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"We was just wondering if there are any clubs or party profiles on here that host fun sessions for Asian/Desi people to play together??? " Not when you don’t do full swap lol what ever the Personal belief are Swinging parties every one plays and join in | |||
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" Not when you don’t do full swap lol what ever the Personal belief are Swinging parties every one plays and join in " That’s absolute horseshit. You don’t get to decide how people navigate swinging and non monogamy! | |||
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"We was just wondering if there are any clubs or party profiles on here that host fun sessions for Asian/Desi people to play together??? Not when you don’t do full swap lol what ever the Personal belief are Swinging parties every one plays and join in That’s not strictly true. " Off course it’s not but what kind of swinging party it will be of no one played with no one or even interested to do that and before people get on the bandwagon of giving strong opinion about comment and essence of swinging is people opening themselves up to new experiences otherwise bedrooms are good enough for sex | |||
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" Not when you don’t do full swap lol what ever the Personal belief are Swinging parties every one plays and join in That’s absolute horseshit. You don’t get to decide how people navigate swinging and non monogamy! " This . Couldn’t agree more. It’s quite clear that OP is looking for extra female to spice up their sex lives, nothing wrong with that. Not everyone plays on swinging parties and people attend these for all sorts of reasons. No one should be put under pressure to play or perform a sexual activity which they aren’t comfortable with others. We all have personal beliefs and I think for majority of us is “consent” is on top of the list. | |||
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"We was just wondering if there are any clubs or party profiles on here that host fun sessions for Asian/Desi people to play together??? Not when you don’t do full swap lol what ever the Personal belief are Swinging parties every one plays and join in That’s not strictly true. Off course it’s not but what kind of swinging party it will be of no one played with no one or even interested to do that and before people get on the bandwagon of giving strong opinion about comment and essence of swinging is people opening themselves up to new experiences otherwise bedrooms are good enough for sex " So when you go to a swinging party you expect everyone to be available to play? I assume that you'd play with other men then, because after all the essence of swinging is people opening themselves up to new experiences? Or is that different? | |||
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"We was just wondering if there are any clubs or party profiles on here that host fun sessions for Asian/Desi people to play together??? Not when you don’t do full swap lol what ever the Personal belief are Swinging parties every one plays and join in That’s not strictly true. Off course it’s not but what kind of swinging party it will be of no one played with no one or even interested to do that and before people get on the bandwagon of giving strong opinion about comment and essence of swinging is people opening themselves up to new experiences otherwise bedrooms are good enough for sex " Huge difference between "No one playing" and "Everyone playing" as we're sure you're aware. Been to plenty of parties where couples / singles have just watched or stayed with their own partners. | |||
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"We was just wondering if there are any clubs or party profiles on here that host fun sessions for Asian/Desi people to play together??? Not when you don’t do full swap lol what ever the Personal belief are Swinging parties every one plays and join in That’s not strictly true. Off course it’s not but what kind of swinging party it will be of no one played with no one or even interested to do that and before people get on the bandwagon of giving strong opinion about comment and essence of swinging is people opening themselves up to new experiences otherwise bedrooms are good enough for sex " Huge difference between "No one playing" and "Everyone playing" as we're sure you're aware. Been to plenty of parties where couples / singles have just watched or stayed with their own partners. | |||
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"We was just wondering if there are any clubs or party profiles on here that host fun sessions for Asian/Desi people to play together??? Not when you don’t do full swap lol what ever the Personal belief are Swinging parties every one plays and join in That’s not strictly true. Off course it’s not but what kind of swinging party it will be of no one played with no one or even interested to do that and before people get on the bandwagon of giving strong opinion about comment and essence of swinging is people opening themselves up to new experiences otherwise bedrooms are good enough for sex So when you go to a swinging party you expect everyone to be available to play? I assume that you'd play with other men then, because after all the essence of swinging is people opening themselves up to new experiences? Or is that different? " Not even sure how to answer that one so I leave it does not worth the time of answering this one | |||
