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Couples who play together

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By *actilenorfolkgent OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich

How many couples go to club just to play together rather than with others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many couples go to club just to play together rather than with others"

We do, also to socialise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve been to clubs and just played with each other just depends on what mood we are in

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By *ohn8210tCouple
over a year ago

Warwick

We have too !

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By *adameGreyTV/TS
over a year ago

Renfrew


"How many couples go to club just to play together rather than with others

We do, also to socialise"

Hehe that's a shame you're both hot as fuck

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

We do if there is no one in that we click with, xxx

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I had a FWB. We never played with others. We were happy in our own little bubble.

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By *heSassyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

london

We always assume we’ll be playing together,

If we meet someone(s) we like that is a bonus and happens about 50% of the time in our limited experience.

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By *evilinherCouple
over a year ago

varied

We 99% of the time only play together. I only feel comfortable playing if my partner has someone to play with to.

It’s hard finding a 4 way attraction.

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By *addyandtheprincessCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham/Derby

We always play together at clubs. Not had the chance to play with others yet as not found anyone we click with. However we do always play in rooms where people can watch.

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By *addyandtheprincessCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham/Derby


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It’s hard finding a 4 way attraction."

Oh this is so so true

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

This is one of the reasons my partner and I are a little put off from clubs and some larger private parties too. Sometimes a very large chunk of the people have no intention of playing with anyone else - either just socialising or playing together. Obviously some might if the right people come along but a lot sometimes just point blank not going to with anybody else.

Each to their own but we find that boring and get no pleasure from watching others and having no chance of joining in. We know quite a few other experienced swinging couples who have got fed up with clubs and parties for this reason (and think it has become more common) and just arrange private play sessions instead.

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

Who is going to Down and Dirty on Saturday?

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By *iot58Couple
over a year ago

Southampton

We are always looking for new people to play with. Often play first (if there is a physical attraction) and talk later. After all we are here for sexy fun not necessarily to make lifelong friends (although that does happen). Abfab tomorrow then chill out in Kestrels on Sunday. Cum and find us.

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By *addyandtheprincessCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham/Derby


"This is one of the reasons my partner and I are a little put off from clubs and some larger private parties too. Sometimes a very large chunk of the people have no intention of playing with anyone else - either just socialising or playing together. Obviously some might if the right people come along but a lot sometimes just point blank not going to with anybody else.

Each to their own but we find that boring and get no pleasure from watching others and having no chance of joining in. We know quite a few other experienced swinging couples who have got fed up with clubs and parties for this reason (and think it has become more common) and just arrange private play sessions instead. "

What an incredibly bad take.

There is a thing call preference and maybe some couples are not ready yet. A club can be quite the sensory overload for some so first timers would want to wait.

For us and I know this with others from talking to other club goers they maybe out looking for something different. No single guy has a god given right with a couple just because he has paid an entrance fee. With that kind of thinking maybe find a local sort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is one of the reasons my partner and I are a little put off from clubs and some larger private parties too. Sometimes a very large chunk of the people have no intention of playing with anyone else - either just socialising or playing together. Obviously some might if the right people come along but a lot sometimes just point blank not going to with anybody else.

Each to their own but we find that boring and get no pleasure from watching others and having no chance of joining in. We know quite a few other experienced swinging couples who have got fed up with clubs and parties for this reason (and think it has become more common) and just arrange private play sessions instead. "

We have done both at clubs and have just as much fun when me and my husband have went into a private room just us.

We don’t do it for people to watch us that’s not our thing but everyone goes for different reasons.

Definitely never been bored though

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By *weetnjuicycoupleCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

Really depends on our mood tbh - we love to be watched sometimes- love to join in sometimes and other times it’s just the social experience

Each to their own - that’s what makes the lifestyle so great xx

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"This is one of the reasons my partner and I are a little put off from clubs and some larger private parties too. Sometimes a very large chunk of the people have no intention of playing with anyone else - either just socialising or playing together. Obviously some might if the right people come along but a lot sometimes just point blank not going to with anybody else.

Each to their own but we find that boring and get no pleasure from watching others and having no chance of joining in. We know quite a few other experienced swinging couples who have got fed up with clubs and parties for this reason (and think it has become more common) and just arrange private play sessions instead.

