FabSwingers.com forum: BGHS / Bristol Gardens continued

By *inkster001 OP Man
over a year ago

Berwick

The last BGHS forum post apparently got too big, let’s continue it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're planning a long overdue visit tomorrow.

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By *ickthemiller2Man
over a year ago

brighton

Any ladies or couples going this week

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

I'd love to go this Sunday evening & I'm trying to find someone who will accompany me

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By *ayfayCouple
over a year ago

Essex

We will be going this weekend to relax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last few times I’ve been on a Friday have been very disappointing. I like it when’s there’s a ratio of women to men but it hasn’t been that way for a while now. Anyone thinking of going Friday? X

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

"The last few times I’ve been on a Friday have been very disappointing. I like it when’s there’s a ratio of women to men but it hasn’t been that way for a while now. Anyone thinking of going Friday? X"

I probably wouldn't go on a Friday daytime again. There were 4 women & 20+ men. It was relaxing & I enjoyed chatting to people but wasn't too keen on being followed around by a couple of gentlemen old enough to be my Dad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t blame you. If you change your mind, coffees on me

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

"I don’t blame you. If you change your mind, coffees on me

Thank you

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By *ussex swingerMan
over a year ago

crawley

Haven’t been for a few months but I went last Friday and was very quiet

Never been that quiet before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Planning on going this Thursday anyone else planning a visit??

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By *dsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Epsom

Thinking of going Sunday

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By *reykiwi500Man
over a year ago

West Kent (near Tonbridge)

"I'd love to go this Sunday evening & I'm trying to find someone who will accompany me"

Cue 4,000 messages in your inbox I'm sure. Hope you find someone you know and trust for Sunday. Can't imagine it's much fun being followed around (Friday). At least the facilities and staff are really good.

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By *WALKinkCouple
over a year ago

Eastbourne

We used to go a lot, it's still a great place for the actual spa elements, even if you don't go to hook up.

We've just been a little put off by the price increases again, it's a long way for me especially and it just makes it a bit worse unless you can do almost the whole day there.

Later opening would make it more attractive to us again.

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By *ilver_SeductionMan
over a year ago

Burton on Trent

Looking to attend for the first time Wednesday afternoon 5th July. As visiting the area for work conference and hear great things about the facilities

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By *cooby6969Man
over a year ago

Gosport

Id be up to take you if im your type

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By *astbourne coupleCouple
over a year ago

Eastbourne

We went again yesterday afternoon. Lovely couple of hours even if it was a bit quiet. Say hi if you saw us there. X

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By *aith boyMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Love to go with you, but a little over your age range. I've been a few times. More than happy with a social first .

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By *dsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Epsom

We were there yesterday evening

Very quiet but enjoyed the last of the sunshine for a bit of naked sunbathing and had a lovely massage

We also enjoyed ourselves immensely with a few onlookers later on

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By *inkster001 OP Man
over a year ago

Berwick

Might head over this Friday, hope to see some friends there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re heading down Saturday (1st) evening

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By *dsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Epsom

We were there Saturday just gone and it was empty by 9pm , we were the only people there. Very quiet on the fun front but great for the sun and chilling out

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By *usty40Man
over a year ago

godstone

Would love to go here been looking for ages just not got the confidence to go alone

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By *ertcamembertMan
over a year ago

Reading area

"We're planning a long overdue visit tomorrow.

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There's nowhere else quite like BGHS and I am long overdue for another visit too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would love to go here been looking for ages just not got the confidence to go alone "

It’s a health spa.

Why does that take courage?

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By *alc69Man
over a year ago

Goring-by-Sea

"Would love to go here been looking for ages just not got the confidence to go alone "

What confidence do you need? You've signed up for Fab, haven't you?

Basically, you go to the spa, pay your entrance money, strip off and put your clothes in a locker, and go and enjoy the spa / jacuzzi / steam room / saunas.

Going alone shouldn't affect your reasoning or behaviour one jot.

Unless, of course, you have an unusual physical quirk that you're shy about - three penises? A clitoris on your toes? A birthmark on your arse that looks like Martin Clunes?

Get down there, and have a nice time...

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By *astbourne coupleCouple
over a year ago

Eastbourne

"Would love to go here been looking for ages just not got the confidence to go alone

What confidence do you need? You've signed up for Fab, haven't you?

Basically, you go to the spa, pay your entrance money, strip off and put your clothes in a locker, and go and enjoy the spa / jacuzzi / steam room / saunas.

