FabSwingers.com forum: First time club experience

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all,

Never been to a club but always been intrigued about the prospect.

I was wondering if people with experience or anyone knowledgable could help me. The prospect of just turning up, I appreciate for many, is nothing but a big thrill. For me, the prospect is intimidating walking into somewhere like that new and as a solo guy.

Is there anyway to meet people or connect with them before? Other than looking for people’s statuses, I’m exasperated at trying to figure out the best approach? I don’t want to send copy and paste messages to multiple people, couples and singles as I know this annoys some people, and they will likely get ignored. (Let’s be honest, most people get a bombardment of messages from the guys!)

Any help would be great - ultimately we’re all here for the same thing and the lifestyle works better with guidance!