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"We have 2 local clubs, pandora and quest. But we find pandora is better and bigger with plenty of rooms! One of the best things about clubs is socialising with like minded people. You get some really down to earth people! " I’ve heard good things about Pandora! I often travel for work so good to hear recommendations from all over  | |||
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"There’s the recent thread for pet peeves when visiting a club, but to balance it out… What do you enjoy most about going? What’s your favourite club and why? Any tips for club newbies?" Goes sometimes with partner to clubs/parties. Best thin is just easy to meet lots of people and engage sexually in a more casual manner. Some people use clubs almost like meeting privately - meet, chat, get connection, get private room, have extended play. We love clubs because don't have to do that. Possible to chat briefly start fucking, or wander into an orgy and join in, just bump into somebody and have fun. And the fun can be brief snippets. Privately we like full swap and don't really meet anybody who doesn't but in a club/party a little bit of kissing and soft play for 5 mins is fun Last time we went somewhere we'd had lots of fun and just sat down alone for my partner to give me a blow job. We'd actually sat in somebody's space and they arrived, watched us for a few minutes and ended up joining in for 5 minutes including me getting a wonderful blow with the lady swallowing everything. It was a wonderful impromptu way to end the night in a way not possible through normal private meets.
The other plus is that many people might be fun for a brief encounter but not for longer necessarily. Attractiveness is less of an issue if brief Think I've had fun with some people lot more attractive than me that would not have been possible in normal situation.
So my biggest tip is to approach clubs/parties differently from the private meet mindset and think of it as enjoying one big perfect meal with a great main course and more as having tapas with lots of yummy dishes. | |||
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"Cupids - love the dress down policy - safe space for all - done up a few rooms - variety of events with more details on the website - groups chats before events. I tend to rock up - groups of single ladies - easy transport links from city centre Clubs near you op look like a vibe "I’ve heard good things about both the clubs near me but think I might feel more comfortable going to one out of town so happy to look at other options | |||
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"There’s the recent thread for pet peeves when visiting a club, but to balance it out… What do you enjoy most about going? What’s your favourite club and why? Any tips for club newbies? Goes sometimes with partner to clubs/parties. Best thin is just easy to meet lots of people and engage sexually in a more casual manner. Some people use clubs almost like meeting privately - meet, chat, get connection, get private room, have extended play. We love clubs because don't have to do that. Possible to chat briefly start fucking, or wander into an orgy and join in, just bump into somebody and have fun. And the fun can be brief snippets. Privately we like full swap and don't really meet anybody who doesn't but in a club/party a little bit of kissing and soft play for 5 mins is fun Last time we went somewhere we'd had lots of fun and just sat down alone for my partner to give me a blow job. We'd actually sat in somebody's space and they arrived, watched us for a few minutes and ended up joining in for 5 minutes including me getting a wonderful blow with the lady swallowing everything. It was a wonderful impromptu way to end the night in a way not possible through normal private meets.
The other plus is that many people might be fun for a brief encounter but not for longer necessarily. Attractiveness is less of an issue if brief Think I've had fun with some people lot more attractive than me that would not have been possible in normal situation.
So my biggest tip is to approach clubs/parties differently from the private meet mindset and think of it as enjoying one big perfect meal with a great main course and more as having tapas with lots of yummy dishes. "Great advice thank you! Sounds like you’ve had some great experiences | |||
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"There’s the recent thread for pet peeves when visiting a club, but to balance it out… What do you enjoy most about going? What’s your favourite club and why? Any tips for club newbies?" Cupids in Manchester, Pandora's in Leeds, Chams in the midlands, T*wnhouse in Wirral. All great clubs. The best thing about clubs it the social atmosphere on an event night! Advice for newbies... Get into a kik or telegram group as the we help break the ice and you'll feel lke you already know people. | |||
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"There’s the recent thread for pet peeves when visiting a club, but to balance it out… What do you enjoy most about going? What’s your favourite club and why? Any tips for club newbies? Cupids in Manchester, Pandora's in Leeds, Chams in the midlands, T*wnhouse in Wirral. All great clubs. The best thing about clubs it the social atmosphere on an event night! Advice for newbies... Get into a kik or telegram group as the we help break the ice and you'll feel lke you already know people. " Lots of recommendations there! Thank you! | |||
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"There’s the recent thread for pet peeves when visiting a club, but to balance it out… What do you enjoy most about going? What’s your favourite club and why? Any tips for club newbies?" Great question, after reading all the questions seeking the negatives i was hoping someone would look at the flip side.To answer: The opportunity to meet new people, to be naked and relaxed, to chat and flirt and be part of a sexually charged environment and to use the facilities provided (love a hot tub, steam room or sauna and also the excitement of a cinema, dark room or glory holes.) Ive been to (quite) a few and my favorites so far are Cupids for the party feel, Ab fabs for the sheer size, daytime opening and great spa facilities and Hellfire for being compact and intimate and friendly. Advice, If you are a single male, smile, say hello and chat whereevwr possible. Go to meet people first and foremost. If you are a couple, be kind, be friendly be brave. | |||
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"There’s the recent thread for pet peeves when visiting a club, but to balance it out… What do you enjoy most about going? What’s your favourite club and why? Any tips for club newbies?" With regards to negatives they are few and far between, and when there is a post about them you would be best realising that all the stories are a collection of negatives and it's not like this every visit. Much the same as best bits, not every night is going to be amazing. That being said the best bits for me is seeing so many like-minded people all gathered together in one venue, and while it's not always the case you may play with people every time you go, you are almost certainly going to have an interesting night. Other bits about clubs are the endless potentials, a prime example thanks to one fateful evening I met my now wife, so who knows what could happen. My favourite club was the old Abfab however the new one is almost as good, why I like it is 1) it's where I met my wife 2) it's always had a nice group of people who attend. 3) swimming pool and hot tubs. Advice to nubies, figure out what you are wanting, find the club you wish to attend, check the website and see if they have a night that caters to what you want. Lastly never ever expect anything to happen. | |||
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