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"We was just wondering if there are any clubs or party profiles on here that host fun sessions for Asian/Desi people to play together??? Not when you don’t do full swap lol what ever the Personal belief are Swinging parties every one plays and join in That’s not strictly true. Off course it’s not but what kind of swinging party it will be of no one played with no one or even interested to do that and before people get on the bandwagon of giving strong opinion about comment and essence of swinging is people opening themselves up to new experiences otherwise bedrooms are good enough for sex Huge difference between "No one playing" and "Everyone playing" as we're sure you're aware. Been to plenty of parties where couples / singles have just watched or stayed with their own partners. " Yes off course they have and those are not parties people remember but any how bit bored with the conversation not sure why general comment feels like personal attack to people | |||
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" Not when you don’t do full swap lol what ever the Personal belief are Swinging parties every one plays and join in That’s absolute horseshit. You don’t get to decide how people navigate swinging and non monogamy! This . Couldn’t agree more. It’s quite clear that OP is looking for extra female to spice up their sex lives, nothing wrong with that. Not everyone plays on swinging parties and people attend these for all sorts of reasons. No one should be put under pressure to play or perform a sexual activity which they aren’t comfortable with others. We all have personal beliefs and I think for majority of us is “consent” is on top of the list." And which part of message said people should not ask for Consent . | |||
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"We was just wondering if there are any clubs or party profiles on here that host fun sessions for Asian/Desi people to play together??? Not when you don’t do full swap lol what ever the Personal belief are Swinging parties every one plays and join in " I'm pretty sure that people do what they decide is right for themselves and not everyone plays and joins in. I've never noticed that myself. | |||
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"We was just wondering if there are any clubs or party profiles on here that host fun sessions for Asian/Desi people to play together??? Not when you don’t do full swap lol what ever the Personal belief are Swinging parties every one plays and join in That’s not strictly true. Off course it’s not but what kind of swinging party it will be of no one played with no one or even interested to do that and before people get on the bandwagon of giving strong opinion about comment and essence of swinging is people opening themselves up to new experiences otherwise bedrooms are good enough for sex Huge difference between "No one playing" and "Everyone playing" as we're sure you're aware. Been to plenty of parties where couples / singles have just watched or stayed with their own partners. Yes off course they have and those are not parties people remember but any how bit bored with the conversation not sure why general comment feels like personal attack to people " So, people don’t agree with your comment and you become “bored” and feel like you’re being attacked? Ha ha ha | |||
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"We was just wondering if there are any clubs or party profiles on here that host fun sessions for Asian/Desi people to play together??? Not when you don’t do full swap lol what ever the Personal belief are Swinging parties every one plays and join in That’s not strictly true. Off course it’s not but what kind of swinging party it will be of no one played with no one or even interested to do that and before people get on the bandwagon of giving strong opinion about comment and essence of swinging is people opening themselves up to new experiences otherwise bedrooms are good enough for sex Huge difference between "No one playing" and "Everyone playing" as we're sure you're aware. Been to plenty of parties where couples / singles have just watched or stayed with their own partners. Yes off course they have and those are not parties people remember but any how bit bored with the conversation not sure why general comment feels like personal attack to people So, people don’t agree with your comment and you become “bored” and feel like you’re being attacked? Ha ha ha " Bored of people jumping on bandwagon and happy to deal with things if I felt attacked It’s easy be a keyboard warrior .its a comment should not create a big discussion but happy to carry one | |||
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"We was just wondering if there are any clubs or party profiles on here that host fun sessions for Asian/Desi people to play together??? Not when you don’t do full swap lol what ever the Personal belief are Swinging parties every one plays and join in That’s not strictly true. Off course it’s not but what kind of swinging party it will be of no one played with no one or even interested to do that and before people get on the bandwagon of giving strong opinion about comment and essence of swinging is people opening themselves up to new experiences otherwise bedrooms are good enough for sex Huge difference between "No one playing" and "Everyone playing" as we're sure you're aware. Been to plenty of parties where couples / singles have just watched or stayed with their own partners. Yes off course they have and those are not parties people remember but any how bit bored with the conversation not sure why general comment feels like personal attack to people So, people don’t agree with your comment and you become “bored” and feel like you’re being attacked? Ha ha ha Bored of people jumping on bandwagon and happy to deal with things if I felt attacked It’s easy be a keyboard warrior .its a comment should not create a big discussion but happy to carry one " Bored, but still replying | |||
