FabSwingers.com forum: Fun @ 40s Liberty Elite

By *p4fun60 OP Couple
over a year ago

Hampshire

With the next one due on the 1st of Feb I was just wondering who else is going to this really well organised & attended event, will be our 3rd time & can't wait

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By *quirtyndirty!Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

We are thinking of going .. does it get busy ?

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By *p4fun60 OP Couple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Not as busy as the next V2V event but on the same lines & some really nice couples there & a great atmosphere thanks to the event organisers

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By *quirtyndirty!Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Sounds good , we quite like busy ish without being packed... just need to wriggle out of work on Thursday lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a great event, I will be there with Littlemissxx

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By *wesomeLolaCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough and Buckinghamshire

"Not as busy as the next V2V event but on the same lines & some really nice couples there & a great atmosphere thanks to the event organisers "

Yes, V2V is looking very busy, might not be anywhere to play unless you get in quick!

Sadly we won't be at Fun at 40 as we'll be on holiday, but V2V is go!

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By *p4fun60 OP Couple
over a year ago

Hampshire

"Not as busy as the next V2V event but on the same lines & some really nice couples there & a great atmosphere thanks to the event organisers

Yes, V2V is looking very busy, might not be anywhere to play unless you get in quick!

Sadly we won't be at Fun at 40 as we'll be on holiday, but V2V is go!

Will always make room in the jacuzzi for you two x

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By *ittlemissxxWoman
over a year ago

lincs

I can't wait the organisers are sp lovely and made ne feel so welcome and checked in on me all night as it was only my second club visit and I was a little nervous!

Feel free to message me if you are also attending!

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By *wesomeLolaCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough and Buckinghamshire

"Will always make room in the jacuzzi for you two x"

Oooh be careful, someone's gonna be saying "get a room"!

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By *ice_couple2012Couple
over a year ago

Leicester

We are planning on going. We had a fantastic time at the last one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will paying my first visit to Liberty for this event. Visiting from Newcastle and heard great things about how friendly, inviting and good fun it is so can’t wait.

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By *p4fun60 OP Couple
over a year ago

Hampshire

After the excitement of socialising with youngsters & newbies at the V2V event last night we're really looking forward to getting back to the preference of playing with our own age group at this event lol

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By *enus and Mars100Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Being midweek it makes it awkward for us to get there, we have attended a few times all same. In all honesty we did find the average age group was higher than 40s

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By *p4fun60 OP Couple
over a year ago

Hampshire

"Being midweek it makes it awkward for us to get there, we have attended a few times all same. In all honesty we did find the average age group was higher than 40s"

Agreed the average was 50s that's why we like it & it wont be as busy as the V2V we're also staying over in your old room 4 this time

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By *enus and Mars100Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Enjoy

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By *abuedoCouple
over a year ago

Leamington Spa

"Being midweek it makes it awkward for us to get there, we have attended a few times all same. In all honesty we did find the average age group was higher than 40s"

Same. We stopped going as the age group seemed to increase every month - says us in our mid fifties, haha but we prefer getting down & dirty with the ‘kids’ and loved V2V. The fun @ 40 hosts both work hard so I’m sure it’ll be a great night.

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By *enus and Mars100Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"Being midweek it makes it awkward for us to get there, we have attended a few times all same. In all honesty we did find the average age group was higher than 40s

We felt pretty ignored at V2V....very cliquey

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By *enus and Mars100Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"Being midweek it makes it awkward for us to get there, we have attended a few times all same. In all honesty we did find the average age group was higher than 40s

But maybe we dont suit everyones idolics....we are who we are

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By *W Cunning-linguistMan
over a year ago

Gloucester ish

My 3rd visit in Feb. Really enjoyed meeting interesting and fun folk there on the last occasions, even without playing, its a great event !

If you see me, do say hi .... ill be in a kilt, with a handlebar 'tasche .... thats me, not the kilt (obvs).

