it would look better. Maybe best option might be to remove it and provide even stronger extraction, however the breeze across the top of the jacuzzi might be annoying! Happy to chat ideas with anyone who has building knowledge.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester


"The curtain into the jacuzzi we’ve played with for years. There used to be a tiled wall and door there but one side is obviously very very damp and humid. It rotted through over a few years and eventually we had to remove it. The curtain allows us to keep the condensation in that area, and saves it spreading into the locker area. A bead curtain would allow everything to escape, but accept it would look better. Maybe best option might be to remove it and provide even stronger extraction, however the breeze across the top of the jacuzzi might be annoying! Happy to chat ideas with anyone who has building knowledge. "

Vertical extraction may work better but based on the location it probably pops out directly behind the bar! Fairly certain there's a few HVAC engineers who could confirm or correct me.

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By *wocomeasoneCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Would stick to chams xtaisa got a rubbish vibe much better atmosphere at chams

You have 11 positive verifications over the last 11 months all specifically mentioning Xtasia, if it's rubbish why keep going back? Is there some personal beef going on here? If so it's not a genuine club feedback and should stay out of the forum"

Our feedback is genuine as we have been to many Tuesday Friday and Saturday nights so we can comment on what they are like.

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