Going alone shouldn't affect your reasoning or behaviour one jot.

Unless, of course, you have an unusual physical quirk that you're shy about - three penises? A clitoris on your toes? A birthmark on your arse that looks like Martin Clunes?

Get down there, and have a nice time..."

I now can't unsee that in my head

In all seriousness, we were very nervous and spoke about it for years but I think it was more the "playing" side we were nervous about. We were always both very shy about our bodies, but after about 2 min at the spa, we were so comfortable and have loved every visit since..... Some more than others though tbf

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By *alc69Man
over a year ago

Goring-by-Sea

"Would love to go here been looking for ages just not got the confidence to go alone

What confidence do you need? You've signed up for Fab, haven't you?

Basically, you go to the spa, pay your entrance money, strip off and put your clothes in a locker, and go and enjoy the spa / jacuzzi / steam room / saunas.

Going alone shouldn't affect your reasoning or behaviour one jot.

Unless, of course, you have an unusual physical quirk that you're shy about - three penises? A clitoris on your toes? A birthmark on your arse that looks like Martin Clunes?

Get down there, and have a nice time...

I now can't unsee that in my head

It's great isn't it?

I am somewhat oversized, but have been going to Brighton / Southwick naturist beaches for over 30 years. I am not a fan of my body - I am hardly Adonis - but I also really don't give a toss what anyone else thinks of my body. They haven't earned the right to comment.

It's with that view that I strip off on the beach or head to BGHS full in the knowledge that no-one is there to be judged.

Glad you are comfortable there. Looking at your profile pics, it's possible we have met. Maybe hope to catch up in there sometime.

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By *ussex swingerMan
over a year ago

crawley

Well just got back from bghs , it was very busy and great atmosphere

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By *avey WaveyMan
over a year ago

Mid Sussex & London

I absolutely adore this place. Hoping to head down for an hour on Friday lunchtime if anyone here will be there to say hello to.

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By *ndy man 61Man
over a year ago

Chichester

does anyone know if Friday nights are for couples only or can singles go to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Marsh will be there on Sunday evening with a play friend.

Both bi, say hi to them both if your there

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By *ilver_SeductionMan
over a year ago

Burton on Trent

Going on down this afternoon for a few hours to chill. If anyone spots me please say hi. I’m down in the area on work business till tomorrow

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By *avey WaveyMan
over a year ago

Mid Sussex & London

"does anyone know if Friday nights are for couples only or can singles go to "

Couples only is Sat and Sunday evenings

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

I’m down in Brighton all next week, working…. Will try to skive off on Thursday afternoon and go have a naked chill… if any ladies or cpls fancy meeting, drop me a line

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By *ateDazBL40Couple
over a year ago

cambridgshire

We are planning to pop in this weekend.

Say hi if you see us/going. Haven’t been for a few years - how busy does a sat afternoon eve get lately?

Also - I remember this place shutting quite early. Does Brighton have any other options for later in the evening?

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By *pank the MonkeyCouple
over a year ago

Fylde Coast

Bghs is an excellent venue.

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

Do any women visit alone? When I went for the 2st time, there were only 3 others in couples & about 30 single men

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By *pank the MonkeyCouple
over a year ago

Fylde Coast

"Do any women visit alone? When I went for the 2st time, there were only 3 others in couples & about 30 single men

Yes they do, you are always going to find it men heavy. That being said there are rules and they are enforced.

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By *imon and saffyCouple
over a year ago

southampton

"Do any women visit alone? When I went for the 2st time, there were only 3 others in couples & about 30 single men

Often, and they pride themselves as being somewhere it's safe and comfortable for single women to visit.

It's often very single men heavy except for the weekend evenings when it's couples only.

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

"Do any women visit alone? When I went for the 2st time, there were only 3 others in couples & about 30 single men

Often, and they pride themselves as being somewhere it's safe and comfortable for single women to visit.

It's often very single men heavy except for the weekend evenings when it's couples only."

Thanks for that x

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

"Do any women visit alone? When I went for the 2st time, there were only 3 others in couples & about 30 single men

Often, and they pride themselves as being somewhere it's safe and comfortable for single women to visit.

It's often very single men heavy except for the weekend evenings when it's couples only.

Thanks for that x"

The last time I went, nov 22 there where three single women in and tbh, all the guys were respectful and what I could see, the ladies were comfortable.. if yr down this coming Thursday and want a chaperone.. I’d be more than happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Marsh and his play toy hope to see many of you sexy couples there this evening.

