FabSwingers.com forum: Vanilla alternative Valentines weekend feb 10th and 11th

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So, who’s going? Amazing dj playing some fantastic music and full hot sexy guests.

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By *teed99Man
over a year ago

Kettering

Together with Halloween, New Year's Eve and Festival of Fun, Valentine's weekend are one of the times when many of the club's previous visitors get together to meet up, dress up and just enjoy the wonderful festival of love. Expect busy nights.

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By *ara DosCouple
over a year ago

Here, There, Everywhere

"So, who’s going? Amazing dj playing some fantastic music and full hot sexy guests.

We are going, Valentines is a great night at VA, if it’s anything like last year it will be a hot and horny one

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By *ap-scarCouple
over a year ago

Sleaford

We plan to go on the Saturday. First time at Va

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By *ecret-PlaymatesCouple
over a year ago

Your Wildest Fantasy.. ; )

Good job we’ve already booked.

Steed’s right though, Valentine’s is always a busy night

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By *unCuriousHarryMan
over a year ago

somrwhere over the rainbow, The Shire

I am hoping to go on Friday 10th Feb

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By *lirtyfortiesCouple
over a year ago

Horndean

Thinking of going on the Saturday. Will be our first visit to VA

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By *ara DosCouple
over a year ago

Here, There, Everywhere

VA is a perfect first time club. Its layout has a great flow plus you can stay on site in the hotel. It’s a friendly club and has a great party atmosphere, we are fans of Saturdays especially House Rocks nights ….. they are great!

Valentines will be a great night can’t wait. For that one.

We are going next Saturday to their Ibiza Night which will be fun, let’s face it who doesn’t need a bit of Ibiza in January???

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By *lirtyfortiesCouple
over a year ago

Horndean

We went to Penthouse for Nye. Was our first club visit and had a great time. Very busy though and appeared to be lots of single guys.

We both love the look of VA. Hopefully we'll find have the courage to play with others this time too

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By *ackonceagain321Couple
over a year ago

luton

We have just posted a thread asking about this very weekend we are first timers to va

And asking what night is the best do they vary at all from a Friday to Sat..

Bit nervous so if you see us please say hi

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We have just posted a thread asking about this very weekend we are first timers to va

And asking what night is the best do they vary at all from a Friday to Sat..

Bit nervous so if you see us please say hi "

I’d hazard a guess that sat night will be the better of the two. Rumour has it that four northern semi retired clubbers will be setting that dance floor on fire to a blistering set by dj Egg

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By *ara DosCouple
over a year ago

Here, There, Everywhere

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By *ara DosCouple
over a year ago

Here, There, Everywhere

"We went to Penthouse for Nye. Was our first club visit and had a great time. Very busy though and appeared to be lots of single guys.

We both love the look of VA. Hopefully we'll find have the courage to play with others this time too"

Valentines at VA is Friday & Saturday

The difference between the two is Friday is open to single guys, couple’s & single ladies. Whereas Saturday is couples & single females. Everyone’s a winner!

You will find themed nights attract more people and the club will be busier. However the VA layout can accommodate a large crowd as it has a great club layout

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We went to Penthouse for Nye. Was our first club visit and had a great time. Very busy though and appeared to be lots of single guys.

We both love the look of VA. Hopefully we'll find have the courage to play with others this time too

Valentines at VA is Friday & Saturday

The difference between the two is Friday is open to single guys, couple’s & single ladies. Whereas Saturday is couples & single females. Everyone’s a winner!

You will find themed nights attract more people and the club will be busier. However the VA layout can accommodate a large crowd as it has a great club layout "

How busy is busy?

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By *lirtyfortiesCouple
over a year ago

Horndean

Well, to be honest, we've not been to any others to compare. There was over 300 people apparently so felt a bit like a nightclub until we got naked after midnight

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By *rumNBaseCouple
over a year ago

Somersham

We are going, can't wait... sexy valentines fun with sexy people.

Mrs DrumNBase looking to explore her bi side but needs someone confident to take the lead

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By *eybert77Man
over a year ago

Ramsey

I’m looking forward to going on the Friday night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are going, can't wait... sexy valentines fun with sexy people.