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"We was just wondering if there are any clubs or party profiles on here that host fun sessions for Asian/Desi people to play together??? Not when you don’t do full swap lol what ever the Personal belief are Swinging parties every one plays and join in That’s not strictly true. Off course it’s not but what kind of swinging party it will be of no one played with no one or even interested to do that and before people get on the bandwagon of giving strong opinion about comment and essence of swinging is people opening themselves up to new experiences otherwise bedrooms are good enough for sex Huge difference between "No one playing" and "Everyone playing" as we're sure you're aware. Been to plenty of parties where couples / singles have just watched or stayed with their own partners. Yes off course they have and those are not parties people remember but any how bit bored with the conversation not sure why general comment feels like personal attack to people So, people don’t agree with your comment and you become “bored” and feel like you’re being attacked? Ha ha ha Bored of people jumping on bandwagon and happy to deal with things if I felt attacked It’s easy be a keyboard warrior .its a comment should not create a big discussion but happy to carry one Bored, but still replying " Yeah Never give up never surrender and live long and prosper lol | |||
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"We was just wondering if there are any clubs or party profiles on here that host fun sessions for Asian/Desi people to play together??? Not when you don’t do full swap lol what ever the Personal belief are Swinging parties every one plays and join in That’s not strictly true. Off course it’s not but what kind of swinging party it will be of no one played with no one or even interested to do that and before people get on the bandwagon of giving strong opinion about comment and essence of swinging is people opening themselves up to new experiences otherwise bedrooms are good enough for sex So when you go to a swinging party you expect everyone to be available to play? I assume that you'd play with other men then, because after all the essence of swinging is people opening themselves up to new experiences? Or is that different? Not even sure how to answer that one so I leave it does not worth the time of answering this one " So you recognise that people should recognise your preferences while dismissing people who don't match yours? | |||
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"We was just wondering if there are any clubs or party profiles on here that host fun sessions for Asian/Desi people to play together??? Not when you don’t do full swap lol what ever the Personal belief are Swinging parties every one plays and join in That’s not strictly true. Off course it’s not but what kind of swinging party it will be of no one played with no one or even interested to do that and before people get on the bandwagon of giving strong opinion about comment and essence of swinging is people opening themselves up to new experiences otherwise bedrooms are good enough for sex Huge difference between "No one playing" and "Everyone playing" as we're sure you're aware. Been to plenty of parties where couples / singles have just watched or stayed with their own partners. Yes off course they have and those are not parties people remember but any how bit bored with the conversation not sure why general comment feels like personal attack to people So, people don’t agree with your comment and you become “bored” and feel like you’re being attacked? Ha ha ha Bored of people jumping on bandwagon and happy to deal with things if I felt attacked It’s easy be a keyboard warrior .its a comment should not create a big discussion but happy to carry one Bored, but still replying Yeah Never give up never surrender and live long and prosper lol " Oh no. Not again. Just clicked the green Arrow | |||
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"We was just wondering if there are any clubs or party profiles on here that host fun sessions for Asian/Desi people to play together??? Not when you don’t do full swap lol what ever the Personal belief are Swinging parties every one plays and join in That’s not strictly true. Off course it’s not but what kind of swinging party it will be of no one played with no one or even interested to do that and before people get on the bandwagon of giving strong opinion about comment and essence of swinging is people opening themselves up to new experiences otherwise bedrooms are good enough for sex Huge difference between "No one playing" and "Everyone playing" as we're sure you're aware. Been to plenty of parties where couples / singles have just watched or stayed with their own partners. Yes off course they have and those are not parties people remember but any how bit bored with the conversation not sure why general comment feels like personal attack to people So, people don’t agree with your comment and you become “bored” and feel like you’re being attacked? Ha ha ha Bored of people jumping on bandwagon and happy to deal with things if I felt attacked It’s easy be a keyboard warrior .its a comment should not create a big discussion but happy to carry one Bored, but still replying Yeah Never give up never surrender and live long and prosper lol Oh no. Not again. Just clicked the green Arrow " Green | |||
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"We was just wondering if there are any clubs or party profiles on here that host fun sessions for Asian/Desi people to play together??? " I would suggest a postcode with a high percentage of Asian/Desi populations would have clubs for such a thing. Maybe look at or around Birmingham. I know of many people who only play together but like to voyeur or only want females to join them… so they attend parties on single women and couple nights only. | |||
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"We was just wondering if there are any clubs or party profiles on here that host fun sessions for Asian/Desi people to play together??? " They do happen, just need to keep on eye on the meets when they get posted. Else host one yourselves in a club. | |||
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"Ohhh this sounds fun if it was too happen " Yeahh it does right!! I wish some club could arrange it xx | |||
