FabSwingers.com forum: First time

By *ocky82 OP Man
over a year ago

Watford

Hi all

I’m desperate to encourage my wife into this lifestyle ( I think )

We live in Watford could anyone recommend a club maybe that would be suitable for first timers ?

Tia

By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

"Hi all

I’m desperate to encourage my wife into this lifestyle ( I think )

We live in Watford could anyone recommend a club maybe that would be suitable for first timers ?

Tia"

I don't think going to a swingers club would encourage your wife to get into this lifestyle. Especially if you don't tell her where you're going.

But let's say you've discussed it with her and she's happy to try, I would go for a club where you don't have to dress down on arrival, unless she likes spas and doesn't mind walking around in a towel. Also, look for a club that offers private lockable rooms. I'd suggest either Penthouse Playrooms in Dunstable (very nightclub-like) or Jaydees near St Neots- again, nightclub-style, with plenty of areas for just socializing and being eased in gently.

If she does like spa, then Kestrels near Heathrow might be an option.

By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

OP, please keep the replies to the forum. There was no need for a private message.

By *ocky82 OP Man
over a year ago

Watford

"OP, please keep the replies to the forum. There was no need for a private message. "

Understood didn’t mean to offend or upset you.

Thanks again for your reply

By *he LsCouple
over a year ago

East Midlands

Does she know you are on here and have a veri? That would be the best place to start.

If that's all OK..

We went to The Vanilla Alternative for our first club visit, open play but the main bar is great and it's a really nice place. Penthouse Playrooms is also a great club too.

We got into this lifestyle together, before we knew about Fab, after finding out clubs like VA existed. First experience was an eye opener and not what we expected, but in a good way.