FabSwingers.com forum: Abfabs Saturday 13th May

By *loppsy OP Woman
over a year ago

marlow

Hi. Myself and a FWB are off to Abfabs the evening of Saturday 13th May as they are admitting selected single men and not just couples and single females. Let us know if you are going. Looking forward to some fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We will be there.

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By *loppsy OP Woman
over a year ago

marlow

"We will be there."

Looks like it me me and my FWB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looks like it!"

Would love to play with you

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By *anted by NightMan
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Love to try it on Saturday nights

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By *aneeCouple
over a year ago

Bath

Do we need to be members to visit, and if so can we join on the Day.

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By *loppsy OP Woman
over a year ago

marlow

"Do we need to be members to visit, and if so can we join on the Day."

They like you to fill in a form online before turning up. Take a look at their website all the info is there along with the ID you will need to take

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By *loppsy OP Woman
over a year ago

marlow

Bumping this thread as not sure now it will be worth going!!

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By *exy and HotCouple
over a year ago

St Albans

"Hi. Myself and a FWB are off to Abfabs the evening of Saturday 13th May as they are admitting selected single men and not just couples and single females. Let us know if you are going. Looking forward to some fun

Prefer couples nights on a Saturday so will probably go elsewhere

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By *urreyVixenStagCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

The single men are selected and only to a maximum of 12. FYI

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By *loppsy OP Woman
over a year ago

marlow

The single men are selected and only to a maximum of 12. FYI"

Thanks. Just started going back to the club so not sure how busy it gets in these night as Saturdays are usually couples and single women only. Went a couple of Fridays ago and it was fabulous. Was hoping this would be the similar

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By *urreyVixenStagCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

The single men are selected and only to a maximum of 12. FYI

I personally prefer Fridays because of the single gents, but Saturdays can be busy too. Maybe not as much as Fridays but always fun to be had

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I imagine most single gents will be going on Friday as its half price night so only £30 entry, whereas Saturday is £75 if they are "selected".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer couples nights on a Saturday so will probably go elsewhere "
. There’s literally a few single guys it will be mostly couples!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bumping this thread as not sure now it will be worth going!! "

Not everyone who goes to AF is on fab!

sorry were not good enough for your liking!!

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By *exy and HotCouple
over a year ago

St Albans

The single men are selected and only to a maximum of 12. FYI"

12 will change the dynamic a lot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I knew how to be a selected guy I would go

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By *urreyVixenStagCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

It’s a maximum of 12. It’s single gents who are well known to the staff and are long standing members and they must adhere to rules when attending and be respectful

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By *loppsy OP Woman
over a year ago

marlow

"I imagine most single gents will be going on Friday as its half price night so only £30 entry, whereas Saturday is £75 if they are "selected".

Good point! X

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

"I imagine most single gents will be going on Friday as its half price night so only £30 entry, whereas Saturday is £75 if they are "selected".

Good point! X"
. I think some guys may consider the Saturday night at £75 as they may feel more comfortable approaching a couple as there will be less single guys than other nights .Also in London it’s tough for a single guy to go to a adult club on a Saturday nights as their are not many that allows single guys on a Saturday and not many clubs in London either.Also for AbFabs 12 guys x £75 = £900 which I think is good money for a nights work and possibly make their Saturday more profitable.Only time will tell if it will be a good or bad thing.

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By *MrandMrsRedxCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Tempting

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By *ctionman10Man
over a year ago

London

Been to the selected Saturdays- good night not as busy as Fridays but still fun.

Certainly does not change the dynamic of the night.

If a single gent talks to couple that’s only looking for couples they just make that clear in a friendly way can it no hardship if a gent is just having a friendly chat surely.

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By *.BondMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Like the dark room there

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By *eardedMasterandCuntessCouple
over a year ago

Longcross

Might be tempted out tonight……

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tempted for tonight but I think it would best for me to attend tomorrow

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By *noozeULoseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

The last Saturday 12 single males on couples night was actually a good event think it was the owners birthday celebrations

So much so we will be attending tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not the best night, very quiet and weird vibe. Very disappointed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope its not the same last Saturday of the month.....we are planning to try for the first time. Why a weird vibe?

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge

Be interesting to see how the vibe differs from Fridays. Ive been to quite few over the years and the numbers of single men chasing everyone around the club seems to be higher than ever (still a fab party though)

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By *inkyCoupleForYouCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

No surprise that the one night they introduce single guys to a couples night it's dead and hardly any couples go..

