FabSwingers.com forum: Sooo nervous

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Probably gonna sound stupid , keep thinking I'd like to try attic but I'm so nervous ( shy n not very confident) and it would probably be solo

I do av connections that av been but don't wanna invite myself or feel like a gooseberry

As for what to wear that's just another headache

Has anyone else felt that way ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol just realised probably wrong part of forum to post the above post

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Probably gonna sound stupid , keep thinking I'd like to try attic but I'm so nervous ( shy n not very confident) and it would probably be solo

I do av connections that av been but don't wanna invite myself or feel like a gooseberry

As for what to wear that's just another headache

Has anyone else felt that way ?"
shy people would be absolutely no good in a club I'm afraid, you need to strike up conversation and intereact with them to get success

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By *haveadreamMan
over a year ago

Fens

Try to get someone to go with you if it's your first time.

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

If you have connections with people who go then just turn up on a night they are there, no such thing as a gooseberry at a club. They will be happy to see you walk in

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By *ittle MonkeysCouple
over a year ago

Kimberley

"Probably gonna sound stupid , keep thinking I'd like to try attic but I'm so nervous ( shy n not very confident) and it would probably be solo

I do av connections that av been but don't wanna invite myself or feel like a gooseberry

As for what to wear that's just another headache

Has anyone else felt that way ?shy people would be absolutely no good in a club I'm afraid, you need to strike up conversation and intereact with them to get success

Don’t listen to that. You will be fine! A lady alone in a club will never be short of attention, I wouldn’t worry about a thing.

We will be at the Attic on Saturday and will definitely say hello if we see you alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's worth knowing that women are well looked after and looked out for in almost all well run clubs. Just tell them you are new and you'll have nothing to be worried about. Women have the power in this world and that's fact. The worst that could happen is you decide its nor for you and you call a taxi and go home.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Probably gonna sound stupid , keep thinking I'd like to try attic but I'm so nervous ( shy n not very confident) and it would probably be solo

I do av connections that av been but don't wanna invite myself or feel like a gooseberry

As for what to wear that's just another headache

Has anyone else felt that way ?shy people would be absolutely no good in a club I'm afraid, you need to strike up conversation and intereact with them to get success

Don’t listen to that. You will be fine! A lady alone in a club will never be short of attention, I wouldn’t worry about a thing.

We will be at the Attic on Saturday and will definitely say hello if we see you alone"

Thank you I'd deffo welcome the hello , tbf it would b in a few weeks time if I decided to go for it

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