Say hi to them if you see them xx

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By *ickthemiller2Man
over a year ago

brighton

Anyone going today

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By *astbourne coupleCouple
over a year ago

Eastbourne

"Anyone going today "
it's not open on mondays

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By *ansteelMan
over a year ago

Durham

"Anyone going today "

Not open today unfortunately. I was hoping to get there today with the weather being nice. Not living here I was unaware it didn’t open Mondays.

I’m still aiming to head there one day this week.

Anyone going say hi

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By *pank the MonkeyCouple
over a year ago

Fylde Coast

The good weather plays very little part as far as bghs is concerned as out side space is very limited. We prefer going in winter when freezing cold as its always lovely and warm inside

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By *abyblueeyescoupleCouple
over a year ago

Hastings

We are planning on going this coming Saturday, not been for a while so looking forward to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone going today

Not open today unfortunately. I was hoping to get there today with the weather being nice. Not living here I was unaware it didn’t open Mondays.

I’m still aiming to head there one day this week.

Anyone going say hi "

Thinking of maybe going Thursday?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do any women visit alone? When I went for the 2st time, there were only 3 others in couples & about 30 single men

Was thinking of going Thursday?

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

"Do any women visit alone? When I went for the 2st time, there were only 3 others in couples & about 30 single men

Was thinking of going Thursday?"

Hiya

I would have joined you If I wasn't working. I think it'll have to be the weekend

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

I will be there this Thursday and if any ladies, cpls are going let’s say hi…

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By *ackdog10Man
over a year ago

wipsonade

It is open on mondays

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By *exOnLegsPlymCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

NOT open Mondays unless a bank holiday.

Otherwise T,W,Th 12-9pm and F,S,Sun 12-10pm. Sat & Sun evenings couples only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of months away yet but we plan on going there on Saturday 23rd September as we are overnighting in Brighton.

Just looking for reasonable hotels unless there are any airbnb owners on here?

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By *ustfun001Man
over a year ago

East Sussex

Anyone going on Sunday?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm there tomorrow afternoon, been waiting for it all week

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’ll be there Thursday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you have fun??

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

We're going for our first time on Sunday evening (23rd).

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By *astbourne coupleCouple
over a year ago

Eastbourne

"We're going for our first time on Sunday evening (23rd)."

Hope you have a great time. Sure you will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strange place sometimes ,it's obvs for swingers but staff acknowledge it. Do you think some go there for spa not realising what goes on ?

I go without any expectations and have had fun and seen lovely action .

No I am not one of those following people around

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By *pank the MonkeyCouple
over a year ago

Fylde Coast

"Strange place sometimes ,it's obvs for swingers but staff acknowledge it. Do you think some go there for spa not realising what goes on ?

I go without any expectations and have had fun and seen lovely action .

No I am not one of those following people around "

You are quite wrong, it's not for swingers but they are accepted as long as they follow the rules

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I’ll be there Thursday "
it was good fun.

Improved it a bit too since I was there last.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going on Sunday afternoon

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Thinking of going later today with hubby.

Never been on a Friday night does it get busy?

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By *pank the MonkeyCouple
over a year ago

Fylde Coast

"Thinking of going later today with hubby.

Never been on a Friday night does it get busy?"

It varies, no way of telling

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By *ob357Man
over a year ago

Oswestry

In Bristol picking up a car on Monday is it open and anyone want to join me

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By *atty CoramWoman
over a year ago

Wimbledon

"In Bristol picking up a car on Monday is it open and anyone want to join me "

The name is slightly misleading; it is located in Brighton.

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By *aked RamblerMan
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

Off work this week and looking to head down to BGHS (flexible on day). Anyone else going this week?

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

"Off work this week and looking to head down to BGHS (flexible on day). Anyone else going this week? "

I'm thinking of going on Tuesday afternoon as I need to be somewhere in the Brighton area for around 8pm anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Potentially Tuesday afternoon for me. Be good to get a few people down there.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thinking of going later today with hubby.

Never been on a Friday night does it get busy?"

Depends what you’re into but Saturdays and Sundays are much better IMO.

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By *iouxsie66Couple
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Bristol Gardens this Sunday.

We are attending Bristol Gardens for the first time this Sunday.... anyone else going?

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By *ale1989Man
over a year ago

travelling, ill be close

Looking at Tuesday open to suggestions on times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thinking of going later today with hubby.

Never been on a Friday night does it get busy?

Depends what you’re into but Saturdays and Sundays are much better IMO."