Mrs DrumNBase looking to explore her bi side but needs someone confident to take the lead"

We are going too!

can’t wait! Looking forward to meeting you guys xx

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By *appy Go Lucky 169Couple
over a year ago

Telford

We’re head down to VA for the Valentines Party on the 11th so looking forward to it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sounds like it’s going to be a fantastic night, wish we were attending!

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By *appy Go Lucky 169Couple
over a year ago

Telford

"Sounds like it’s going to be a fantastic night, wish we were attending!

We wish you were attending

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By *rumNBaseCouple
over a year ago

Somersham

"We are going, can't wait... sexy valentines fun with sexy people.

Mrs DrumNBase looking to explore her bi side but needs someone confident to take the lead

We are going too!

can’t wait! Looking forward to meeting you guys xx"

Looking forward to meeting you guys too xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of sexy people attending

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By *entcpl72Couple
over a year ago

south london

We are attending for our first time

Anyone ever used the shuttle service ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We are attending for our first time

Anyone ever used the shuttle service ?"

We’d love to know too! Just in case we decide to go to VA

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By *rumNBaseCouple
over a year ago

Somersham

Shuttle service is a winner!

We have used it and it could even be called the bang bus as one couple decided just to carry on once on board

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By *entcpl72Couple
over a year ago

south london

Do they text you when they collect you from hotel or do you just wait outside ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are going on the Friday night if anyone wants to chat before then pm us x

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By *appy Go Lucky 169Couple
over a year ago

Telford

"We are attending for our first time

Anyone ever used the shuttle service ?"

We used the shuttle bus on our first visit to VA. Got a text when they arrived to collect us. We’re booking the shuttle for next Saturday night.

See you there

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By *AnonymousCouple
over a year ago

We’re heading to VA on the Friday night. It will be our first time at any club, we’re nervous but excited too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there any rooms left on the Friday?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is there any rooms left on the Friday? "

Have you called and asked?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No as says only phone from 11-7 Tuesday to Friday

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By *ap-scarCouple
over a year ago

Sleaford

We are headed down for the Saturday. First time to VA....a little nervous. If anyone is going that night and fancies a chat prior...drop us a message

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By *xJust4fun22Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Going on the saturday night, looking forward to it so much, it will be our second time.

Feel free to message us if you are going too.

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By *elle and JamesCouple
over a year ago

Hornchurch (and Cambridge)

Our first visit to VA (where it all began for us) in ages for Saturday night, if only we had the bodies we had seven years ago

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By *ap-scarCouple
over a year ago

Sleaford

"Our first visit to VA (where it all began for us) in ages for Saturday night, if only we had the bodies we had seven years ago

You look great to us!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Our first visit to VA (where it all began for us) in ages for Saturday night, if only we had the bodies we had seven years ago

We’re sure that you’ll have a whale of a time

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By *andW4funCouple
over a year ago

Kent

We’ll be there Saturday, see you all there. Can’t wait to be back at the VA!!! x

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

Need to get back to VA. We're in the big smoke at the weekend so will miss valentines. Will have to book in soon though, miss partying

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By *ed_AstrayCouple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

We will be visiting on the Friday night.

Feel free to message if you are giing to be there!

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By *eandMrsJonesxCouple
over a year ago

worcestershire

Hello all, we're looking at attending Saturday. We've never been to VA is there a Guest list and can we just join/pay at the door? Thanks

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By *teed99Man
over a year ago

Kettering

"Hello all, we're looking at attending Saturday. We've never been to VA is there a Guest list and can we just join/pay at the door? Thanks

You need to register as a couple on the club's website as it's a Private Member's Club. It will save a lot of time if you do this before Saturday. Then on Saturday night you can pay on the door. Please bring ID for both of you on your first visit and towels if you want to go in the hot tub.

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By *weetchestnutCouple
over a year ago

South East

Hi,

We are looking at attending VA on Saturday. We are not new to swinging but very new to the club scene. Feel free to say hi and send us your top tips on how to not stand out as a club newbie

Thanks

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By *teed99Man
over a year ago

Kettering

"Hi,

We are looking at attending VA on Saturday. We are not new to swinging but very new to the club scene. Feel free to say hi and send us your top tips on how to not stand out as a club newbie

Thanks

Every weekend at The Vanilla Alternative we get 6 - 8 couples starting their club journey. Some are very nervous whilst others can be over enthusiastic. After booking in, we find a short tour around the club calms nerves and offers a chance to ask questions. Go steady on the alcohol. Whilst it might seem a good idea to calm nerves, reality can hit home sooner than you think!

