FabSwingers.com forum: First time MOTD

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi guys I’m a single guy going to his first MOTD at cupids.

I need advice on how to approach things. How do you approach people you’d like to have fun with?

What’s the protocol ?

How do you know if a couple want you to join in?

Any help / advice would be great

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By *jleedsCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Can we be daft and ask what motd is?

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By *ooo wet tight hornyWoman
over a year ago

lancashire

"Can we be daft and ask what motd is?"

My first thoughts were....Match of the Day...

hahaha!!

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By *jleedsCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Us too

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Can we be daft and ask what motd is?"

More On Tuesday Daytime….it’s a regular event they hold during the daytime, on a Tuesday!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go with no expectations of play. Don't stand around wanking. Be a gentleman, chat to people and make friends

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By *enusandmarsCouple
over a year ago

Buryish

As a couple who don't really play with single guys in clubs, we generally avoid events that single guys are at - we don't like the vibe where conga lines of chaps follow your every move.

However, we attended the last motd and it was alright.

My advice would be to just be respectful and act exactly the same as you would if you were on your own in the pub. Pretend everyone I'd dressed and just say hello to people like you normally would.

Perhaps worthwhile seeking out other single guys (via the event thread) and seeing if anyone wants to meet up there with you? It's always better to know you've someone to chat with so you don't stand out as alone.

Regards knowing who to play with, literally just play it by ear. I'm quite sure people will make it clear to you, I asked a guy straight out if he'd like to fuck my wife

Don't expect sex and I don't think you'll go too far wrong.

Last word, there was a guy when we there who seemed to think that squeezing his knob through his boxers was a signal he wanted to play. EVERY time I saw him he was doing this weird 2 second knob squeeze. I didnt think it came across as a signal, more like he had some kind of medical condition. Not sexy in the slightest

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks!!

I won’t be doing the knob squeeze !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a couple who don't really play with single guys in clubs, we generally avoid events that single guys are at - we don't like the vibe where conga lines of chaps follow your every move.

However, we attended the last motd and it was alright.

My advice would be to just be respectful and act exactly the same as you would if you were on your own in the pub. Pretend everyone I'd dressed and just say hello to people like you normally would.

Regards knowing who to play with, literally just play it by ear. I'm quite sure people will make it clear to you, I asked a guy straight out if he'd like to fuck my wife

Don't expect sex and I don't think you'll go too far wrong.

To be fair I've also witnessed the 'knob squeeze' whilst in a club with a friend. I just assumed he was trying to pull himself back discreetly under his towel to be fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks!!

I won’t be doing the knob squeeze !!!! "

Honestly just don't overthink it. If a door is left open then a couple/or more are happy to be viewed. Closed door signals don't open it... Strike up a convo as you would in a usual bar/club. If someone wants to invite you to play in a room they won't be shy... Just go with the flow

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By *im RoyleCouple
over a year ago

chester

"Can we be daft and ask what motd is?"

Gary Lineker

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By *ecret fabbersCouple
over a year ago

Castleford

Just be yourself and enjoy chatting to others.

It’s dress down so wear boxers. Some wear shirts, dressing gowns, slippers and other things…

. Don’t do any of this!

Also, don’t be shy. When the host says “is this your first time?”, say “yes”. She’ll show you around and no doubt you’ll bump into people later and the ice is broken. Plus you know the rooms! Don’t want to walk into a couples only room by accident.

Have fun!

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