We are in Brighton for a Friday and Saturday night in September so would be interested to know what makes the Saturday better please.

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By *imon and saffyCouple
over a year ago

southampton

"Thinking of going later today with hubby.

Never been on a Friday night does it get busy?

Depends what you’re into but Saturdays and Sundays are much better IMO.

We are in Brighton for a Friday and Saturday night in September so would be interested to know what makes the Saturday better please."

Best of both. Singles during the day, if that's what you're looking for, then couples in the evening.

Or like us, spa all afternoon ignoring the rest rooms, then rest rooms in the evening without any singles pestering you.

Fri is open to all, all day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thinking of going later today with hubby.

Never been on a Friday night does it get busy?

Depends what you’re into but Saturdays and Sundays are much better IMO.

We are in Brighton for a Friday and Saturday night in September so would be interested to know what makes the Saturday better please.

Best of both. Singles during the day, if that's what you're looking for, then couples in the evening.

Or like us, spa all afternoon ignoring the rest rooms, then rest rooms in the evening without any singles pestering you.

Fri is open to all, all day."

Ooh great, thanks for the reply, sounds perfect.

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By *ornyfriendlygentlemanMan
over a year ago

Mid-Sussex

I am going back BGHS in early September I would love to have a female companion to go with.

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By *orestvoyeurMan
over a year ago

New Forest

Looking to go one day next week, can’t wait as I enjoyed my last trip here. Facilities are fantastic and felt a million dollars when I left

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

I had a fantastic time yesterday. Looking forward to planning another visit

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By *orestvoyeurMan
over a year ago

New Forest

"I had a fantastic time yesterday. Looking forward to planning another visit

Tuesday next week?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At a loose end today. Anyone fancy going along together?

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By *tarman100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Be visiting mid August daytime. Love the place

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

"At a loose end today. Anyone fancy going along together?"

I would have joined you if I'd seen this earlier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At a loose end today. Anyone fancy going along together?

I would have joined you if I'd seen this earlier "

I’ve just sent you a PM.

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By *igben9169Man
over a year ago

Waterlooville (ish)

Been curious about visiting here for a while, does anyone have any advice for first timers?

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By *ovebug12Couple
over a year ago

Portsmouth

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By *ovebug12Couple
over a year ago

Portsmouth

It's only couples Saturday and Sunday evenings

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

I was looking forward to going later today but my company has pulled out

Best laid plans....

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By *ustfun001Man
over a year ago

East Sussex

Anyone going tomorrow?

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By *ovebug12Couple
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Was think of going over the weekend will it be pack as its pride weekend

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By *aith boyMan
over a year ago

Worthing

"At a loose end today. Anyone fancy going along together?

I would have joined you if I'd seen this earlier "

I only live 10 minutes away from BGHS, and I've been a few times and had a great time. I'm just outside your age range, but if you'd like to go with someone who's happy for a social, please message me.

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By *ornyfriendlygentlemanMan
over a year ago

Mid-Sussex

I will pay the entry fee and any bits and pieces, I'm looking for a lady to accompany me to BGHS,so we can go in as a couple in the first three days of September,so if there are any ladies that would like to go BGHS with me and all fees paid please message me.

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By *imon and saffyCouple
over a year ago

southampton

I know that this won't be popular but random singles getting together to gain entry to the couples evenings doesn't go down well.

The couples going after 6 are looking to play with couples, not single men. You can stay there the whole day on Friday when you'll find couples who are looking for single men.

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By *astbourne coupleCouple
over a year ago

Eastbourne

"I know that this won't be popular but random singles getting together to gain entry to the couples evenings doesn't go down well.

The couples going after 6 are looking to play with couples, not single men. You can stay there the whole day on Friday when you'll find couples who are looking for single men.

This

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By *ustfun001Man
over a year ago

East Sussex

Anyone going tomorrow?

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By *oliteguyMan
over a year ago

Melksham

I go whenever I’m in Brighton. I really like this place. Will be going Wednesday and Thursday this week. Would love to meet a couple or a lady to chat to whilst enjoying the facilities.

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By *orestvoyeurMan
over a year ago

New Forest

Thursday/Friday this week if any ladies are looking for a male companion?

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"I know that this won't be popular but random singles getting together to gain entry to the couples evenings doesn't go down well.

The couples going after 6 are looking to play with couples, not single men. You can stay there the whole day on Friday when you'll find couples who are looking for single men.

