FabSwingers.com forum: Ratios in clubs

By *idnight experimental OP Couple
over a year ago

Congleton / Derby

What do you think are good ratios to have in clubs

I.e single blokes to couples

Single females

Number of couples in general

Number of TV’s/TG’s if allowed to your club?

Lots of single blokes put people off right ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of single women enjoy lots of single guys at clubs. More to choose from, and variety is good

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By *om in JerryCouple
over a year ago

Welywyn, Herts

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By *om in JerryCouple
over a year ago

Welywyn, Herts

There is no ‘best’ ratio, as different people have their own preferences.

Many enjoy nights of a mix of couples and single ladies and short guest list of men.

That set up wouldn’t really work for couples that like the Hot Wife or greedy girl scenario.

Thankfully there is variety and most clubs host different themes.

Ourselves, we enjoy bi nights. Bit of a mix of everything then

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Single guys are great but too many single blokes in a club just doesn't work well and sends the vibe off. I think a lot of single guys would also prefer it not full of single guys.

I think maybe 50% couples, 30-35% single guys and 15-20% single ladies would be a nice but realisticly possible sort of a blend. I think numbers that would especially favour the single guys and women as well as couples being suitably entertained. Because however ever much single men and women may genuinely enjoy being with couples most if given the option would prefer to enjoy the company of decent singles. The reality is most single don't particularly want to be every (or any) couples unicorn or rent a cock.

However clubs are unpredictable to some extent and your always at the mercy of who's there on the night. Regardless of ratios the best night's happen when the best personalities happen to turn up on that night.

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By *teed99Man
over a year ago

Kettering

At The Vanilla Alternative it's a 50% radio of single guys for Wednesday daytime Milf Club with the balance being couples and single ladies. On Friday nights single guys make up 25% of the expected total. As it's a private members club, everyone has to be an approved member and all single guys have to pre-book.

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

For me with my partner we like it broadly even m/f ratio, maybe a few more men ok but not many.

Even if 50/50 m/f while we like lots of couples we prefer some single men and single ladies too as adds something to naughty time especially when it comes to group type play.

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By *oogooMan
over a year ago

vauxhall

Decent workable ratio for straight event could be

50% couples

35% single guys

15% single girls

Couples can pick few guys or occasional girl.

Girls can pick few guys or couple.

And amount of guys is not off putting

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"Decent workable ratio for straight event could be

50% couples

35% single guys

15% single girls

Couples can pick few guys or occasional girl.

Girls can pick few guys or couple.

And amount of guys is not off putting

I guess all are different but for my partner and myself (and lots of other couples we know) that would be too many single men. Works out at 60 men vs 40 ladies.

Interesting how you assume couples might want a few guys and an occasional girl True for some of course but most of the couples we know want others couples or a few guys AND a few girls

Guess this is why there are different nights at clubs and different parties each with their own vibe and audience with appropriate ratio. Hard to find one size to fit all.

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By *oogooMan
over a year ago

vauxhall

Yes. We all have different needs.

Amount of single guys stated from personal point of view.

Those only few times I have visited as a couple we were actually short of guys

But then i brought in exceptionally greedy and submissive girls.

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By *idnight experimental OP Couple
over a year ago

Congleton / Derby

So what about 1 single male to/for every couple or single female?

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By *oogooMan
over a year ago

vauxhall

Yes. Good for socials. To play from my very limited experience way too low. If single female is there, she is expecting attention from more then one guy, right?

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

"Yes. Good for socials. To play from my very limited experience way too low. If single female is there, she is expecting attention from more then one guy, right?"

I think most single ladies expect a fair bit of attention (all thought not as much as you may think sometimes because people are shy, especially if she's shy too) Bit that may not be what she's gone seeking. Not all single women seek a gang bang or multiple men or even anything group wise. Some simply come to relax and look for the company of one good man (and leave if they don't find one). Just safe, hassle free no strings company and sex with one guy only in a neutral location. All very normal and vanilla in a way I suppose (at least to us in the lifestyle). And maybe that's their desire all the time or just for that particular night.

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

Important to see club environments as organic: they reflect both the membership and attendees; in addition to the time of year, time of day/week, scene/theme and facilities. We find that each visit is a journey for us ... some constants (seeking quality in room pleasures for Anne or a group play in a public space like a cinema) and some special on the day surprises ... x A & G

ps single guys are the economic, sexual and social mainstay of any club scene ... especially for couples like us.

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By *oogooMan
over a year ago

vauxhall

"to relax and look for a company" -girls can literally do it everywhere else. Park, pub, library, museum, pub etc. To find a company for a night an girl can use any dating site or app and have company after one message.

Clubs we are taking about are literally designed to skip that part and get straight to passions if feeling is right

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

"Decent workable ratio for straight event could be

50% couples

35% single guys

15% single girls

Couples can pick few guys or occasional girl.

Girls can pick few guys or couple.

And amount of guys is not off putting

Agreed this is a nice realistic mix for a standard everyday club night. This sort of blend in our experience makes for a decent vibe and opportunity for all. Obviously many people would in an ideal world love to have loads of the category they mainly seek/struggle to find. But this is not necessarily going to happen outside of nights/parties particularly aimed at ensuring the favorable ratio they seek for their personal desires.

I think there's an idea with some people that couples come top of the pecking order with single women. Outside of a specific couples and single ladies night I don't think this is true. I think generally decent single guys will always be king with most single women. So if you want lots of single women, a club with a reputation for good numbers of decent guys will attract them. So Single guys are a key part of the equation to attendance of single women.

Although to some extent clubs replicate online dating and fab patterns. Where a few single guys get all the attention. At least this is what we've seen watching the same people at clubs over the years. And it's really not a case of it being the beautiful guys or the Alpha males getting the attention. Seems to be far more down to those with a warm character, who seem comfortable in their own skin and at ease with making conversation and having a laugh. So I think the nature of the guys who turn up on a night have more impact on the night than the numbers of guys.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

""to relax and look for a company" -girls can literally do it everywhere else. Park, pub, library, museum, pub etc. To find a company for a night an girl can use any dating site or app and have company after one message.

Clubs we are taking about are literally designed to skip that part and get straight to passions if feeling is right

I disagree.

The part you talk about skipping is the essential part for me when I go to the club.

Can’t imagine anything worse than “get straight to passions”, even in a club I expect some sort of engagement, otherwise how is that different from fuck and go.

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By *idnight experimental OP Couple
over a year ago

Congleton / Derby

Clubs we are taking about are literally designed to skip that part and get straight to passions if feeling is right

Totally agree with you there, there has to be a connection and a small conversation/ social

I disagree.

The part you talk about skipping is the essential part for me when I go to the club.

Can’t imagine anything worse than “get straight to passions”, even in a club I expect some sort of engagement, otherwise how is that different from fuck and go."

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