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Attic Derby 5th/6th May (non party nights)

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By * and B OP   Couple
over a year ago

Durham

Yes it's non party nights. It seems that a lot of swingers clubs like to have themes every weekend. What happened to the good old swingers nights, couldn't be a better theme. We like the no theme nights much better than than the fancy dress. Mrs F has some amazing skimpy and revealing outfits to wear on a swingers night. Attic only do one party night a month which is always the last Saturday which we think is perfect. All other Saturdays are just, like we said, good old swingers nights. It's a mine feild trying to pick a club well in advance to book a hotel, only to find out they now have a themed night that doesn't float our boat.

Any way if you are going to Attic 5th/6th May drop us a message

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By *ittle MonkeysCouple
over a year ago

Kimberley


"only to find out they now have a themed night that doesn't float our boat."

We have found that The Attics party nights are quite low key in terms of fancy dress, with less than half the guests dressing up. I wouldn’t let a certain theme put me off at all.

What I would like to see is a couples only night from time to time.

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By * and B OP   Couple
over a year ago

Durham


"only to find out they now have a themed night that doesn't float our boat.

We have found that The Attics party nights are quite low key in terms of fancy dress, with less than half the guests dressing up. I wouldn’t let a certain theme put me off at all.

What I would like to see is a couples only night from time to time."

Themed nights at Attic don't put us off due to fancy dress. We find themed nights in any clubs are the nights that friends all go together so more likely to have groups of friends not interacting outside their own groups. Non themed nights seem to have a completely different demographic in our opinion.

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By *ittle MonkeysCouple
over a year ago

Kimberley


"only to find out they now have a themed night that doesn't float our boat.

We have found that The Attics party nights are quite low key in terms of fancy dress, with less than half the guests dressing up. I wouldn’t let a certain theme put me off at all.

What I would like to see is a couples only night from time to time.

Themed nights at Attic don't put us off due to fancy dress. We find themed nights in any clubs are the nights that friends all go together so more likely to have groups of friends not interacting outside their own groups. Non themed nights seem to have a completely different demographic in our opinion. "

Makes sense, I see your point and to be fair one of the best nights we had there was the first day of January. No party and relatively quiet post new year, but it was amazing

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By * and B OP   Couple
over a year ago

Durham

Not many replies here or DM. Now the party night is over and folk are looking forwards to the next weekend maybe we'll get more hits. Come on folks, who's thinking of attending?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm hopefully there Friday night for my first ever visit to a club, any tips or advice would be greatly appreciated

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By * and B OP   Couple
over a year ago

Durham


"I'm hopefully there Friday night for my first ever visit to a club, any tips or advice would be greatly appreciated "

Just be yourself and chat to people. Don't get drawn into wandering up and down all night not interacting. Small talk starts off great conversations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks I'm quite reserved, I'm confident I won't step out of line, I'm predominately going to make friends anything else is just a bonus, noticing more and more people prefer the clubs to get to know people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And please come say hello both of you

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By *onyMad123Couple
over a year ago

nottingham/ derby

Probably be there normally there most weekends when work means we can't, it's a good laugh

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By *apperleymanMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I used to attend mainly on party nights, always had a good time however recently I’ve had more fun on the non party nights.. this could be for many reasons but perhaps being less busy means more chance to interact?

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By * and B OP   Couple
over a year ago

Durham


"I used to attend mainly on party nights, always had a good time however recently I’ve had more fun on the non party nights.. this could be for many reasons but perhaps being less busy means more chance to interact?

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That's what we think about non party nights, people interact with people they don't know. Always good to make new friendships

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By *ust_for_fun88Couple
over a year ago

somewhere

Take cash,, and comfortable shoes big place to walk around

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By * and B OP   Couple
over a year ago

Durham


"Take cash,, and comfortable shoes big place to walk around"

Comfortable shoes, not trainers though as you won't gain entry

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By * and B OP   Couple
over a year ago

Durham


"And please come say hello both of you "

Mrs F will be dancing on the Pole, trying out what she has been learning at Pole Class the week before

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By *ressed4fun03TV/TS
over a year ago

Midlands

I love going there to watch the action

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh goody

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

I may try to pop along on the Saturday x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve not been to the attic yet as it’s a bit of a hike for us.

