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Alternatives to Le Boudoir for Saturday 4th March (rejected)

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By *heHodophileSlut OP   Woman
over a year ago

Guildford

So I'd been hoping to break into the club scene for the first time this weekend and was hoping to meet some lovely friends and Fab people at Le Boudoir on Saturday 4th March.

However, I've had my application rejected. I'm pretty gutted and having built up my confidence to attend alone as a single female, feel like I've taken a knock back.

Searching the forums it seems like a thing they do, despite the fact that I'm always well turned out.

So my question is, who is going out this Saturday and can recommend an alternative club which would welcome me?

Thanks all

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By *lirtyfortiesCouple
over a year ago

Horndean

Sorry, but how on earth did you get rejected??

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By *SocialsCouple
over a year ago

Stanford-le-Hope

Your welcome to join us at our Essex social truth or dare party at the amazing Monkey Buisness club

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

Wow, you got rejected??? There are plenty of other clubs that would welcome you with open arms. I normally go to Jaydees, going there this Friday for their bi night, as a single female. I feel safe there, know that staff would look after me as they always do, whenever I'm on my own or with a partner. I can't recommend Jaydees strongly enough. Not sure though how far you'd be prepared to travel.

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By *heHodophileSlut OP   Woman
over a year ago

Guildford


"Sorry, but how on earth did you get rejected?? "

Oversubscribed is the line I was given. But I don't buy that for the single female category, particularly after things I've now read on Fab!

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By *lirtyfortiesCouple
over a year ago

Horndean


"Sorry, but how on earth did you get rejected??

Oversubscribed is the line I was given. But I don't buy that for the single female category, particularly after things I've now read on Fab! "

You're always welcome to come out with me and my wife

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By *heHodophileSlut OP   Woman
over a year ago

Guildford


"Your welcome to join us at our Essex social truth or dare party at the amazing Monkey Buisness club"

Thank you! I'll look to see if it's doable. I don't mind travelling but reliant on public transport and need to check the trains further as seems there are engineering works

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By *SocialsCouple
over a year ago

Stanford-le-Hope


"Your welcome to join us at our Essex social truth or dare party at the amazing Monkey Buisness club

Thank you! I'll look to see if it's doable. I don't mind travelling but reliant on public transport and need to check the trains further as seems there are engineering works "

I be honest it would be a nightmare to get here by public transport

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By *heHodophileSlut OP   Woman
over a year ago

Guildford


"Wow, you got rejected??? There are plenty of other clubs that would welcome you with open arms. I normally go to Jaydees, going there this Friday for their bi night, as a single female. I feel safe there, know that staff would look after me as they always do, whenever I'm on my own or with a partner. I can't recommend Jaydees strongly enough. Not sure though how far you'd be prepared to travel. "

Thank you for the recommendation. I don't mind travel (I'm in fact heading that direction to VA on 18th March) but seems Jaydees won't work when I'm alone as it's a bit out of the way and I'm reliant on public transport! One to remember though.

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By *pank the MonkeyCouple
over a year ago

Fylde Coast


"Wow, you got rejected??? There are plenty of other clubs that would welcome you with open arms. I normally go to Jaydees, going there this Friday for their bi night, as a single female. I feel safe there, know that staff would look after me as they always do, whenever I'm on my own or with a partner. I can't recommend Jaydees strongly enough. Not sure though how far you'd be prepared to travel.

Thank you for the recommendation. I don't mind travel (I'm in fact heading that direction to VA on 18th March) but seems Jaydees won't work when I'm alone as it's a bit out of the way and I'm reliant on public transport! One to remember though. "

Our place for fun won't turn you away. LB,is notorious for its entry policy.

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford


"Wow, you got rejected??? There are plenty of other clubs that would welcome you with open arms. I normally go to Jaydees, going there this Friday for their bi night, as a single female. I feel safe there, know that staff would look after me as they always do, whenever I'm on my own or with a partner. I can't recommend Jaydees strongly enough. Not sure though how far you'd be prepared to travel.

Thank you for the recommendation. I don't mind travel (I'm in fact heading that direction to VA on 18th March) but seems Jaydees won't work when I'm alone as it's a bit out of the way and I'm reliant on public transport! One to remember though. "

Yes, the "not being accessible by public transport" is what's limiting me with Jaydees, too.

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton


"Sorry, but how on earth did you get rejected??

Oversubscribed is the line I was given. But I don't buy that for the single female category, particularly after things I've now read on Fab! "
. Hard to believe that you got rejected. I also applied recently and was turned down as well.The email I got said oversubscribed on single guys and single guys applications outnumber singles ladies and couples by 10 to 1.I hope your confidence has not taken too much a setback.It maybe worth considering OP4F in North London near Alexandria Palace station and 15-20 minute walk from Wood Green underground.Like Le Boudoir it’s a members only club so you will need to apply and wait to be accepted. I am a member and I can recommend as a clean tidy cozy club with respectful staff.Best of luck with whatever you decide to do.

