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The most 'tame' club in London?

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By *riendly_Mancs_Couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stockton (visiting)

Hi all

The wife & I are staying in London over the weekend (1st -2nd Feb) and are toying with the idea of visiting a Club for the first time. As the title says, we are looking for the most tame club at early doors. What we mean by this is... While we understand fully what the Nature of the Club is, on our first visit we'd prefer it if we could keep a reasonable amount of clothes on until we felt comfortable. By this we mean...say we arrived at 9pm (ish) we would like to stay clothed (Wife in Very short mini dress, hubby in Whatever) until we felt comfortable.

At this point I would ask the veterans not to sneer at us now and tell us we've got it all wrong.

We really want to go to a Club but the thought of stripping naked in front of a load of strangers is quite daunting at first. Yes, we realise every body is there for the same thing. Yes we reuse it is a Swinging club, but we'd just like to chill & relax before deciding wether or when to possibly lose our clothes & inhibitions.

Don't worry, we know what to expect, and anybody who has seen our pics will know we are not behind the door etc.

We have read that at Abfabs & Eureka you can stay clothed for as long as you like. Is this true? What is the dress code? What are the Rules? If we were to stay clothed would we stick out more than if we were naked?

Not being lazy here. We have looked at some reviews, of which a lot are positive, but its hard to gauge what's its like for Newbies like us making our debut.

Please no nasty messages etc. We are just looking for advice where we can go, relax and decide in our own time when to lose our clothing.

If peeps message us saying things like...'what's the point of going' etc or 'you shouldn't go if you're not prepared to get naked like the rest of us', then we accept that.

All we ask us advice of people who were once in the same boat as us (Nervous & apprehensive).

Thanks all x

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We have never been pressured to take our clothes off at a club and you can add ourplace4fun to the list.

However ourplace is many things but tame isnt one of them :P

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By *ool-katCouple
over a year ago

Watford

Abfabs is your best bet we think. It was our first club you can do whatever you want with no pressure at all. We only played with each other. We have been to a few clubs now but still love going back.

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By *riendly_Mancs_Couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stockton (visiting)

Hi

See. Told you we were new! I guess 'tame' is the wrong choice of adjective.

We simply meant a club where we would not look silly if we were dressed. Don't get us wrong, we weren't planning on wearing 10 Garments etc. It's hard to put in words what we mean....

Ok, I'll try another way...

If we were to go to Abfabs, Eureka etc, etc is it possible we will receive s tap on the shoulder and get told "Sorry, you're over dressed"

Or

Is it possible we will look complete Dicks by sat wearing clothes?

Thank you all. X

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By *exySwing3rsCouple
over a year ago

In Your Hearts

Definitely OurPlace4Fun. Greg & Lisa are the perfect hosts who do look after their members.

There will be absolutely no pressure and you can take things at your own pace.

Have a great time in London.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your pics would suggest you are anything but tame, I reckon you will both be fine wherever you end up! Enjoy.

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By *riendly_Mancs_Couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stockton (visiting)

Thanks all

Yes, with regard to the pics, that should show that we are prepared for anything. It's just that first time thing. X

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


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Is it possible we will look complete Dicks by sat wearing clothes?

Thank you all. X"

No there are very few clubs in the UK that employ these sort of rules, off the top of my head The Vanilla alternative and Liberty elite would require you to dress down to move out the bar/dancefloor area but outside of this Eurkas, AB fabs, ourplace etc no one will give you a second thought for staying dressed.

There are a few who require people to disrobe at a certain time but I cant think of their names!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest you be hard pushed to find a club that you will get that tap on the shoulder, some clubs have areas where u have to be undressed but thats your choice if you go in those areas

We been to a few clubs and have never found any pressure, we just love them

If you fancy a club in the day then try kestrals

Have fun x

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By *riendly_Mancs_Couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stockton (visiting)

Thank you everyone x

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By *ubyExpreeWoman
over a year ago

BBBW Heaven

Our place for fun. Greg and Lisa will look after you both. I did not get undressed on my first visit and not one person battered an eyelid.

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By *imandkirstyCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Abfabs is great - you dont need to take any clothes off , no pressure to do anything. Go on a sat first time thou.

But if you do get naked the swimming pool is lovely lol.

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By *edgehogfunCouple
over a year ago

bordon

definately start with abfabs on a saturday, everyone friendly and always someone to help you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a purely logistical perspective, neither AbFabs nor Eureka's are particularly practical choices if you are staying in Central London.

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By *unlovers70Couple
over a year ago

Overseas

We totally agree about AbFabs, it's our favourite club and totally no pressure at all. Would suggest you go on Saturday night though for a first time as couples and single ladies only but saying that even if you were to go on a Friday there is still no pressure to strip or play with anyone. We've been to a few other clubs and found this the case at those too.

Wherever you choose we are sure you'll have fun, whether you play alone or with others or just choose to watch. We've always found everyone to be really friendly and approachable, even just to chat x

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By *weetsexyCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Saturday at Abfabs, no better place to begin X

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By *owmanMan
over a year ago

middx

Try abfabs on a Saturday it's great atmosphere ,nice friendly people no pressure your have fun .I've been member for a long time

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By *ertscuriousCouple
over a year ago

watford

Another vote for AbFabs from us.

Very relaxed, no pressure and a great club to begin.

Enjoy!

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By *MFC PartiesWoman
over a year ago

Here, There & Everywhere


"From a purely logistical perspective, neither AbFabs nor Eureka's are particularly practical choices if you are staying in Central London.

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Totally agree with Crystal Wheels

Neither of those clubs are in London - therefore you will need to either take a train or taxi to get to them (adding on extra costs and travel time)

Also remember, that whilst you should NEVER feel under pressure to do anything that you dont want to, both Kestrels (ABFABS daytime name) and Eureka, are predominantly naturist clubs so the likelihood of you seeing naked people wandering around IS going to be higher

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By *asey369Woman
over a year ago

London


"From a purely logistical perspective, neither AbFabs nor Eureka's are particularly practical choices if you are staying in Central London.

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Would you have a more central recommendation for a single female? Again first time, so also looking for something tame. Thank you

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

from what I understand there isnt a "central" London club but ourplace4fun is north London and accessible via the tube etc (ab fabs isnt as far as im aware)

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By *asey369Woman
over a year ago

London


"from what I understand there isnt a "central" London club but ourplace4fun is north London and accessible via the tube etc (ab fabs isnt as far as im aware)"

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there are no real central clubs in london, most are "classed" as london, but are not in london.

Ab fabs the most well known is basically heathrow - which it will take you about an hour to get there on the tube, plus a taxi.

then you'll have to night bus it back into central london.. fook that! lol

There are central london events like Mass Pleasures, Fever, VS and others.. but they are not clubs, just occasional/monthly parties which you should expect to pay over £100

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By *ondoncouple14Couple
over a year ago

romford

Our Place 4 Fun without a doubt. Lisa and Greg will do their most to look after you. There is never any pressure to play clothed or not in the club. Not having a wet room (Pool or hot tub) you won't see many naked people. Not unless they are playing. Dress code seems very reserved and sexy.

You won't be the only new couple either. They seem to be getting quite a few new couples every week.

Easy to get to from central London as well. THey also have a local discret taxi firm that will make sure you get home safely (just ask Lisa or Greg and they will sort this for you).

Most of all have fun. We are sure you will never look back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We go to ourplace4fun every weekend and trust me ive never seen anyone pressured into doing nothing they didn't want to do you can stay fully clothed and stand at the bar all nite if you so wish or can walk round and perv on other its up to you

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