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By *ornyfriendlygentlemanMan
over a year ago

Mid-Sussex

"I know that this won't be popular but random singles getting together to gain entry to the couples evenings doesn't go down well.

The couples going after 6 are looking to play with couples, not single men. You can stay there the whole day on Friday when you'll find couples who are looking for single men.

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maybe the single men can't come on a Friday

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By *imon and saffyCouple
over a year ago

southampton

"I know that this won't be popular but random singles getting together to gain entry to the couples evenings doesn't go down well.

The couples going after 6 are looking to play with couples, not single men. You can stay there the whole day on Friday when you'll find couples who are looking for single men.

maybe the single men can't come on a Friday "

Then you have all afternoon until 6pm both Saturday and Sunday. There are women there during those times who are interested in single men. You really aren't missing out, it's not a sex club, couples play with couples not singles and not an orgy.

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

"I know that this won't be popular but random singles getting together to gain entry to the couples evenings doesn't go down well.

The couples going after 6 are looking to play with couples, not single men. You can stay there the whole day on Friday when you'll find couples who are looking for single men.

But I was under the impression that you needed to stay together as a couple & that if you didn't, you run the risk of being asked to leave?

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By *imon and saffyCouple
over a year ago

southampton

"I know that this won't be popular but random singles getting together to gain entry to the couples evenings doesn't go down well.

The couples going after 6 are looking to play with couples, not single men. You can stay there the whole day on Friday when you'll find couples who are looking for single men.

But I was under the impression that you needed to stay together as a couple & that if you didn't, you run the risk of being asked to leave?"

Exactly.

On a week day singles can stay all day, at weekends it's till 6. It's not an issue around the spa, assuming that you're not pestering people, to be using the facilities without your partner. It becomes an issue in the rest rooms and often in the spa because that single person starts pestering people and not understanding why no one's happy to see them.

I'll stress, this isn't a crusade or an attack, just trying to give an observation and perspective for singles to consider before going.

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By *straeus and AthenaCouple
over a year ago

Canterbury

We are very much the same, bghs is a special place and we try an go once a month (despite being 2 hours away!!) on a Saturday. We spa until couples only time and then will head to the restrooms for some play.

We only play during couples time because we can relax and not feel uncomfortable when a bunch of single guys follow us around just on the off chance we might play. Were not saying all single men are badly behaved, because that isn't true, and we know some lovely single blokes in the lifestyle. But they are in the minority in our experience.

That's why bghs is amazing, a couples only spa space on the weekend where we can relax and where the owners don't stand for any nonsense!

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By *ussex swingerMan
over a year ago

crawley

I go Friday nights usually .

You get abit of everything there from singles and couples .

Everyone normally gets on and no dramas but I have seen a chap pester 2 single ladies and he was asked to leave .

Sometimes you get 1 or 2 that gives single blokes a bad name !

It’s a case of be polite , give people space and know when you haven’t got a chance in hell

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By *ussex swingerMan
over a year ago

crawley

At the end of the day it’s a spa to enjoy and relax and if anything else is a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been before, what is the parking situation like on a Saturday? Xxx

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By *astbourne coupleCouple
over a year ago

Eastbourne

"Never been before, what is the parking situation like on a Saturday? Xxx"
you can park pretty much directly outside. The last time we went, the meters weren't working so had to pay on an app on our phone.

Hope this helps.

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By *lovisMan
over a year ago

Twickenham

"Never been before, what is the parking situation like on a Saturday? Xxx you can park pretty much directly outside. The last time we went, the meters weren't working so had to pay on an app on our phone.

Hope this helps.

I think there is a 4hr limit for parking up until 8pm.

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By *ussex swingerMan
over a year ago

crawley

There’s parking around it down side roads too . Fair easy

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By *orestvoyeurMan
over a year ago

New Forest

I’ll be here tomorrow can wait either! Love the relaxing atmosphere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you all xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

weekend of 2nd September , staying in brighton and wife said it would be rude not to go

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By *ich100Man
over a year ago

luton

I have never been but it has been recommended to me will have to give it a try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'll be visiting tomorrow (Saturday) earlier than usual. Normally we've only been when it's couples only but we're going to see how it is when singles are allowed too.

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By *ugarSpiceCplCouple
over a year ago

London

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By *ugarSpiceCplCouple
over a year ago

London

We are going tomorrow (Sat) for our first visit and would love to meet a couple or black guy there for some fun.