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By *layPrincessDaddyBearCouple
over a year ago

Bracknell

Hiya, we were rejected a while back by le boudoir too. Please don’t let it put you off, if you’d like pm me( kazz) we are planning a few trips to VA ( we love this club) your welcome to hitch a lift with us there and back we always stay at a near by hotel though. The club run a shuttle to local hotels for the customers. Xxxxx

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By *nasuitMan
over a year ago

Ruislip

Our place 4 fun, friendliest club in London. Next door to a train station as well

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By *urreyVixenStagCouple
over a year ago

Surrey


"So I'd been hoping to break into the club scene for the first time this weekend and was hoping to meet some lovely friends and Fab people at Le Boudoir on Saturday 4th March.

However, I've had my application rejected. I'm pretty gutted and having built up my confidence to attend alone as a single female, feel like I've taken a knock back.

Searching the forums it seems like a thing they do, despite the fact that I'm always well turned out.

So my question is, who is going out this Saturday and can recommend an alternative club which would welcome me?

Thanks all"

Can't believe you got rejected! And I can't see how they are over subscribed with single females.

AbFabs is just near Heathrow T5 and easily accessible if you can get there. Saturday nights are couples and single ladies.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"So I'd been hoping to break into the club scene for the first time this weekend and was hoping to meet some lovely friends and Fab people at Le Boudoir on Saturday 4th March.

However, I've had my application rejected. I'm pretty gutted and having built up my confidence to attend alone as a single female, feel like I've taken a knock back.

Searching the forums it seems like a thing they do, despite the fact that I'm always well turned out.

So my question is, who is going out this Saturday and can recommend an alternative club which would welcome me?

Thanks all"

There are plenty of more clubs to go don't let it out you off.

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By *tartingoutlondonCouple
over a year ago

London

I don't think we can link to outside websites here, but search reddit for the topic "Club manager taking photo in the play room" posted yesterday, along with the response from the owner and you'll feel a lot better about not having your application accepted!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t know what’s on the 4th but Penthouse Playrooms in Dunstable is our place to go and we love it. You’ve got to be a member thought but single ladies have no issue at all, they process membership fairly quick, there’s Fab people going there and the atmosphere is great… We’ve also heard good things about Jaydees and VA, so give it a try and don’t let it put you off at all!

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

Le Boudoir does have very strange criteria if they wouldn't accept you. Regarding Saturday, there is an event at the House of Poitiers in Sutton that night. It has a dungeon area where a friend of mine should be doing her thing with impact, sensory, rope and wax play. Hopefully more accessible by public transport for you and I know a couple of people are travelling from your direction.

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford


"I don't think we can link to outside websites here, but search reddit for the topic "Club manager taking photo in the play room" posted yesterday, along with the response from the owner and you'll feel a lot better about not having your application accepted!"

Had a brief read through the post, can't see Manager's/owners reply, sadly. But from their history on here I'd expect something arrogant and entitled, along the lines of "it's my club and I can do what I want" or "you consented when you asked for membership" or similar.

Sometimes I would love to have my photo taken in the club, but when I first walk in, on themed events, so I can have a reminder of my outfit and the amazing outfits of other club goers, those that consent to having their photo taken on the day. But a "spur of the moment", when someone just gets the phone out and takes photos, that's a massive no-no. No matter who that person is.

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By *exysuperheroesCouple
over a year ago

Hinckley

We're thinking of either penthouse playrooms for the bmfc event or purple mamba for their casino themed event. Sorry you got your application rejected but please don't let it put you off. I have no doubt you'll have a great night whenever you choose x

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By *SquirtMan
over a year ago

Fleet

Can't believe you have been rejected. Don't take it hard.

You can look at Swindon Swingers Wicked party on 4th March which happens once in a month. It's always packed with se y couples and very limited gents (Max 10). You can get more info under club reviews but I can say it's best in the area.

I will be heading on Saturday, so happy to give you a lift from Fleet/ Basingstoke area and drop off. xx

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By *hegirlwiththepeachtattooWoman
over a year ago

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I know it’s a trek but I’m off to Pandora’s in Leeds on Saturday, like others have said there are sooooo many clubs that would welcome you with open arms.

This is why I avoid clubs/events like that. The whole “elite” thing with clubs only serves to inflate egos. Swinging/sex is for everyone and nobody should be made to feel shit because of how they look, we all have different tastes and preferences so what’s unattractive to the person reviewing applications might be perfection to someone else.

Good luck, have fun, and remember the issue is them, not you.

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By *ragon007Man
over a year ago

london


"So I'd been hoping to break into the club scene for the first time this weekend and was hoping to meet some lovely friends and Fab people at Le Boudoir on Saturday 4th March.

However, I've had my application rejected. I'm pretty gutted and having built up my confidence to attend alone as a single female, feel like I've taken a knock back.

Searching the forums it seems like a thing they do, despite the fact that I'm always well turned out.

So my question is, who is going out this Saturday and can recommend an alternative club which would welcome me?

Thanks all"

Out place 4 fun and VA better options

I will never go to club which rejects applications on looks

Thought swinging was about freedom not giving people

Points

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