FabSwingers.com forum: First timers

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all,

We have had quite a lot of swinging experiences now but are yet to visit a club.

In our area the choice appears to be between the above. I'm not asking "which is best" because I'm sure that both have things that appeal to different people. Also both seem to be very well thought of generally.

I'm interested to know which club people who have attended both would recommend for club virgins. Also is any particular night of the week recommended? We'd rather it was a bit busy I expect.

I'm keen for it to be a good first experience as Ruby is a bit sketchy on the club idea to begin with. She has an image of hoards of old blokes following her around perving her.

We are just looking for a place to go with a sexy, relaxed atmosphere that we can enjoy ourselves in together and if there are others to join us then it's a lovely bonus!

We will be looking to make a visit as soon as possible so any advice on the matter by those in the know would be gratefully received.

Thanks

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Hi all,

We have had quite a lot of swinging experiences now but are yet to visit a club.

I'm interested to know which club people who have attended both would recommend for club virgins. Also is any particular night of the week recommended? We'd rather it was a bit busy I expect.

I'm keen for it to be a good first experience as Ruby is a bit sketchy on the club idea to begin with. She has an image of hoards of old blokes following her around perving her.

We are just looking for a place to go with a sexy, relaxed atmosphere that we can enjoy ourselves in together and if there are others to join us then it's a lovely bonus!

We will be looking to make a visit as soon as possible so any advice on the matter by those in the know would be gratefully received.

Thanks

this question comes up and i think the best answer is try both

but the one thing I will say is whichever you end up at... don't as a couple just sit in the corner and crouch like lemons....

the onus is still on you guys to go and talk to people rather the relying on people to come over and talk to you and that is very much a two way street...

with regards to club F,if you are going to give it a go, you may want to try a "non party" saturday night as a first time, where you can get a feel for the place,.. as on the party nights when it is really busy I have seen people come out with the "rabbits caught in the headlights" look....

hope that helps...

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey, if you're wanting to try a club then we would recommend a saturday night at either since saturdays are usually couples only as it can be a bit intimidating for your first time with loads of single men.

We cant really comment on Club F as we have only been the once and didnt think it was for us but we love Secrets, its a lot smaller than F but its a brilliant club and very friendly and welcoming :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love club f

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We love club f

We felt really unwelcome when we went to Club F. Although it is a lovely building with great facilities it wasnt as friendly as we were hoping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love club f we've been to a couple clubs around the county but none have come close to it. Never been to secrets so can't comment on it tho. Party nights are amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love both clubs there brill in their own way. We tend to go to clubf on a Saturday night an it can get quite busy. Single guys are to a minimum and are very friendly if your not interested simply say. We find that it is a very welcoming club and most of the people inside are lovely we have made some really good friends there.

Secrets is great and party nights are a busy night. Best nights we would say are a sat night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We love club f

We felt really unwelcome when we went to Club F. Although it is a lovely building with great facilities it wasnt as friendly as we were hoping

Maybe you went on the wrong day. A sat night is really good and most of the people in there are really friendly including us haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We love club f

We felt really unwelcome when we went to Club F. Although it is a lovely building with great facilities it wasnt as friendly as we were hoping

Maybe you went on the wrong day. A sat night is really good and most of the people in there are really friendly including us haha

Well we went to the under 30s night one thursday and it was quite clear to us that, because Im not 25 we werent wanted despite the fact Mr L is. We where also told that we couldnt come to a party night because of that

The club itself was lovely but the attitude of the staff really put us off so we wouldnt go back xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rang club f up for advice. Regarding acsses cos I av walking problems and tjey put fone down on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I rang club f up for advice. Regarding acsses cos I av walking problems and tjey put fone down on me"

Are you in a chair or just problems walking (sorry if that sounds a bit forward btw) but some clubs dont really have great access since a lot of the play rooms are upstairs ect..... Although it doesnt matter too much at secrets :P I would have been fuming though!! Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just can't walk that well/far

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First timers - Club F or Secrets?