All club visitors with any level of experience are up for a good conversation with others. It's very easy to get that started so don't hide in a corner, mingle with others and you will soon find someone to chat to.

And finally, just enjoy yourselves and go with the flow. Everyone is very relaxed, very respectful and non-judgmental. Have a great evening.

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By *urious IvyCouple
over a year ago

Harleston

We are attending on Saturday, it’s our second visit to VA

Looking forward to it xx

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By *uts and seedsCouple
over a year ago

South Central

Hi all,

We are hoping to go on Saturday - really looking forward to a red and hot evening. Will be our first proper visit to VA although no strangers to other clubs. Be great to meet you all there!

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By *eandMrsJonesxCouple
over a year ago

worcestershire

Hotel booked for Saturday

looking forward to our first visit to VA!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hotel booked for Saturday

looking forward to our first visit to VA! "

Meet you in the hotel bar guys

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By *ewbieCouple2022Couple
over a year ago

london

We’re going Friday, can’t wait!

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By *eandMrsJonesxCouple
over a year ago

worcestershire

We've booked the Premier Inn just down the road, are you staying at VA? Also does anybody know how often the shuttle bus runs? X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We've booked the Premier Inn just down the road, are you staying at VA? Also does anybody know how often the shuttle bus runs? X"

Oh, we won’t meet you in the bar then lol x

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By *ewbieCouple2022Couple
over a year ago

london

I believe you just let a member of the team know when you’re ready to leave and they will arrange to take you.

That’s usually what happens

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By *appy Go Lucky 169Couple
over a year ago

Telford

"We've booked the Premier Inn just down the road, are you staying at VA? Also does anybody know how often the shuttle bus runs? X"

Best to give the VA a call to book the shuttle. Sounds like it’s going to be a busy Saturday night.

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By *entcpl72Couple
over a year ago

south london

Every 30 mins by the sound of things

We are at premier and leaving at 8:30

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Every 30 mins by the sound of things

We are at premier and leaving at 8:30"

Is that the same on a Friday?

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By *teed99Man
over a year ago

Kettering

Just to clarify the situation regarding the VA shuttle. It will pick up from the 2 Premier Inns and Wyboston Lakes. You must contact the club by phone to book a pick up. At the end of the evening, return journeys will be made when enough people are ready.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going this Saturday 11th for our first visit. Hopefully we’ll find a lovely couple or single beauty to play with or full swap. Tbh, there are some lovely messages in this forum from some genuine people, we’re looking forward to a great night. xx

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By *ustuslookingCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

We're hoping to be there Saturday night

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Whoop, another day over and done with, then one more sleep. The O’s are absolutely so excited, quickly reserve your spot on the dance floor, as we’ll pinch it.

Note for the bar huggers( you know who you are) you WILL dance and your under orders!!

Xxxxx

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By *twentyNorfolkCouple
over a year ago

cambs norfolk border

We’re looking forward to lots of naughty fun tomorrow night feel free to come say hello…have a cheeky feel

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By *igG86Man
over a year ago

Godmanchester

"We've booked the Premier Inn just down the road, are you staying at VA? Also does anybody know how often the shuttle bus runs? X"

You need to phone the club mobile to arrange the shuttle service and see when they puck up from the Premier Inn.

Also make sure you go to the right one as there are 2 very close together, the Wyboston/A1 you can look up the crown inn it's right next door. The colworth park look up highwayman it's attached

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By *r and Mrs JKDCouple
over a year ago

luton

We are attending tomorrow night (friday) hoping for a really good night we have heard good things about previous years

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By *rCheeky91Man
over a year ago

London

Anybody attending tomorrow

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By *twentyNorfolkCouple
over a year ago

cambs norfolk border

Only a few hours to go now…really looking forward to seeing lots of sexy people in sexy lingerie later…and lots of naughty fun too. Do say hello if you see us…or join in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the patrons of VA, are there any lockable rooms at the venue, like they have in Kestrels?

