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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have been in the scene for a few years playing in MMF. Proving difficult to meet right guy.

Thinking trying a club might be the answer but Mrs think they are 'seedy'.

Any recommendation of where she wont realize that perception?

Live near Rotherham but will travel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi I’ve been to Quest(daytimes) not seedy at all relaxed and definitely no pressure….perfectly normal to feel nervous but think good way to ease self into club visit

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By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago

Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me

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By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago

Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me

I've been to quest too in fact going today

Just let her know it's just like it would be in a normal club just some people wear less clothes

There is no pressure to play so make her aware that if she says no it means no at all times.

Maybe try a cpls day or a newbie night help ease her in gently if she agrees to try it

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

Clubs are different across the country and in each country ... we started our journey in a very classy "wet venue" club in Madrid in 2017 and have direct experience of some UK clubs ... happy to dm chat ... it is always the lady who is the key ... if we are confident, comfortable and settled then the play options widen xx Anne

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