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By *abuedoCouple
over a year ago

Leamington Spa

"Being midweek it makes it awkward for us to get there, we have attended a few times all same. In all honesty we did find the average age group was higher than 40s

We felt pretty ignored at V2V....very cliquey"

Aww we felt the complete opposite; so many couples new to the lifestyle who we hadn’t crossed paths with before so we thought it was refreshingly un-cliquey. Made lots of new fab friends. If you go again we’ll def come say hello. xx

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By *enus and Mars100Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"Being midweek it makes it awkward for us to get there, we have attended a few times all same. In all honesty we did find the average age group was higher than 40s

We felt pretty ignored at V2V....very cliquey

We sat on our own most the night, we left early as we both felt disappointed. We spoke with a few in the hottub (after queueing to get in) It felt hard work to get conversations started, get a drink or even navigate round the bar. Doubtful we will return

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By *quirtyndirty!Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

It's really hard to mix and mingle if you are sat down at a club especially if it's a busy night. We like to stand or visit more social areas like the smoking area (neither of us smoke lol) but you can get into better conversations with more people. If you're sat down you can be stuck next to people you have no interest in , or they have no interest in you, and it's more off putting for others to initiate conversations with you .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will anybody actually be having sex at this event or is it all peacocks and voyers? That was our only disappointment going to Liberty in the past, too many folk just wanting to watch.

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By *kinkycpleCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

I agree with the above about sitting. Whilst it was packed in the V2V night we stood at the bar and had lots of conversations and found everyone really friendly. Perhaps as there were lots of newbies (us included) many couples were a little standoffish?

We heard how busy it was in the play areas but we figured it would quieten down, so we left it till later to go through and managed to find an empty bed and had a really good time.

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By *andbCouple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

We've decided to attend the event on the 1st. It will be our 2nd visit to Libs in 3 weeks, disgraceful isn't it..lol

We also attended V2V and have to say that's the busiest we have ever seen Libs.

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

"We've decided to attend the event on the 1st. It will be our 2nd visit to Libs in 3 weeks, disgraceful isn't it..lol

We also attended V2V and have to say that's the busiest we have ever seen Libs. "

It was our first visit to Libs for V2V. We couldn't fault the club, the organisation and there were plenty of hot couples but in our opinion the guestlist does need to be revised as there was far too many people for the size of the club and its facilities.

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By *enus and Mars100Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"It's really hard to mix and mingle if you are sat down at a club especially if it's a busy night. We like to stand or visit more social areas like the smoking area (neither of us smoke lol) but you can get into better conversations with more people. If you're sat down you can be stuck next to people you have no interest in , or they have no interest in you, and it's more off putting for others to initiate conversations with you ."

We did and we also went on the dance floor.

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By *quirtyndirty!Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Will anybody actually be having sex at this event or is it all peacocks and voyers? That was our only disappointment going to Liberty in the past, too many folk just wanting to watch."

When we've been to Libs it's usually on an event night (Dangerous curves, dark desires & V2V) it's been very play heavy particularly in the main spa room.

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By *p4fun60 OP Couple
over a year ago

Hampshire

"Being midweek it makes it awkward for us to get there, we have attended a few times all same. In all honesty we did find the average age group was higher than 40s

We felt pretty ignored at V2V....very cliquey

That's such a shame you felt that way. Personally we really rate the 40s night,we must do as we travel 3 hours to get to it!

it's a great atmosphere & we found everyone so friendly & certainly not cliquey & we were made to feel very welcome & got into conversation really easy-but we're firm believers in you only get out of this lifestyle what you're prepared to put into it,- so yes there was a lot of sex going on & no you didn't have to que for the bar or jacuzzi.

You have to remember this is a very different event from that of the V2V which as great as it was, unfortunately was a victim of its own success in that it was far to over subscribed on the guest list, largely due to the organisers podcast success,& the want of all their listeners & newbies to experience the lifestyle that they'd been listening about & which in our humble opinion whilst being good for mixing new blood into the lifestyle also stinted a lot of play as there were lots walking around not knowing or being too scared how to approach anyone & was just too busy something we've never experienced on the 40s night and just looking at the guestlist now, there's less than 1/2 of that of the V2V

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

This exactly. Either stand or sit on a tall stool. Very intimidating to approach anyone sat down on a settee.