What an incredibly bad take.

There is a thing call preference and maybe some couples are not ready yet. A club can be quite the sensory overload for some so first timers would want to wait.

For us and I know this with others from talking to other club goers they maybe out looking for something different. No single guy has a god given right with a couple just because he has paid an entrance fee. With that kind of thinking maybe find a local sort.

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I was talking about my experience and preferences as a couple not single guy. However, you are right in that a couple also has no right given paid an entrance fee as well.

Of course everyone has a preference and of course many people are not ready yet. I was just saying this is how we (my partner and I) feel as more experienced swingers when the overwhelming number of people seem to have no intention of playing with others. Our preference in such situations is not to go as often as we might We know other experienced swinging couples who feel the same and used to go more but less these days for this reason. It's not a criticism of any individual but an observation of dynamics sometimes at clubs and big private house parties.

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Chudleigh


"We always assume we’ll be playing together,

If we meet someone(s) we like that is a bonus and happens about 50% of the time in our limited experience."

So agree with you, but you have a better ‘hit rate’ than us!

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

We find the environment sexy full stop, love to play with others or by ourselves to an audience and if some of that audience are hot and respectful they are invited to join.. Mrs

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By *raceAverageCouple
over a year ago

Preston

We only play together - love the social side of things and the whole feel of a club - watching, being watched etc - haven’t quite worked up to playing with others as yet

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By *raceAverageCouple
over a year ago

Preston


"We always play together at clubs. Not had the chance to play with others yet as not found anyone we click with. However we do always play in rooms where people can watch. "

This is exactly where we are with it all!! I’m open to it, hence why we started going, other half most definitely is but we haven’t quite got to that point as yet and aren’t even sure how to!! lol so we plod on playing together in open rooms and enjoy the excitement of the whole environment and if anything should eventually happen then amazing, if not I’m still one very happy lady

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

Depends what club and what night and what clientele turns up which you have no control over. We go out to play with others but don't always find the right people we'd choose to play with so sometimes we'll play together or sometimes just go home and have an early night.

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By *oshnbex30Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

We only play with Eachother

But love being watched

Love the social side of clubs

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By *ore4fundevonCouple
over a year ago

West Devon

We visited a few clubs on during our last term in the lifestyle and went with the mentality that we had to find someone to play with and felt let down/disappointed when we didn't and thought maybe clubs weren't for us.

After a lengthy break we're back and have come to the same conclusion, go for the social aspect and expect to play alone. Anything else is a bonus.

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By *ittle MonkeysCouple
over a year ago

Kimberley


"This is one of the reasons my partner and I are a little put off from clubs and some larger private parties too. Sometimes a very large chunk of the people have no intention of playing with anyone else - either just socialising or playing together. Obviously some might if the right people come along but a lot sometimes just point blank not going to with anybody else.

Each to their own but we find that boring and get no pleasure from watching others and having no chance of joining in. We know quite a few other experienced swinging couples who have got fed up with clubs and parties for this reason (and think it has become more common) and just arrange private play sessions instead. "

Hmmmmmm that’s a rough one to answer as I do

See it from your point of view. But, not everyone goes clubbing for the same reason and not everyone has the same tastes.

We love clubs as we love putting in a show. We are not adverse to playing with others but our kink is showing off. It’s a shame that others may think that makes us boring but that’s not the case, we are not exclusively dedicated to each other. We just get off on others watching us fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only play with the other half as we're into being watched.

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

NG 21


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It’s hard finding a 4 way attraction.

Oh this is so so true "

We'll 2nd that.

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By *annabarberaCouple
over a year ago

Staffs

We've done this before if we've not found anyone we have liked and we always had the best time

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
over a year ago

Middle England

We generally play together but nearly always in open rooms. We don't have any set plan and the interaction with others will just depend how the evening goes.

But as others have said finding a 4 way attraction isn't always that easy.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

Well we dont just go for the fun of it

If we haven't gone with someone we know , or caught someone's eye

Then we are happy enough to show everyone what they are missing lol

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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Northwest

We have no plans when attending a club. If play happens whether its with a single guy or a couple then its all good BUT equally if nothing happens we are happy just to play with each other .

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