It's a couples night for a reason. If anyone from AbFabs is reading this thread, please keep the couples nights for couples, singles already have the other 6 days

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By *inkyCoupleForYouCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

"I imagine most single gents will be going on Friday as its half price night so only £30 entry, whereas Saturday is £75 if they are "selected".

Good point! X. I think some guys may consider the Saturday night at £75 as they may feel more comfortable approaching a couple as there will be less single guys than other nights .Also in London it’s tough for a single guy to go to a adult club on a Saturday nights as their are not many that allows single guys on a Saturday and not many clubs in London either.Also for AbFabs 12 guys x £75 = £900 which I think is good money for a nights work and possibly make their Saturday more profitable.Only time will tell if it will be a good or bad thing."

Single guys already have 6 other nights they can play. Can't couples just have one night a week to themselves without single guys tailing them everywhere..?

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By *inkyCoupleForYouCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

"Not the best night, very quiet and weird vibe. Very disappointed "

Thanks for the update. We suspected this would be the case

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

"I imagine most single gents will be going on Friday as its half price night so only £30 entry, whereas Saturday is £75 if they are "selected".

Single guys already have 6 other nights they can play. Can't couples just have one night a week to themselves without single guys tailing them everywhere..?"
. According to AbFabs website and my understanding AbFabs is from 6.00 pm to midnight or 2.00 am on Monday , Wednesday , Friday so that is 3 nights.As I said earlier only time will tell if having 12 guys paying £75 a time instead of the usual £30-£40 for the other nights .Going by this thread and some of the comments it seems that it is not to popular but as I said only time will tell and I guess that is one for AbFabs to decide if it is worth with continuing or not.

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By *urreyVixenStagCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

"I imagine most single gents will be going on Friday as its half price night so only £30 entry, whereas Saturday is £75 if they are "selected".

Single guys already have 6 other nights they can play. Can't couples just have one night a week to themselves without single guys tailing them everywhere..?. According to AbFabs website and my understanding AbFabs is from 6.00 pm to midnight or 2.00 am on Monday , Wednesday , Friday so that is 3 nights.As I said earlier only time will tell if having 12 guys paying £75 a time instead of the usual £30-£40 for the other nights .Going by this thread and some of the comments it seems that it is not to popular but as I said only time will tell and I guess that is one for AbFabs to decide if it is worth with continuing or not."

Please stop giving out false information.

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By *urreyVixenStagCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

Single guys already have 6 other nights they can play. Can't couples just have one night a week to themselves without single guys tailing them everywhere..?"

Where is the 6 other nights? They are only open in the evenings on Monday, Weds, Fri & Sat nights.

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By *ragon007Man
over a year ago

london

"I imagine most single gents will be going on Friday as its half price night so only £30 entry, whereas Saturday is £75 if they are "selected".

Single guys already have 6 other nights they can play. Can't couples just have one night a week to themselves without single guys tailing them everywhere..?"

Why they are allowing single guys on Saturday nights .it was good as couples night.not sure what is going in owners head lol one bad decision after another

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

"I imagine most single gents will be going on Friday as its half price night so only £30 entry, whereas Saturday is £75 if they are "selected".

Please stop giving out false information."
. SurreyVixenStag - When you say please stop giving false information I am assuming you mean the person who said single guys already have 6 nights where as I said they have Monday , Wednesday , Friday which is what you have also said.If I have made any false comments then I apologise to you and anyone else.

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By *anted by NightMan
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Why they are allowing single guys on Saturday nights .it was good as couples night.not sure what is going in owners head lol one bad decision after another "

Don’t tell somebody how to run their business

. No one have asked advice from you

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By *urreyVixenStagCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

" According to AbFabs website and my understanding AbFabs is from 6.00 pm to midnight or 2.00 am on Monday , Wednesday , Friday so that is 3 nights.As I said earlier only time will tell if having 12 guys paying £75 a time instead of the usual £30-£40 for the other nights .Going by this thread and some of the comments it seems that it is not to popular but as I said only time will tell and I guess that is one for AbFabs to decide if it is worth with continuing or not.

Please stop giving out false information.. SurreyVixenStag - When you say please stop giving false information I am assuming you mean the person who said single guys already have 6 nights where as I said they have Monday , Wednesday , Friday which is what you have also said.If I have made any false comments then I apologise to you and anyone else."

It was actually to you. Not sure where you got those opening times from but certainly not their website

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By *ragon007Man
over a year ago

london

Why they are allowing single guys on Saturday nights .it was good as couples night.not sure what is going in owners head lol one bad decision after another

Don’t tell somebody how to run their business

. No one have asked advice from you

And keep you nose out and don’t dare tell me what to say and not to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Popcorn time.