I once went to Quest. A couple had traveled a good few miles to be there. They put a meet up on the forum. They sat in a corner. In a most difficult to get to spot. I didn’t spot them leaving that corner to make any attempt to mingle. They later left a review saying how cliquey the club was, and they wouldn’t be returning. Lol.

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By *abuedoCouple
over a year ago

Leamington Spa

"Will anybody actually be having sex at this event or is it all peacocks and voyers? That was our only disappointment going to Liberty in the past, too many folk just wanting to watch."

We stopped visiting certain events at Libs for the same reason but although we haven’t been to fun @ 40 for a couple of months, it was always a good play night & everyone seemed to get stuck in.

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Hi everyone, as hosts of V2V we have read some of the comments and thought we would respond. Vanilla To Vixen is an event that makes a special point of welcoming newcomers to Liberty Elite and the swinging club scene. There were between 20 and 30 couples at our last event who had never been to a club before. We are disappointed to read that one couple who visited our event felt it was a "cliquey" experience for them. As there are so many brand new attendees at our events, we always try to talk to as many of them as possible. We love hearing about their jouneys and how they became interested in this crazy world. We say "try and set a goal of chatting to as many new people at the club as you can to get the best experience". We put our heart and soul into making everyone feel as welcome as possible, no matter what level of experience in the lifestyle. We would describe our event as the polar opposite of cliquey as so many couples are attending for the first time.

We do agree it was very very busy at the last event. Generally some couples do drop out at the last minute. However at our last event I think we only had one cancellation. Leaving us with a very busy night. Unfortunately V2V cannot be everything to everyone, which is why Liberty Elite has so many other fantastic events like the over 40s night. The club also has nights that are not hosted, these generally are much quieter for people that prefer it that way.

We would like to thank everyone who supports our events and we hope you all enjoy them as much as we love hosting them. We do what we do out of passion for the lifestyle and the lovely people we get to meet along the way.

Mr and Mrs N x

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By *p4fun60 OP Couple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Donna & I certainly agree with everything you said about your event & it was a lovely evening and as you agreed it was just a bit too busy, we even played with a newbie couple as well as chatting with yourself, however we do feel that this whole thread has unfortunately been high jacked as it was originally started for Isobels 40s night & has no real comparison to the V2V other than trying to explain to a couple that it wouldn't be as busy as yours, but hats off to you & tbh if we weren't away skiing we'd be straight on your guest list for your Hollywood night x Paula x

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By *p4fun60 OP Couple
over a year ago

Hampshire

"I agree with the above about sitting. Whilst it was packed in the V2V night we stood at the bar and had lots of conversations and found everyone really friendly. Perhaps as there were lots of newbies (us included) many couples were a little standoffish?

I thought how well you two looked & mingled in the jacuzzi, which is always a great way to brake the ice, & we look forward to seeing you both when we get back x

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"Donna & I certainly agree with everything you said about your event & it was a lovely evening and as you agreed it was just a bit too busy, we even played with a newbie couple as well as chatting with yourself, however we do feel that this whole thread has unfortunately been high jacked as it was originally started for Isobels 40s night & has no real comparison to the V2V other than trying to explain to a couple that it wouldn't be as busy as yours, but hats off to you & tbh if we weren't away skiing we'd be straight on your guest list for your Hollywood night x Paula x"

Thankyou both for your lovely compliments. It does mean a lot to us x

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By *quirtyndirty!Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Well said Mr and Mrs N! V2V is probably the least cliquey event we've been to, everyone makes an effort to talk to newbies ! I'm sure the over 40s night is the same x

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By *iking SoftiesCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield

HI all, we will be making our second visit to this event on 1st Feb. We went in November and really enjoyed the evening. Looking forward to this visit and making new friends

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By *p4fun60 OP Couple
over a year ago

Hampshire

"HI all, we will be making our second visit to this event on 1st Feb. We went in November and really enjoyed the evening. Looking forward to this visit and making new friends "

Look forward to saying hi at the bar

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By *ennis and MinnieCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Looking forward to another fun evening next Wednesday

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By *W Cunning-linguistMan
over a year ago

Gloucester ish

Bugger !

