FabSwingers.com forum: Plucking up the courage to go to a club

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be respectful, polite and sociable. Do not be a part of the wanking dead crew.

Go with no expectations.

By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

Recognise that clubs are "zero expectation" but maximum opportunity. Be fit, friendly and unfailingly respectful ... but feel free to show interest.

By *ainbows_can_be_metal_tooCouple
over a year ago

Darlington

Be well groomed, smell nice and up for a chat, have zero expectations, it's a club not a brothel.even couples that go don't play every time.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Practice by going to a vanilla nightclub or pub on your own and making polite conversation with strangers.

By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Chudleigh

We’d suggest go to a smaller Club on a quieter night, assume nothing will happen but make an effort to look nice. Do not get d*unk! Smile and make eye contact. Do not start conversation with “do you fancy a shag”, talk to people and remember that if you are talking to a couple talk to both of them - please try to ask open questions and listen to the answers! We once had a guy talk at us for 20 mins before we could get away - he just talked & talked!

Swingers Clubs are more friendly than Vanilla Clubs and lets face it everyone there is hoping to have a good time. Just remember that it is likely that you will not fancy everyone there and they might not fancy you. But be friendly and recognise you might need to go a few times, but you can have a whole lot of fun.

M has been to a few Clubs on his own to check them out and always enjoyed himself chatting with people even though he didn’t play. Several times the offer had been there to play and he declined

& I believe him!

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any hints or tips for your first time visiting a club? It all seems very daunting:p"

Amigos in Leicester hold newbie day on Thursday no membership or verification needed xx