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By *inkyCoupleForYouCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Single guys already have 6 other nights they can play. Can't couples just have one night a week to themselves without single guys tailing them everywhere..?

Where is the 6 other nights? They are only open in the evenings on Monday, Weds, Fri & Sat nights. "

OK so to answer you.. Of all the nights its open only ONE is reserved for couples only. Does that help you understand?

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By *inkyCoupleForYouCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

"I imagine most single gents will be going on Friday as its half price night so only £30 entry, whereas Saturday is £75 if they are "selected".

The point Im trying to make is that single men have access already to all the open nights bar 1. So at the very least allow couples one night to play together without single guys chasing them.

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By *ixieDKWoman
over a year ago

RYDE

The point Im trying to make is that single men have access already to all the open nights bar 1. So at the very least allow couples one night to play together without single guys chasing them."

How about the other Saturdays in the month when single guys AREN'T invited?

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By *ctionman10Man
over a year ago

London

The point Im trying to make is that single men have access already to all the open nights bar 1. So at the very least allow couples one night to play together without single guys chasing them.

How about the other Saturdays in the month when single guys AREN'T invited?"

Exactly it’s only one Saturday a month they do this night and I believe it was on feedback and requests from the clubs members that they are doing it - it’s a common theme at most clubs I know now.

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By *urreyVixenStagCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

"I imagine most single gents will be going on Friday as its half price night so only £30 entry, whereas Saturday is £75 if they are "selected".

The point Im trying to make is that single men have access already to all the open nights bar 1. So at the very least allow couples one night to play together without single guys chasing them."

Considering there have been many couples ask for single gents on a Saturday nights. It is ONE Saturday night a month!

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By *inkyCoupleForYouCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

"I imagine most single gents will be going on Friday as its half price night so only £30 entry, whereas Saturday is £75 if they are "selected".

The point Im trying to make is that single men have access already to all the open nights bar 1. So at the very least allow couples one night to play together without single guys chasing them.

Considering there have been many couples ask for single gents on a Saturday nights. It is ONE Saturday night a month! "

I've never heard of any couples that go to Saturday night at ABFABS asking for single males, I believe you've just made that up in your head. And judging by the turn out last week when they did, hardly any couples went. So perhaps relax a little and see this for what it is..

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By *inkyCoupleForYouCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

The point Im trying to make is that single men have access already to all the open nights bar 1. So at the very least allow couples one night to play together without single guys chasing them.

How about the other Saturdays in the month when single guys AREN'T invited?

Ok so how would you like it if we reversed this. .. Think about it? No singles at all except for Saturday nights? How would that sit with you? The plain fact is that there is a large group of couples, that just want to play with other couples.. Thats all. It's no judgement on single males. Just a choice. No given what its like for a couple to try and play alone with a group of other couples when single males are allowed, it's an absolute nightmare. You get stared at and chased around the club by herds of single guys hoping to get a piece of the action, thats a plain fact, and why couples nights only are so busy. Just saying how it is..

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By *urreyVixenStagCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

I am the Manager of this club. I know exactly what members ask for. We read and take note of everything that is said on these forums regarding our club. I know a far lot more of what happens here on the outside and in the background than those making assumptions or comments.

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By *exy and HotCouple
over a year ago

St Albans

"Not the best night, very quiet and weird vibe. Very disappointed

Thanks for the update. We suspected this would be the case

It certainly put us off going as 12 “selected” single men will change the dynamic. Dark room would be a no no for us with them roaming around.

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By *ragon007Man
over a year ago

london

"I am the Manager of this club. I know exactly what members ask for. We read and take note of everything that is said on these forums regarding our club. I know a far lot more of what happens here on the outside and in the background than those making assumptions or comments. "

Oh that make sense lol but unfortunately this society has free speech .Also be careful with GDPR as knowing me means you looked at my records without consent

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By *urreyVixenStagCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

Oh that make sense lol but unfortunately this society has free speech .Also be careful with GDPR as knowing me means you looked at my records without consent "

You had a face picture on your profile.

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By *ragon007Man
over a year ago

london

Oh that make sense lol but unfortunately this society has free speech .Also be careful with GDPR as knowing me means you looked at my records without consent

You had a face picture on your profile. "

It for friends only and we are hardly friends lol

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By *urreyVixenStagCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

Oh that make sense lol but unfortunately this society has free speech .Also be careful with GDPR as knowing me means you looked at my records without consent

You had a face picture on your profile.

It for friends only and we are hardly friends lol "

I clearly remember you had it as your profile picture.

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