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By *ames1ukMan
over a year ago

surrey

Anyone going daytime today

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By *ustus696969Couple
over a year ago

Southampton

Hopefully going in evening on Saturday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We'll be visiting tomorrow (Saturday) earlier than usual. Normally we've only been when it's couples only but we're going to see how it is when singles are allowed too."

We plan to go when we visit Brighton next month.

Would love to hear your experience of that time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was there yesterday, great place to relax and have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are going tomorrow (Sat) for our first visit and would love to meet a couple or black guy there for some fun. "

We are going tomorrow for the first time too!

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By *ugarSpiceCplCouple
over a year ago

London

Great. Hopefully we will meet you.

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By *ayfayCouple
over a year ago

Essex

We love BGHS! Such a calm, chilled, relaxing place. Generally go on the weekends during the couples only. Chatting to couples in the sauna, pool or jacuzzi's is always nice.

Been followed around by singles outside of the couples only which has been annoying.

The playrooms are nice and good to have some naughty fun with likeminded couples.

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By *ole2holeMan
over a year ago

Rustington

Lovely venue to relax and unwind, hopefully be there tomorrow (Sunday) for a few hours in the afternoon. Always a great atmosphere and pleasant people in attendance!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how did your trip go ? hope you enjoyed it

we had the great good fortune to meet a lovely black guy on our last visit , albeit a while ago .. hope to again on our next in sept

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

South Essex

Had a great time at BGHS last night. It was our first time, but we’ll definitely be back. Great facilities, well run and some very sexy couples. The open play room was a very welcome surprise (and was well used all night) x

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By *ustfun001Man
over a year ago

East Sussex

Whats BGHS like on a Wednesday?

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

I have to be honest and say that this thread has put us off BGHS a little.

No judgement, as obviously we are swingers, but we weren't at all thinking of the Spa as a kind of Swinger's Club. Yet some in this thread have implied that we all know what it's *really* about.

Do we? Because we were actually looking forward to a naturist place, which can be a completely different mindset. If we do almost accidentally turn each other on - because I'm only human after all - we can go to the rooms. But that is not at all why we're going and I'm not anticipating seeing anyone and thinking PHWOAR!

Am I missong something?

- Jack

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By *astbourne coupleCouple
over a year ago

Eastbourne

"I have to be honest and say that this thread has put us off BGHS a little.

No judgement, as obviously we are swingers, but we weren't at all thinking of the Spa as a kind of Swinger's Club. Yet some in this thread have implied that we all know what it's *really* about.

Am I missong something?

- Jack "

The rest areas are perfect if you do find yourselves getting turned on. However the rest of the spa is absolutely lovely for relaxing and just getting away from the real world for a few hours. The staff are very strict and inforce their policy of no naughtyness in the PSA area (of which there are 3 and a half floors of)

Best way to find out, is to go for yourselves. We personally love it there and always go without the expectation of we are going to have naughty fun and just see how the time goes.

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

South Essex

"I have to be honest and say that this thread has put us off BGHS a little.

No judgement, as obviously we are swingers, but we weren't at all thinking of the Spa as a kind of Swinger's Club. Yet some in this thread have implied that we all know what it's *really* about.

Am I missong something?

- Jack "

We get that, and that ambiguity is why Michelle hates Silverleigh (also the wanking dead and the run down feel). BGHS is a beautiful spa and the play areas are very separate so it’d be impossible to stumble on them by accident. Unusually there’s no sense it’s anything other than a proper naturist spa on the lower floors. It’s certainly more ‘swinger’ than we’d expected, but it’s brilliantly run, clean, the facilities are great and we’ll certainly be back!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have to be honest and say that this thread has put us off BGHS a little.

No judgement, as obviously we are swingers, but we weren't at all thinking of the Spa as a kind of Swinger's Club. Yet some in this thread have implied that we all know what it's *really* about.

Do we? Because we were actually looking forward to a naturist place, which can be a completely different

mindset. If we do almost accidentally turn each other on - because I'm only human after all - we can go to the rooms. But that is not at all why we're going and I'm not anticipating seeing anyone and thinking PHWOAR!

Am I missong something?

- Jack "

have to agree with other posters , naughty stuff does go on at BGHS , but it is contained and it is perfectly possible to not even be aware of it .

Very much like quite a few other naturist venues , if you go without any expectations of anything happening you can just bask in the atmosphere and enjoy being nude in company of others .

if you meet someone that you get along with you can indulge but it's not the primary function of the place .

Wife and i go with one eye open just in case , but go to relax without the pressure and expectations of a swinging club .. Its so much more relaxed !

you will love it

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By *hellebelleWoman
over a year ago

ashford

"I have to be honest and say that this thread has put us off BGHS a little.

