First of all, decide what kind of club you'd like to visit. Would you prefer the spa-based one, where you dress down on arrival and have access to plenty of wet facilities or would you prefer the more night-club like, where you come in dressed to impress and maybe, eventually, dress down for the play areas/wet facilities? Spa-based clubs are usually open during the day and they can't guarantee good males to females and couples ratio as nobody has to book to go in. Nightclub-style ones do try and keep good ratio by either limiting single men numbers or by completely not allowing them on certain nights (usually Saturday nights in most clubs).
Once you know what type of clubs you'd prefer, choose the area, how far you'd be prepared to travel. Have a look at club reviews in that area, see which one(s) sound best to you. Next, check the chosen club(s) website(s) to see their opening hours and what events they have on. Some clubs offer a virtual tour, too, so you could familiarise yourself with the layout of the club before going. Decide which day/event you'd like to attend, then contact the club if the membership is required prior to attending. Make sure you are aware of the dress code and whether the club is fully licenced or not. Also, do check if you need to pay by cash- most clubs do offer card payments but there are still some that are cash only.
Once you know which event you'd like to attend, have a look on the forum if there is any chatter about that event as that would allow you to see who is planning on coming, and maybe make some connections beforehand.
On the day, make sure you have ID on you (as most clubs require one on first visit), and go with no expectations. Staff would normally give you a tour of the club, as well as make you aware of any rules (main one: don't touch unless invited to). And try to enjoy yourselves, however you see fit, even if it's "just" sitting at the bar or being on the dance floor |