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By *he naughty couple 200Couple
over a year ago

in the middle of nowhere

Hi we’re looking to come to VA saturday night feel free to drop us a message if you’d like to chat and get to know us more xM&Dx

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By *l AlCouple
over a year ago

Winchester

Looking forward to a fun filled Saturday night at VA this weekend.

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By *ara DosCouple
over a year ago

Here, There, Everywhere

It long now until Saturday x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" It long now until Saturday x"

Whoop! We really can’t wait…. One more sleep

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By *he naughty couple 200Couple
over a year ago

in the middle of nowhere

Looks like it’s going to be a good night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For the patrons of VA, are there any lockable rooms at the venue, like they have in Kestrels? "

No, unless you count the hotel rooms upstairs (if you’ve booked one)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking forward to it

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By *ap-scarCouple
over a year ago

Sleaford

We are really excited to speak to some new people xx

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For the patrons of VA, are there any lockable rooms at the venue, like they have in Kestrels?

No, unless you count the hotel rooms upstairs (if you’ve booked one)"

It doesn’t appear to bode well for couples looking for intimacy or privacy.

Thanks for the info.

Hope you a great evening

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By *nnandElleCouple
over a year ago

Brackley

We're at VA tonight, should be a great one and looking to make new connections. I (Enn) will be the guy in the red leather jock handing out roses as Elle towers above me in her 6" heel thigh boots.

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By *teed99Man
over a year ago

Kettering

WOW! What a wonderful Friday night. Let's do it all again tonight. Remember the red underwear if you want to follow the theme.

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By *twentyNorfolkCouple
over a year ago

cambs norfolk border

Loved last night

So many sexy people in sexy lingerie shame we can’t make it back tonight too

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By *eybert77Man
over a year ago

Ramsey

Fantastic night last night, hope everyone has as much fun tonight too

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By *ara DosCouple
over a year ago

Here, There, Everywhere

"Whoop, another day over and done with, then one more sleep. The O’s are absolutely so excited, quickly reserve your spot on the dance floor, as we’ll pinch it.

Note for the bar huggers( you know who you are) you WILL dance and your under orders!!

Xxxxx"

Ha ha

Don’t Peak to early guys if it’s anything like last year you’ll need your energy for Playtime later

If you’re nice to us we’ll have a drink ready for you in our favourite corner Don’t forget your RED!!!!! PVC’s see you later xxx

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By *ap-scarCouple
over a year ago

Sleaford

As newbies to VA are we right in thinking that coming in at 8 is best to get settled?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Whoop, another day over and done with, then one more sleep. The O’s are absolutely so excited, quickly reserve your spot on the dance floor, as we’ll pinch it.

Note for the bar huggers( you know who you are) you WILL dance and your under orders!!

Xxxxx

Ha ha

Don’t Peak to early guys if it’s anything like last year you’ll need your energy for Playtime later

If you’re nice to us we’ll have a drink ready for you in our favourite corner Don’t forget your RED!!!!! PVC’s see you later xxx

Like I’ve said before ‘you’ve more chance of knitting fog’ to see me in red gruds, where as Mrs O will be killing it

See you there guys x

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By *irty-couple 123Couple
over a year ago

cambridge

We will be there can’t wait

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As newbies to VA are we right in thinking that coming in at 8 is best to get settled? "

We are going also and have arranged the bus for 8, so 8 sounds good to us

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By *ara DosCouple
over a year ago

Here, There, Everywhere

"As newbies to VA are we right in thinking that coming in at 8 is best to get settled?

We are going also and have arranged the bus for 8, so 8 sounds good to us

You’ll be fine normally 8 is a bit early but on event nights it gets busy early on.

We will be at the end of the bar near dj end come say hi and we’ll introduce you to the gang xx we normally get there for 9 .

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By *uts and seedsCouple
over a year ago

South Central

We’re planning on about 8.30 - will be good to say hi.

First proper visit to VA for us too.

C&A xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Checked in and getting ready, see you all soon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone at the Premier Inn next to the Crown? Drop us a message!

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