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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello people

Very much wanting to pop my cherry at a club and any club will do

Would like advice really as to what day and where is best

I am sociable love banter it’s not all about the sex I’m happy to mix. HOWEVER I do hear there are cliques in clubs and I would hate this

I’m very respectable honest and laid back I think I would find it hard to approach first off as it’s new so women and couples actually approach single men or do they have to do the work themselves I just don’t want to look like a predator and out people off

Kind regards

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

attend a club and have zero expectations - then anything you achieve is a seriously exciting bonus x

ps maybe a greedy girl night is best

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By *iinkMan
over a year ago

enniscorthy

There's a huge difference between lurking in the corner and making the effort and mingling. I have found all the clubs inviting and virtually everyone I have met accommodating and up for a chat.. approach it like any other social night, if you have a connection or vibe then it will be obvious and things can then move on..

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields


"attend a club and have zero expectations - then anything you achieve is a seriously exciting bonus x

ps maybe a greedy girl night is best "

Definitely second this. Greedy girls nights work well because fewer couples and the ones who are there are actively expecting (and wanting) single men there.

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

I would absolutely recommend Club Play in Blackpool. You would be looked after with a full tour. The staff are amazing can’t do enough for you.

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By *irty filthy milfWoman
over a year ago

somewhere only i know!

Another vote for Club Play, you’ll get a tour on arrival, have the rules explained and introduced to other guests, the club has a great social area and you can now stay dressed upstairs till 10pm, if you want to know more feel free to DM me xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"attend a club and have zero expectations - then anything you achieve is a seriously exciting bonus x

ps maybe a greedy girl night is best "

Brill what is exactly greedy girl night

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's a huge difference between lurking in the corner and making the effort and mingling. I have found all the clubs inviting and virtually everyone I have met accommodating and up for a chat.. approach it like any other social night, if you have a connection or vibe then it will be obvious and things can then move on.. "

Thanks just don’t wanna approach and then be looked down at or spoken back to in a rude way etd may knock confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being relaxed as you can be and being social will win the day when you go to a club. The people that I have met at clubs, have been friendly and welcoming, especially when I’ve said it was my first time there.

Newbie nights are a good way to go, for your first night. I go to Townhouse, Wirral. They have regular Newbie nights

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By *engallancerMan
over a year ago

Derby

Greedy girl is Girls up for gang bangs and lots of cock

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
over a year ago

Middle England

If you do attend a club just go with an open mind and no expectations. If you have reasonable social skills then there's no reason to worry.

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields


"Greedy girl is Girls up for gang bangs and lots of cock"

But worth clarifying it's not a free for all. All the usual rules still apply.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I would absolutely recommend Club Play in Blackpool. You would be looked after with a full tour. The staff are amazing can’t do enough for you. "

That wasn’t my experience as a single guy in Club Play…

All clubs have cliques.

Best to visit as a couple if you can, blokes appear more ‘safe’ in the company of a female.

It is rare for someone to approach a single guy in a club, unless it’s another single guy looking for someone to chat with

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields


"I would absolutely recommend Club Play in Blackpool. You would be looked after with a full tour. The staff are amazing can’t do enough for you.

That wasn’t my experience as a single guy in Club Play…

All clubs have cliques.

Best to visit as a couple if you can, blokes appear more ‘safe’ in the company of a female.

It is rare for someone to approach a single guy in a club, unless it’s another single guy looking for someone to chat with "

Get yourself to Shhh in Newcastle. Always single guys there, very often their first visit and they are always included, if they try to join in conversation, one of the greatest things about this club is the huge communal bar table, you need to actively exclude yourself in all honesty.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I would absolutely recommend Club Play in Blackpool. You would be looked after with a full tour. The staff are amazing can’t do enough for you.

That wasn’t my experience as a single guy in Club Play…

All clubs have cliques.

Best to visit as a couple if you can, blokes appear more ‘safe’ in the company of a female.

It is rare for someone to approach a single guy in a club, unless it’s another single guy looking for someone to chat with

Get yourself to Shhh in Newcastle. Always single guys there, very often their first visit and they are always included, if they try to join in conversation, one of the greatest things about this club is the huge communal bar table, you need to actively exclude yourself in all honesty.

"

Thank you for the positive reply! I have been thinking of having a look in Shh, did someone say parking at the station is the best idea?

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By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago

Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me

I like club play for the fact it includes everybody and I've sure seen the single males playing couples tend to actively look for single males x

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By *bwlady123Woman
over a year ago

private

The attic is a perfect first time club no membership fees really reasonably priced and I everyone mingles. Party nights are the best nights to go on which is the last Saturday of each month.

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields


"I would absolutely recommend Club Play in Blackpool. You would be looked after with a full tour. The staff are amazing can’t do enough for you.

That wasn’t my experience as a single guy in Club Play…

All clubs have cliques.

Best to visit as a couple if you can, blokes appear more ‘safe’ in the company of a female.

It is rare for someone to approach a single guy in a club, unless it’s another single guy looking for someone to chat with

Get yourself to Shhh in Newcastle. Always single guys there, very often their first visit and they are always included, if they try to join in conversation, one of the greatest things about this club is the huge communal bar table, you need to actively exclude yourself in all honesty.

Thank you for the positive reply! I have been thinking of having a look in Shh, did someone say parking at the station is the best idea? "

Not really, this is your best option.

Walk down the hill and the club is above the Tipsy Cow pub. Depending what day you do, you may need to use the back door which is round the corner.

https://maps.app.goo.gl/hyAouVRNiFU91ac96

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I would absolutely recommend Club Play in Blackpool. You would be looked after with a full tour. The staff are amazing can’t do enough for you.

That wasn’t my experience as a single guy in Club Play…

All clubs have cliques.

Best to visit as a couple if you can, blokes appear more ‘safe’ in the company of a female.

It is rare for someone to approach a single guy in a club, unless it’s another single guy looking for someone to chat with

Get yourself to Shhh in Newcastle. Always single guys there, very often their first visit and they are always included, if they try to join in conversation, one of the greatest things about this club is the huge communal bar table, you need to actively exclude yourself in all honesty.

Thank you for the positive reply! I have been thinking of having a look in Shh, did someone say parking at the station is the best idea?

Not really, this is your best option.

Walk down the hill and the club is above the Tipsy Cow pub. Depending what day you do, you may need to use the back door which is round the corner.

https://maps.app.goo.gl/hyAouVRNiFU91ac96"

Gotcha! Cheers

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

Who is going Down and Dirty on Saturday??

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames


"I like club play for the fact it includes everybody and I've sure seen the single males playing couples tend to actively look for single males x"
we agree x

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By *irty filthy milfWoman
over a year ago

somewhere only i know!


"I like club play for the fact it includes everybody and I've sure seen the single males playing couples tend to actively look for single males x we agree x"

You get out of a club night what you put into it though and best advice is to mingle even play a game of pool even if you can’t play it’s an ice breaker xx

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