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"We was just wondering if there are any clubs or party profiles on here that host fun sessions for Asian/Desi people to play together??? Not when you don’t do full swap lol what ever the Personal belief are Swinging parties every one plays and join in " Completely disagree!! You can choose who you play with!!! If there is a women that feels like they eant to join a couple they can.... if only the women want to play from 2 couples they can... you dont have to full swap | |||
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"Ok other than the counter arguments going on in this forum. The topic made by the OP is quite itriguing to me as am a desi lad myself.. Ill be well up for it!" Its harder for some desi men to find meet so it benefits everyone | |||
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"So back to the main point ……are we having a Desi party? " Would have to find event that could host | |||
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"Chatted to a few asian people and they had also queried if there was an Asian swinging event? I have never come across it. One way around it is that say every month a normal swinging event in a club is selected and Asian can go to that swinging event..then there would be a chance to meet and network with other asians rather than a specific asian swinging event. Just a suggestion " . I think this is a good idea.Say for example the same way some clubs the 3rd Saturday of the month is BMFC or a BBW event perhaps a day or time of the month could be for Asians swingers and maybe add to Asian swingers and their admirers.These are no more than suggestions.I do remember 4-5 years ago on the events page seeing parties for Asian couples in the Harrow area and I think a events company called Pink Oysters or Oysters doing some sort of parties as well. | |||
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"Indianlux ..I think you should " Thing is we don’t know how to and where too plan? For eg : if we take a pub hire then they won’t allow to play our music or cater Indian cuisine. So has to get a private hall and catering which will add to cost and not sure if people would be willing to pay 15 or 20£ pp. | |||
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"I think the easiest way is to meet in a swinging club during one of their general swinging event and on here add a ad that it would be good to meet some like minded asian as well who can make it to that event." But there are many Asian cpls who do not want to venture out to clubs due to being discrete ,may come for such private events. Who knows | |||
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"I think the easiest way is to meet in a swinging club during one of their general swinging event and on here add a ad that it would be good to meet some like minded asian as well who can make it to that event. But there are many Asian cpls who do not want to venture out to clubs due to being discrete ,may come for such private events. Who knows " Clubs are as discreet as any other places. But if you want to do your own event, post in the Meet Requests and Parties section to see what interest you get and take it from there. There will be a certain amount that won't turn up as there always is with events. But no harm in starting with a handful and building up in time. | |||
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"We was just wondering if there are any clubs or party profiles on here that host fun sessions for Asian/Desi people to play together??? Not when you don’t do full swap lol what ever the Personal belief are Swinging parties every one plays and join in " No not at all, you can attend and choose your level of involvement from nothing to no holes barred orgy, but its your choice. | |||
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"I think the easiest way is to meet in a swinging club during one of their general swinging event and on here add a ad that it would be good to meet some like minded asian as well who can make it to that event. But there are many Asian cpls who do not want to venture out to clubs due to being discrete ,may come for such private events. Who knows " That’s correct - my global swinging experience says most of the couples, singles from Indian subcontinent are usually playing outside of clubs with their trusted friends. I can tell you for sure from my US experience, and it was quite surprising, so this is a well established club in Atlanta, I met a mixed race couple, Indian wife and white American husband. They were in lifestyle but outside of the club, it was their first visit, we met at meet and greet area, they told me about their experiences, and by the end of the conversation they invited me to their house on Friday evening, they said arranging a small party and I should come over, so I went. Their house was huge and beautiful with huge swimming pool. I was kind of early, and except one another Indian couple no one was there..but to my surprise..within next 1 hr, there were 18 india couples and 3 mixed race couples with Indian female partners. We all dirty danced, lots of groping, all consensual..and later very steamy sex in and around swimming pool…people from all walks of life..doctors, lawyers, business owners and techies…just enjoyed pure filth..later I chatted with a few folks over nibbles area…they said to enjoying this lifestyle very very discreetly, just arranging meets through WhatsApp or telegrams | |||
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"Going to revive this Thread!!! How many Desi's would be interested..... MEN, WOMEN ANS COUPLES.... COMMENT DOWN BELOW MAYBE if theres enough interest someone of us could arrange it for the benefit of the whole desi community on fab.... as there are some for the first time feel more comfortable from people in their own culture/backgrounds " I would be interested | |||
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