We’ll be oop North on a mission though that weekend so may pop in.

Many fit single guys planning to go along?

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By * and B OP   Couple
over a year ago

Durham


"We’ve not been to the attic yet as it’s a bit of a hike for us.

We’ll be oop North on a mission though that weekend so may pop in.

Many fit single guys planning to go along? "

We regularly head south to Attic as we love the club. Well worth the visit. We Book a hotel for a weekend and attend both the Friday and Saturday nights. 150 miles there 150 miles back. 1st week July we are heading to a club we've not been to before 210 miles away.

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By * and B OP   Couple
over a year ago

Durham


"I may try to pop along on the Saturday x"

We will see you Saturday if you make it Cali

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By * and B OP   Couple
over a year ago

Durham

The weekend is nearly here. We'll be in the Attic at 7pm Friday and the same time Saturday

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"I may try to pop along on the Saturday x

We will see you Saturday if you make it Cali "
ill do my best. I could do with a soak in the hot tub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See you all tonight ill not get there until 10-15ish though the girl I'm taking can't go until late, but I'll make up for lost time, if you see me please say Hi ill be extremely nervous ill be in a white shirt

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By *oetic licenceCouple
over a year ago

Darley Dale

We're thinking about going tonight. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hopefully see you both there

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By * and B OP   Couple
over a year ago

Durham


"Hopefully see you both there "

If you press reply+quote when reposting we'll know whos post you are replying to. Hope that helps. We look forward to meeting people tonight and tomorrow night. We've not been to a club since end of February, we are so ready for our weekend away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hopefully see you both there

If you press reply+quote when reposting we'll know whos post you are replying to. Hope that helps. We look forward to meeting people tonight and tomorrow night. We've not been to a club since end of February, we are so ready for our weekend away "

Sorry I'm new to all this I'm a club virgin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're thinking about going tonight. Xx"

Hopefully see you both there

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By *ead by DaylightCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

We are going to be there tomorrow night

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By * and B OP   Couple
over a year ago

Durham


"We are going to be there tomorrow night "

We see you like the mirror room

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By *ead by DaylightCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley


"We are going to be there tomorrow night

We see you like the mirror room "

What gave us away it's definitely a lot of fun in there

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By * and B OP   Couple
over a year ago

Durham


"We are going to be there tomorrow night

We see you like the mirror room

What gave us away it's definitely a lot of fun in there "

It certainly is

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By *ottsmaleMan
over a year ago

Wollaton

I will be there from 10:30 onwards, hopefully get to know a few more people better

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By * and B OP   Couple
over a year ago

Durham

Last night was a blast. Now for round 2 tonight.

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By *ornynottsbicplCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

We intend to make an appearance tonight.

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By *rett93Man
over a year ago

Mansfield

Hey all,

Possibly going to be attending Friday evening, I’ve attended once before as a couple pre covid days

I know some single men can often leave a few people feeling uncomfortable and I’d hope never to put anyone in that position, any Do’s and don’t’s for a single male first timer would be greatly appreciated

Have a good weekend all

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By *orny DeucesCouple
over a year ago

Mansfield


"Hey all,

Possibly going to be attending Friday evening, I’ve attended once before as a couple pre covid days

I know some single men can often leave a few people feeling uncomfortable and I’d hope never to put anyone in that position, any Do’s and don’t’s for a single male first timer would be greatly appreciated

Have a good weekend all "

River with no expectations.

Dress to impress, be polite, be engaging, socialise.

Follow the rules and your night will be a successful one.

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By *orny DeucesCouple
over a year ago

Mansfield

Autocorrect - arrive with no expectations

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By *rett93Man
over a year ago

Mansfield

Thank you very much.

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By *uffman14101Man
over a year ago

Derby

Hi all,

Thought to Chuck my query on this post planning on attending at the end of the month which I know there isn’t a themed party but wanted to know on average if the Friday is more popular than the Saturday.

Planning on going 30th of June or 1st July

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By *apperleymanMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

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By *apperleymanMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

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By *apperleymanMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Hi all,

Thought to Chuck my query on this post planning on attending at the end of the month which I know there isn’t a themed party but wanted to know on average if the Friday is more popular than the Saturday.

Planning on going 30th of June or 1st July"

As a rule non party Saturdays are more popular than Fridays. Not set in stone though.

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