Blasted work has messed up my fun and given me two meetings that make Wednesday impossible to get to and back from !

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By *ittlemissxxWoman
over a year ago

lincs

So excited now! Just 2 days of work to go!

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By *quirtyndirty!Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

We are looking forwards to it, not been to Libs midweek before!

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By *ambs_swingMan
over a year ago

Home

I’m hoping to make it, first visit to liberty

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By *wesomeLolaCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough and Buckinghamshire

Seems that nobody has posted about this event for April. It's April 5th.

We're going to be there, the room is booked. Who else?

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By *xposedInTheSunCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

We'll be there, and staying over. First time at Liberty in ages!

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By *xposedInTheSunCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

And there's several couples who've put meetings up for it.

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By *wesomeLolaCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough and Buckinghamshire

"And there's several couples who've put meetings up for it."

Oh - so there are! Looks good to me.

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By *iking SoftiesCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield

We will be there on Wednesday, looking forward to it

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By *risAlex514Couple
over a year ago

Bedworth

Is the smoking room for talking or smoking? Because of such people, people are discouraged from visiting such clubs because they have to stand in the rain or frost because you keep your asses warm. You want to talk, go to the pub

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By *risAlex514Couple
over a year ago

Bedworth

Honest truth

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By *ntriguingcouple22Couple
over a year ago

Suffolk

We are looking to attend the next one of these events and wanted to know if anyone else is? Are they a busy night?

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By *est56Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Love Liberty's. Back for first over 40s night on 2nd August. Say Hi if you are going. X

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By *nnate ProblemMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Is there still an event tonight?

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By *ndyPandyLoopyLouCouple
over a year ago

Cornwall

"Love Liberty's. Back for first over 40s night on 2nd August. Say Hi if you are going. X "

We are going this evening. Only been once before.

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By *nnate ProblemMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I've been before but never in the week. What's it like?

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By *portyndNaughtyMan
over a year ago

Nearby Hinckley

It is a guest list only event, irrespective you are a club member. Single men places are very restricted and if you are considering attending tonight it is extremely likely is over subscribed for single guys.

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By *nnate ProblemMan
over a year ago

Northampton

If it would be with a friend but thanks. Shame I won't be able to go by myself though.

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By *quirtyndirty!Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Is anyone going to the next one on the 4th October? We are hoping to get along for some naughty midweek fun !

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By *quirtyndirty!Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Looks like only us then !

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By *p4fun60 OP Couple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Lol that what we thought on the last one but tbh there's always a good turn out & vibe there, I'm sure you'll have a great time

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By *s Lola Wand - SocketWoman
over a year ago

leicester

"Looks like only us then ! "

You two are a complete party

The fun at 40’s gets a good midweek crowd though x

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By *oninCouple
over a year ago

Maldon

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By *oninCouple
over a year ago

Maldon

"Is anyone going to the next one on the 4th October? We are hoping to get along for some naughty midweek fun ! "

We're going.

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By *idlands_MarkMan
over a year ago

Pershore

Hey everyone,

I’m at my first Fun At 40s at Libs this Wednesday. Who else is going?

Drop me a quick hi by message or on here, it’d be great to chat a bit beforehand.

Mark x

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By *ennis and MinnieCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"Is anyone going to the next one on the 4th October? We are hoping to get along for some naughty midweek fun ! "

We’re going and looking forward to it

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By *nnate ProblemMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I'm definitely tempted.

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