No judgement, as obviously we are swingers, but we weren't at all thinking of the Spa as a kind of Swinger's Club. Yet some in this thread have implied that we all know what it's *really* about.

Am I missong something?

- Jack "

The staff are very strict and on the ball when it comes to anything sexual anywhere other than in the rest room area.

I was there yesterday and witnessed a couple having a hands on soapy shower together and got warned to stop or they would be asked to leave and whilst lying in the sauna we heard a heated discussion between a staff member and a guy who was wanking watching us through the window literally lying there doing sod all… this gentleman in person was told to leave.

Remember the signs in swimming pools that had the ‘no petting’ rule… well, silverleigh has this too.

If you’re wanting a naturist experience then this is the spa to go too. It has 3.5 floors all accessed by one curved staircase (no lifts so not suitable for disabled)

The LG floor houses the spa area (pool, saunas, steam rooms, jacuzzi and hot tubs.

The G floor has the reception, lockers, changing areas, a small snug chill out area with a tv (not showing porn) and sofa, little cafe with sofas and table and chairs.

1st floor has the private and open ‘rest rooms’ accessed through a door on the right and to the left another chill out area (not a ‘rest room’) with stairs leading up to the sun terrace and yet another chill out area (again, not a ‘rest room’.

Yes people forget the rules or try to bend them but they do hold a high risk of being caught and told to leave.. the staff are always walking around making sure the rules are adhered too.

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By *hellebelleWoman
over a year ago

ashford

"I have to be honest and say that this thread has put us off BGHS a little.

No judgement, as obviously we are swingers, but we weren't at all thinking of the Spa as a kind of Swinger's Club. Yet some in this thread have implied that we all know what it's *really* about.

Am I missong something?

- Jack

The staff are very strict and on the ball when it comes to anything sexual anywhere other than in the rest room area.

Remember the signs in swimming pools that had the ‘no petting’ rule… well, BGHS has this too.

If you’re wanting a naturist experience then this is the spa to go too. It has 3.5 floors all accessed by one curved staircase (no lifts so not suitable for disabled)

The LG floor houses the spa area (pool, saunas, steam rooms, jacuzzi and hot tubs.

The G floor has the reception, lockers, changing areas, a small snug chill out area with a tv (not showing porn) and sofa, little cafe with sofas and table and chairs.

Yes people forget the rules or try to bend them but they do hold a high risk of being caught and told to leave.. the staff are always walking around making sure the rules are adhered too."

*sorry for typo… BGHS, not silverleigh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are going on Saturday evening

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By *den_GCCouple
over a year ago

San Fernando, Gran Canaria

Hiya. Hoping to visit sometime next week as we are in the UK from tomorrow (Friday)

Can you take extra towels or are extra provided for a fee? I've to look on the website but can't find anything

Thanks!

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By *ropforwardMan
over a year ago

Steyning

"Hiya. Hoping to visit sometime next week as we are in the UK from tomorrow (Friday)

Can you take extra towels or are extra provided for a fee? I've to look on the website but can't find anything

Thanks!

They change them for dry ones as required

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By *den_GCCouple
over a year ago

San Fernando, Gran Canaria

"Hiya. Hoping to visit sometime next week as we are in the UK from tomorrow (Friday)

Can you take extra towels or are extra provided for a fee? I've to look on the website but can't find anything

Thanks!

They change them for dry ones as required"

Perfect

thank you

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

"Hiya. Hoping to visit sometime next week as we are in the UK from tomorrow (Friday)

Can you take extra towels or are extra provided for a fee? I've to look on the website but can't find anything

Thanks!

Just a word to the wise- they're bath towels, not bath sheets. I'm a chunky size 16 and there's just enough towel to wrap around & tuck in!! I guess it doesn't really matter, but if I'm sat in the cafe, I'd prefer not to have to hold it to stop it pinging off my boobs! Lol!!

I have seen others in there who bring their own larger ones

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"Just a word to the wise- they're bath towels, not bath sheets. I'm a chunky size 16 and there's just enough towel to wrap around & tuck in!! I guess it doesn't really matter, but if I'm sat in the cafe, I'd prefer not to have to hold it to stop it pinging off my boobs! Lol!!

I have seen others in there who bring their own larger ones

That's very useful info. Thanks!

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By *den_GCCouple
over a year ago

San Fernando, Gran Canaria

I have seen others in there who bring their own larger ones

That's very useful info. Thanks! "

Very useful...I need a large towel too....

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By *tarman100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Anyone know if its likely to be open 28th bank Holiday?

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

"Anyone know if its likely to be open 28th bank Holiday? "

I don't think it opens on Mondays anyway...

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By *tarman100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Just wondered as it's a Bank Holiday if they would

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By *den_GCCouple
over a year ago

San Fernando, Gran Canaria

I believe saw on the site that they open every Bank Holiday but don't quote me. Lol

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By *tarman100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Will check. Thanks

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

"I believe saw on the site that they open every Bank Holiday but don't quote me. Lol

Ahh, good to know!!

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By *reykiwi500Man
over a year ago

West Kent (near Tonbridge)

"I believe saw on the site that they open every Bank Holiday but don't quote me. Lol

Hi, yes that's correct. BGHS opens every Monday if it's a Bank Holiday. Quite often a really good day to go, especially for singles.

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By *tarman100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By *tarman100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'll be there on the 28th with a partner, hope to see some of you there

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By *dysseusukMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

I'm staying in Brighton from Sunday 20-27th. Love to hook up with any ladies or couples for drinks or to go to BGHS with. Been there a few times before and love the place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi thinking of going Saturday any places to park there ???

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By *den_GCCouple
over a year ago

San Fernando, Gran Canaria

Attending on Wednesday

Cannot wait! Gonna relax and chill

Definitely get a massage

Bliss.....

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"Attending on Wednesday

Cannot wait! Gonna relax and chill

Definitely get a massage

Bliss....."

Are the massages there any good? I'm really intrigued by the idea of a massage that is naked yet not sexual. Sounds like bliss!

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By *herries and CreamCouple
over a year ago

South East

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By *osey WalesMan
over a year ago

Surrey

The massages are very good. I tend to go for the half hour ones and always regret not paying for an hour one !

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By *osey WalesMan
over a year ago

Surrey

"I have to be honest and say that this thread has put us off BGHS a little.

No judgement, as obviously we are swingers, but we weren't at all thinking of the Spa as a kind of Swinger's Club. Yet some in this thread have implied that we all know what it's *really* about.

Am I missong something?

- Jack "

Its a lovely place to chill out and relax. Yes, some naughtiness happens in the rest rooms but i have been many times alone and just chilled out. It really is a lovely place to chill out and relax

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By *ustfun1000Man
over a year ago

hanwell

We visited (my g/f and I) on Saturday as usual friendly staff spotlessly clean and when the single guys left the large playroom erupted of which we was part of. I left a review on there place , check it out .

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By *tarman100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Anyone else heading along bank holiday Monday?

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By *reykiwi500Man
over a year ago

West Kent (near Tonbridge)

Definitely thinking of going BH Monday.

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By *astbourne coupleCouple
over a year ago

Eastbourne

We might be going either Sunday or Monday (bank hol) Not been for a couple of months and missing it

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By *illjohnCouple
over a year ago

English Riviera

Going today for birthday treat soon after it opens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are in brighton end of next week .. be rude not to go !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

am not at all sure how that appeared as a reply to your birthday message !! I wasn't supposed to .. but hope you have a lovely B'day !

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By *lawsome_CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Sussex Coast

Wondering if anyone else might go along to BGHS couples time on Sat? We are considering it as an option as we have childcare but no plans.

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By *oxandRabbitCouple
over a year ago

Winchester

Looks like a stunning venue! We are curious to try it out for the first time. Looking to go on Sunday or bank holiday Monday - any recommendations on which day is best? Hope to meet some of you there

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By *inkster001 OP Man
over a year ago

Berwick

"Looks like a stunning venue! We are curious to try it out for the first time. Looking to go on Sunday or bank holiday Monday - any recommendations on which day is best? Hope to meet some of you there

They aren’t open on Mondays so Sunday is your best bet if you’re looking to meet just couples

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By *tarman100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

They are open bank holidays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are going Sunday evening after 5:30, couples only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are heading there Saturday eve for the couples night.

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

"We are going Sunday evening after 5:30, couples only

I'm hoping to be there on Sunday evening too. I'm just waiting to see if my companion can make it. Fingers crossed

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By *astbourne coupleCouple
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Had a lovely few hours here this afternoon. Say hi if you were there between 15:00-18:00

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm visiting for a week. Might have time to visit the weekend!

Good vibes to chill for a single guy or is it an avoid?

Any info would be appreciated.

Thanks James

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